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Topic: Would you make an effort?
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:19 AM
:smile: If your significant other was worried about you for something, would you make an effort to change that situation to alleviate his/her worry?:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:21 AM
* Yes

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:21 AM
Yes, of course... but within that I'd say that explaining and communicating effectively could be all the action that is required.

BertDCaveman's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:21 AM
Hmmm They should worry about me

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:23 AM

Hmmm They should worry about me
laugh

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:23 AM

:smile: If your significant other was worried about you for something, would you make an effort to change that situation to alleviate his/her worry?:smile:


can't

my situation is something to worry over and there's nothing I can do about it

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:29 AM
Depends on what they are worried about... I will not change for no man, unless it would mean a positive on my behalf.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:30 AM
use your life line,

pick up the phone,

and let a brotha know!

drinker drinker drinker drinker

Jtree43's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:36 AM

:smile: If your significant other was worried about you for something, would you make an effort to change that situation to alleviate his/her worry?:smile:
If I had a SO yeah, I'd make an effort

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 12/23/08 10:44 AM
If she is worried about something in particular that I am doing...yeah.

If she's worried about my " immortal soul ", I'll deal with that on my own.

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 05:38 PM
If it affected my health of functioning and it wasn't just them that thought so, of course!

misstina2's photo
Tue 12/23/08 05:39 PM
everything should be discussed and both people should agree on a solution to any problems

Mr_Schwalbauch's photo
Tue 12/23/08 05:54 PM
Truly depends.....If it was a harmful habit that I had pickd up after I was with this person, then yes, but, if it was something that was already a part of me before I met this person, then nope. I am who I am, and I don't want to change.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 12/24/08 03:44 PM

everything should be discussed and both people should agree on a solution to any problems
flowerforyou I agreeflowerforyou

squonk's photo
Thu 12/25/08 07:23 AM

:smile: If your significant other was worried about you for something, would you make an effort to change that situation to alleviate his/her worry?:smile:


Depends.. I saw someone on the site freaking the **** out after a kid grew up and left the nest... If a girl of mine was constantly worrying that I didn't come home at the same exact time everyday was an hour late was out late without her, etc I think that she would have to take a chill pill. I am not meant to cause her pain and anxiety.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 04/01/09 03:03 PM


:smile: If your significant other was worried about you for something, would you make an effort to change that situation to alleviate his/her worry?:smile:


Depends.. I saw someone on the site freaking the **** out after a kid grew up and left the nest... If a girl of mine was constantly worrying that I didn't come home at the same exact time everyday was an hour late was out late without her, etc I think that she would have to take a chill pill. I am not meant to cause her pain and anxiety.
:thumbsup:

davidben1's photo
Wed 04/01/09 03:06 PM
the question be most in changing something, would this weaken or strengthen the sig other???

to change all things another requests, can indeed reduce another to a pile of ashe of fear run amuck???

peace

misstina2's photo
Wed 04/01/09 03:07 PM
love his worries are my worrieslove

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/01/09 05:44 PM

:smile: If your significant other was worried about you for something, would you make an effort to change that situation to alleviate his/her worry?:smile:


I would listen to what he had to say,I would evaluate it and then decide. If there was validity that it was harmful to me then I most likely would, if I felt he was being overly alarmed probably not.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 04/01/09 05:51 PM
I would listen to see if it was a valid concern.

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