I think people are just out there dating and meeting people maybe just
to get out.I never signed up for a dating site with any expectations
other than maybe I would get a night or two out wth someone and have
some laughs.I did get to meet some friends in Canada and I will always
have those memories to cherish but honestly I like to come and chat on
the forums because try having a phone conversation in this house and all
of a sudden Brandon acts like he is auditioning for the circus.
in conclusion its a great way to meet friends but I've never gotten a
date out of it nor to i expect to.

Since I am not seeking the 'one' I don't get discouraged in that way...
If anything should happen, it will. and, I will probably blind-sided by
it for not paying attention

But yes. I've seen so many bouncers, it gets confusing.

On minute you're talking to someone, even if breifly, the next new blood
comes in flashing that pouty, or beautiful smile, and POOF! dust.


Lust, and the human being, eh?

You know one thing we can do is communicate w/eachother. If any of us
start getting serious about someone, ask others for their opinion about
that person. If 2 heads are better than 1, how many of us are there
here. We all make different friends, so we hear/know different things.
If we all cover eachothers backs, it s safer for all. So lean on
eachother folks, do it in IM & only you 2 will know. Just a thought,
might save a lot of hurt.

oops! Heya Jackie!

I hear that.

Have met some awesome folks in the process!

Lust on the puter, just means cyber sex.
I have never had a cyber sex thing lead to a decent friendship, let
alone a relationship. If lust is leading you, play w/yourself & get
over it.

good idea sage..

Hey scttr I have a on-line date comming up real soon and now u got me
thinking twice i'm glad I saw what you wrote and did he tell u that u
was the only one he had met on-line?

((((((((((( Sage ))))))))))))))))

Hey MOM, I'm in on that pot roast & pie. Firing up the Lear, just don't
know fying time (I wish I had a Lear)

Sage,,, When you get that Lear,,, I'll make you Pot Roast Anytime,,,
((Fly Safe))))

sage

LOL!

I don't cyber. YUCKY!

Might be ok for some... not my business, and to each thier own. But,
yeah, I don't see how that would work, either.

Thanks sage but if i want to get off I masterbate in private not on a
webcam.Gross.I have a wonderful imagination and frankly I'm not that
much of an exibitionist.To each there own though.

I don't have any expectations either of meeting someone on-line and
never have...I have made and continue to make alot of good friends and
that's all I am here for now!!!!!!!!

People who bounce from one to another...well I think they are being rash
and are just looking for someone to fill the void so they won't be alone
and like the feeling of being in love with someone...anyone!!!!

Thats a very good way of thinking about it native. Hmmmm, could very
well be can't it? Would make some sense.

To me, anything is possible, but like most, friends first. And if
that's all that happens, I am ok with that. True love, online or in
real life will find me when it's to be.

I love you but....I have a headache!

oops sorry wrong thread

i rarely get discouraged,,let down ? yes....disappointed? yes ,,,, but i
date in real life as well as have gotten some by being on here and if
they end abruptly ,,,i'm moving on and looking for the next adventure
and always hopeful ,,and ever optimistic ,,i try to stay upbeat as best
i can,, i know not everything works out[or turns out as i'd
like]

we did it.. testamonial to jsh...

first friends then..........

<----------- see

I get encouraged and less skeptical because I figure they are learning
like I have.

I am, so I stopped dating!!