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Topic: Could you trust someone again after they cheated on you?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 12/21/08 05:37 PM
Could you ever trust someone again after they cheated on you?

squonk Joined Thu 12/11/08 Posts: 390	Sun 12/21/08 05:38 PM
nope.

SeriouslyJustSayHi Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 352	Sun 12/21/08 05:38 PM
no

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Sun 12/21/08 05:40 PM
in general? it will take some time... with my heart? it would take even longer...

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 12/21/08 05:40 PM
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 12/21/08 05:43 PM
in general? it will take some time... with my heart? it would take even longer... good answer

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Sun 12/21/08 05:45 PM
in general? it will take some time... with my heart? it would take even longer... good answer ty ... what about you though what is your answer

Ron1218 Joined Sun 11/30/08 Posts: 1246	Sun 12/21/08 05:45 PM
Sure, so long as we lived in the antarctic and that was the only other guy there whom just happened to be deported after I found out.

ashley_renee Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 14755	Sun 12/21/08 06:15 PM
Folling you again.

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Sun 12/21/08 06:18 PM
It would take a long long time and it probably would never reach the level that it was at before being cheated on.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sun 12/21/08 06:19 PM Edited by Rock on Sun 12/21/08 06:21 PM
There are a few reasons that I'd never give a second chance. Cheating is at the top of the list. edited... typing while tired.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 12/21/08 06:34 PM
It's tough enough to gain my trust in the first place. Absolutely no way she would ever get it back again if she cheated on me.

imsingle951 Joined Mon 12/01/08 Posts: 1984	Sun 12/21/08 06:38 PM
possably could. But it would take a while to build that trust once again

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sun 12/21/08 06:42 PM
No; or at least not in the same way or to the same level as before. I have rarely stayed with anyone who has cheated on me or who has had a strong potential to. For me to even consider trying to trust them again, there would have to be other extraordinarily positive reasons for wanting to keep them in my life. A lot of it depends on character. Otherwise, kick 'em to the curb and nevah look back.

RacerMatt Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 722	Sun 12/21/08 06:42 PM
Well lets see, I walked in and found her in my bed with my so called best friend. The word "trust" was the last word on my mind.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Mon 12/22/08 12:57 AM
ALOT also depends on whether this has happened just once, or if it is a long-standing pattern in the person's life that will errode the relationship and sense of trust and respect between us. For without trust and respect, we have nothing.

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Mon 12/22/08 01:23 AM
It would take a miracle.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Mon 12/22/08 01:55 AM
Yup. They don't have to be Saint John for me to forgive and keep on being myself. That's not to say that I am blind or saddened by things, but people are people.

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