Topic: When's the best time to share who we are?
KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:08 PM
I truly think we should air our laundry clean/dirty' on the second.

Date so im not trying to scare a fellow off but.

In my humble humble opinion the sooner the.

Better atleast you know who i am! so what do you think? Thanks-Koolshocked waving


Drifters13's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:10 PM
I have found that if I talk about my past or "air my dirty laundry" I just scare poeple off.

So I don't do it anymore. My past before you knew me is my business and no one elses.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:13 PM
I will answer any questions a woman has no matter how many dates we've been on.

If she finds out a whole lot of stuff about me before we even go out on a date, so be it. She'll know what she's getting into with me.

bradlyy's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:19 PM
Edited by bradlyy on Sat 12/20/08 07:20 PM
if im ask ill anwser any questions but i dont want over load anybody

Redshirt's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:22 PM
Think it is best a little bit at a time. A level of trust and respect has to be developed.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:24 PM
Edited by KoolAidWoman on Sat 12/20/08 07:27 PM
Hi all! What makes you /you. {now not your past}

What makes you tick? or Tock? happy/unhappy.

What make the other person Tick Or Tock? maybe.

You peeps can come to a very hummmmm happy!, medium? you.

Think? Kool thinks so!.think :thumbsup:

no photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:27 PM

I will answer any questions a woman has no matter how many dates we've been on.

If she finds out a whole lot of stuff about me before we even go out on a date, so be it. She'll know what she's getting into with me.


This makes sense to me. I mean, I'm not going to hand her a 1200-page dossier the first time I meet her -- that's what my profile is for -- but if there's a question, I would answer it.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:36 PM
I like a man that can cook some great BBq!
So that tell's him he can strut his stuff.
I like a man that is humorous if he can tell.
A funny joke we'll get alone just fine.Koollaugh

unsure's photo
Sat 12/20/08 07:48 PM
I have nothing to hide in my past BUT I won't go sharing all of my information with someone on a first date either. I usually wait for awhile to tell someone certain things about me. Some things are better left unsaid...I feel like my past is just that, MY PAST!! They are dating me, not my past..so why do they need to know everything about my past???

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 12/20/08 09:04 PM

I will answer any questions a woman has no matter how many dates we've been on.

If she finds out a whole lot of stuff about me before we even go out on a date, so be it. She'll know what she's getting into with me.


Aye, that be how I am as well.