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lets say I started talking to some one on here....and this person and I decided to meet in person, as friends, with nothing serious comitted as of yet....being that we want to meet, but are not in a relationship as of yet, should I stop the general "flirting" with just anyone on here?
I am asking this, because on one side, I am thinking,it is ok to flirt since we are not in a relationship, but on the other hand, I am thinking it is wrong to continue to flirt with other people, since we decided to go beyond the computer and meet face to face. I guess you could call it an internal conflict between what is concidered right and wrong.... |
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You said you decided to meet as friends first. So, I don't see how it would be wrong to continue flirting with others. If you meet and decide to be more, then perhaps that's when you stop flirting?
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Talk to her about it. I think there are many different ideas about what a relationship is & when it starts. Is this your way of communicating with her? She's probably going to see this, & a private mail would be so much better.
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Since you both seem to be in agreement with being friends why would flirting be so wrong? Unless you both agree on taking it further and begin dating then maybe shy a little bit away from too much flirting out of respect. Even then I don't see why you would have to stop. If it is your nature to be a flirt then be yourself. It - for the most part - is innocent and playful.
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You said you decided to meet as friends first. So, I don't see how it would be wrong to continue flirting with others. If you meet and decide to be more, then perhaps that's when you stop flirting? There is no doubt if something serious is agreed between the 2 of us, I will not flirt with anyone at all, and will probably remove my profile from here....I think it would be near cheating to keep it on here after something serious is started... |
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It simple. Look at it this way. Would you, in anyway, be upset if this person continued to flirt with others?
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It simple. Look at it this way. Would you, in anyway, be upset if this person continued to flirt with others? Exactly |
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Since you both seem to be in agreement with being friends why would flirting be so wrong? Unless you both agree on taking it further and begin dating then maybe shy a little bit away from too much flirting out of respect. Even then I don't see why you would have to stop. If it is your nature to be a flirt then be yourself. It - for the most part - is innocent and playful.
Well, JMO, flirting after you are with someone is concidered one step below cheating on them.... |
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Talk to her about it. I think there are many different ideas about what a relationship is & when it starts. Is this your way of communicating with her? She's probably going to see this, & a private mail would be so much better. Wasn't thinking of that since I have not yet seen her name in the forums.....but if she sees it....well, at least she will know what I was ?ing... |
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It simple. Look at it this way. Would you, in anyway, be upset if this person continued to flirt with others? At this point, no....because there is nothing serious... |
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You said you decided to meet as friends first. So, I don't see how it would be wrong to continue flirting with others. If you meet and decide to be more, then perhaps that's when you stop flirting? There is no doubt if something serious is agreed between the 2 of us, I will not flirt with anyone at all, and will probably remove my profile from here....I think it would be near cheating to keep it on here after something serious is started... I still think you should E mail her about it. That's the way to make sure there's "no doubt". Whether you are to be friends or a couple, communication is key. None of us can know what she is thinking. |
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Talk to her about it. I think there are many different ideas about what a relationship is & when it starts. Is this your way of communicating with her? She's probably going to see this, & a private mail would be so much better. Wasn't thinking of that since I have not yet seen her name in the forums.....but if she sees it....well, at least she will know what I was ?ing... Lots of people lurk. |
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It simple. Look at it this way. Would you, in anyway, be upset if this person continued to flirt with others? At this point, no....because there is nothing serious... then you just answered your own question my dear... |
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It simple. Look at it this way. Would you, in anyway, be upset if this person continued to flirt with others? At this point, no....because there is nothing serious... then you just answered your own question my dear... What she said.... 
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It simple. Look at it this way. Would you, in anyway, be upset if this person continued to flirt with others? At this point, no....because there is nothing serious... then you just answered your own question my dear... Sometimes you just want to see what others think, to see if they think the same thing or not.... GET 'ER DONE!!! |
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I think you should definetly continue to flirt.....
With HER........ put the rest on hold out of respect for a while. if this thing don't work out, ya can always go back to flirtin with everyone again.... JMO |
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I think there is nothing wrong with flirting until you become serious. Once you become committed to someone that's when it needs to stop.
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I think you should definetly continue to flirt..... With HER........ put the rest on hold out of respect for a while. if this thing don't work out, ya can always go back to flirtin with everyone again.... JMO That is one hand I am dealing with... And I keep thinking about that as I flirt with other people... DAMN! I wish some things were more cut and dryed...lol |
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Edited by
Ghostrider2u
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Sat 12/20/08 08:59 AM
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I think you should definetly continue to flirt..... With HER........ put the rest on hold out of respect for a while. if this thing don't work out, ya can always go back to flirtin with everyone again.... JMO That is one hand I am dealing with... And I keep thinking about that as I flirt with other people... DAMN! I wish some things were more cut and dryed...lol it is cut and dry......you either respect her and what you think "might" come out of this, or you dont!! how hard is that?? even if you only end up friends, isnt a friend worthy of this respect?? |
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I think you should definetly continue to flirt..... With HER........ put the rest on hold out of respect for a while. if this thing don't work out, ya can always go back to flirtin with everyone again.... JMO That is one hand I am dealing with... And I keep thinking about that as I flirt with other people... DAMN! I wish some things were more cut and dryed...lol it is cut and dry......you either respect her and what you think "might" come out of this, or you dont!! how hard is that?? even if you only end up friends, isnt a friend worthy of this respect?? I see your point...I think I like this idea... |
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