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Topic: Unattractive and Overweight
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:26 PM
flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou

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Fri 12/19/08 12:27 PM
nO....

inner beauty doesn't change....but with a talented surgeon.....well....love

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:28 PM

nO....

inner beauty doesn't change....but with a talented surgeon.....well....love
laugh

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:29 PM

flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou


Outer beauty is of very little significance to having a fulfilling relationship with someone. I have found that those who are "unconventionally" attractive have much more substance and character than those of "conventional" beauty.

For some reason the "beautiful people" seem to feel the world including you owe them something and it is such an ugly character fault it is hard to over look.

My opinion here of course

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Fri 12/19/08 12:30 PM
Ask Rueben (artist) about beauty!!!!

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Fri 12/19/08 12:32 PM
Lee, I guess this means you don't want me now???? laugh laugh laugh

Redshirt's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:33 PM
Ask Shallow Hal. :smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:33 PM


flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou


Outer beauty is of very little significance to having a fulfilling relationship with someone. I have found that those who are "unconventionally" attractive have much more substance and character than those of "conventional" beauty.

For some reason the "beautiful people" seem to feel the world including you owe them something and it is such an ugly character fault it is hard to over look.

My opinion here of course
flowerforyou Well said Dragoness (as usual)flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:33 PM

Lee, I guess this means you don't want me now???? laugh laugh laugh
smitten I have wanted you for a long timesmitten

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:35 PM



flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou


Outer beauty is of very little significance to having a fulfilling relationship with someone. I have found that those who are "unconventionally" attractive have much more substance and character than those of "conventional" beauty.

For some reason the "beautiful people" seem to feel the world including you owe them something and it is such an ugly character fault it is hard to over look.

My opinion here of course
flowerforyou Well said Dragoness (as usual)flowerforyou


:wink: flowerforyou

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Fri 12/19/08 12:35 PM


Lee, I guess this means you don't want me now???? laugh laugh laugh
smitten I have wanted you for a long timesmitten

Well, heck!!! Come and get it!!!! smooched blushing :heart: bigsmile

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Fri 12/19/08 12:37 PM

flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou
I never did care what other people thought about me.....noway

lcjw's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:39 PM
no!

badxhampill's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:41 PM
I don't think it neccessarily makes you look bad as well. People might just date people that are unatractive due to things like low self esteem. As far as being overweight; that is more amatter of preference. Some people like dating overweight people. Personally, Somewhere in the middle gets me going. Not overweight, but not petit either. Some good womanly curves. I'm gonna stop before I go too far.

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Fri 12/19/08 12:44 PM

flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou
NO, GO FOR IT................

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:45 PM



Lee, I guess this means you don't want me now???? laugh laugh laugh
smitten I have wanted you for a long timesmitten

Well, heck!!! Come and get it!!!! smooched blushing :heart: bigsmile
drool oooh laladrool

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:50 PM


flowerforyou Do you think that if you try to start a relationship with someone that isn't very attractive, and/or is overweight,it makes you look bad too?flowerforyou
NO, GO FOR IT................
:laughing:

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Fri 12/19/08 12:53 PM
weight is an easily remedied issue...since i quit ballet AND smoking and have gone thru childbirth mine definitely fluctuates....but im secure enough that i feel i have more than enough to offer than just the curve of a hip or the thickness of my thigh and never really worry about it. as long as im healthy... who cares.

a truly unattractive person is more of a personality trait for me....in which case i feel like im forcing a relationship when i just cant stand their ugly attitude...no matter what they look like! i dont care so much how it makes me look but how it makes me feel!


looks aside whether it is aesthetics or health issues the thing that stands out to me most is the fact that you cant fix stupid.

lcjw's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:55 PM

weight is an easily remedied issue...since i quit ballet AND smoking and have gone thru childbirth mine definitely fluctuates....but im secure enough that i feel i have more than enough to offer than just the curve of a hip or the thickness of my thigh and never really worry about it. as long as im healthy... who cares.

a truly unattractive person is more of a personality trait for me....in which case i feel like im forcing a relationship when i just cant stand their ugly attitude...no matter what they look like! i dont care so much how it makes me look but how it makes me feel!


looks aside whether it is aesthetics or health issues the thing that stands out to me most is the fact that you cant fix stupid.


high five! attagirl!drinker

bohemianbugeater's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:57 PM


weight is an easily remedied issue...since i quit ballet AND smoking and have gone thru childbirth mine definitely fluctuates....but im secure enough that i feel i have more than enough to offer than just the curve of a hip or the thickness of my thigh and never really worry about it. as long as im healthy... who cares.

a truly unattractive person is more of a personality trait for me....in which case i feel like im forcing a relationship when i just cant stand their ugly attitude...no matter what they look like! i dont care so much how it makes me look but how it makes me feel!


looks aside whether it is aesthetics or health issues the thing that stands out to me most is the fact that you cant fix stupid.


high five! attagirl!drinker



ty ((lcjw))flowerforyou

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