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sorry bettyb but its not always the man, but still a good relation needs a lot of work, from both sides I never said it was just men .If you read my comments I said they not him. I personally have not had this happen to me that I was aware of but I was once was lied to by a man that claimed he was widower when his wife was alive and well. sorry bettyb, just read it wrong, i was wrong, sorry about it. and sorry that it happend to you |
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 What's the most common reasons a wife/husband cheats?
Lack of respect and loyalty. If the relationship gets sooo bad that you have or are thinking about cheating....do yourself and the other party involved a really great justice, tell them you are done. |
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or it could be just that the person is a jerk who doesnt care about anyones feelings, the relationship.. or anyone involved..
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Edited by
KoolAidWoman
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Thu 12/18/08 04:35 PM
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Good eveing all! ummmmm?eather of them were paying attention to the reading of the vows and who? ever married the both of them. {For better or worse}and in sickness and health. But of course we should think befor we jump into marriage If you cheat there while married this is a tuff habit to brake {cheaters I like the show.}Just the Koolaidwoman this is just something to ponder on!   
To why they cheated but there's [never! never!] a good reason for chearting!!Kool 
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I don't understand the cheating thing. Not happy, go away. That's what happened with me. Mo e
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I think you are right Koolaide, cheating on your spouse is NOt the way yo make things better.
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Even when your married you can still get lonely
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or it could be just that the person is a jerk who doesnt care about anyones feelings, the relationship.. or anyone involved.. If you married someone like that to begin with, then you're nuts. If your spouse cheats, maybe there was something dysfunctional about the relationship, and not about them! |
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Thank's Betty I used to play a simple game of cards with this gal for fun and this woman found.
The need to cheat Lordy!I stopped playing cards. With her Girl can you imagine Marriage id run away from that marriage but its to bad its not taken seriously but was it ever?.Ouch!scary!Kool.  
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Edited by
notquite00
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Thu 12/18/08 04:51 PM
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I think you are right Koolaide, cheating on your spouse is NOt the way yo make things better. Why not? You get to stay married or stay in the relationship, you don't have to move out, deal with legal stuff, worry about splitting up property, worry about kids...AND you get to have exciting sex with someone new. Sounds better to me! Lastly, seeing how high divorce rates have gotten, it looks like wedding vows don't mean much anymore, and perhaps that's good. After all, wedding vows are sort of like a contract that you have to keep for your whole life. Who knows what will change? What if your partner becomes extremely obese, boring, lazy, just watches TV, and doesn't help out with the kids at all. What's there to love? Hell, with the kids, I see no way out of that. If some guy at work fancies you, by all means - cheat! Why should your husband's being an asshole ruin things? If you want to talk about vows, it really sounds like he stopped loving you, stopped appreciating you, stopped respecting you. The vows are now void - go find a cute guy in the office, lol. |
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The number one reason a person cheats is....
There is something wrong somewhere in thier life that gives them the perception that the ass is always greener on the otherside |
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What's the most common reasons a wife/husband cheats?
Total lack of respect for their partner. It's the ultimate insult. Dennis |
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for the fun and excitement because they are getting it better elsewhere for the thrill of getting caught because its not how it used to be who knows... why they just do.... Poor reasons to even go there!oh but they might make since to you??Koolaidwoman |
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;You do not cheat??
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I think you are right Koolaide, cheating on your spouse is NOt the way yo make things better. Why not? You get to stay married or stay in the relationship, you don't have to move out, deal with legal stuff, worry about splitting up property, worry about kids...AND you get to have exciting sex with someone new. Sounds better to me! Lastly, seeing how high divorce rates have gotten, it looks like wedding vows don't mean much anymore, and perhaps that's good. After all, wedding vows are sort of like a contract that you have to keep for your whole life. Who knows what will change? [Did that work for you? KOolaid] What if your partner becomes extremely obese, boring, lazy, just watches TV, and doesn't help out with the kids at all. What's there to love? Hell, with the kids, I see no way out of that. If some guy at work fancies you, by all means - cheat! Why should your husband's being an asshole ruin things? If you want to talk about vows, it really sounds like he stopped loving you, stopped appreciating you, stopped respecting you. The vows are now void - go find a cute guy in the office, lol. |
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I think you are right Koolaide, cheating on your spouse is NOt the way yo make things better. Why not? You get to stay married or stay in the relationship, you don't have to move out, deal with legal stuff, worry about splitting up property, worry about kids...AND you get to have exciting sex with someone new. Sounds better to me! Lastly, seeing how high divorce rates have gotten, it looks like wedding vows don't mean much anymore, and perhaps that's good. After all, wedding vows are sort of like a contract that you have to keep for your whole life. Who knows what will change?~~~zdid this work for you? What if your partner becomes extremely obese, boring, lazy, just watches TV, and doesn't help out with the kids at all. What's there to love? Hell, with the kids, I see no way out of that. If some guy at work fancies you, by all means - cheat! Why should your husband's being an asshole ruin things? If you want to talk about vows, it really sounds like he stopped loving you, stopped appreciating you, stopped respecting you. The vows are now void - go find a cute guy in the office, lol. |
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I think the bottom line is ..if someone is going to cheat on thier spouse they will come up with any excuse they can to justify it.
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or it could be just that the person is a jerk who doesnt care about anyones feelings, the relationship.. or anyone involved.. If you married someone like that to begin with, then you're nuts. If your spouse cheats, maybe there was something dysfunctional about the relationship, and not about them! so it IS possible that the cheater is just a jerk who has no feelings and doesnt care about anyone but themselves.. all im sayin is that it isnt ALWAYS the fault of the person being cheated on.. and to beleve that is extremely narrowminded. thanks 
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What's the most common reasons a wife/husband cheats?
Total lack of respect for their partner. It's the ultimate insult. Dennis 
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What's the most common reasons a wife/husband cheats?
because women/men are just no damn good |
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