Is this an "EMO" thread?

WHO IS EMO???????????????????

DUDE SHE'S A HEARTLESS B*TCH... MOVE ON.....

I do believe, Goof.


OP~
The method I use, in all areas, is to be honest and direct. I would say, I'd like to go for a drink or coffee with you. If they said no, oh well. If they said yes, great.

do something interesting....

On here? Try quoting her on forum and trying to establish communication that way. If she does not post on the forums than all you can do is send a private message to her. DO NOT complement her "rack". Take it from me, that approach is futile and will immediately warrant the delete button without so much as a cursory glance at your profile.

I don't know the answer to this question, but I do know ONE thing --

Posting 15,000 times and writing two books does NOT help....

Maybe 3 books is the charm.

I don't think 1000 books would be enough....

Lexy, I think we all know I find you wildly alluring. Surely I am not alone.

You're also the most intelligent person here.

We can extrapolate from that any number of ways....!



Seriously, if I've learned one thing about dating sites, it's that I will never be mainstream enough to have any success on them. Most people on dating sites are well past the phase where they want to deal with anyone creative or intellectually stimulating.

I find that whenever I stop looking for something, it shows up. I dont know why that is exactly but it also seems to apply to men. When it rains, it pours. That might apply to men looking for women also.

Lexy, think "University....." It served me well.

GO AFTER THE WOMAN STALKING ARMY STROUNG............

I've tested that theory several times. Doesn't work like that for me.

I think some of that may have to do with accessibility. I just spent 3 years living in a town that was not only unfriendly, but almost overtly hostile towards anyone who hadn't lived there for 17 generations.

Not a good place to meet people.

Yeah, I know. We discussed that problem a little on another thread until that guy yelled at us to get back on topic.

I dont see what else you can be doing really. There are only so many ways to meet people. Just because you are surrounded by hundreds and hundred of people wont necessarily help you locate the right person. People that live in huge metropolitan areas like NYC or Los Angeles are often alone.

Statistically it is probably easier to meet someone for sex or immediate gratification but thats probably not what you are after either.

Oh yeah, I remember that! Ooooops! (Hey, there's a certain amount of "topic drift" that's going to happen....!)



The only way I have ever really met people was through friends. I used to have a few female friends with huge "pools" of neighbors, cousins, co-workers, you name it, and meeting someone new was as easy as saying "Hey, I think I'd like to meet someone new." Literally.

Being in a band didn't hurt either.

Now all of those friends are older and married with 2.4 kids, as are all of their old eligible friends.

I need some new friends with new "pools" of their own.



Not at all. Ten years ago, OK -- I was more into the quick and easy, 90-day, in-and-out, revolving door relationships. Those worked fine back then.

Now I would prefer something a little more stable and a little more long-term....for a change. Not saying I want to "settle down" -- that sounds too much like what happens to a box of cereal during shipment. But maybe to try to build something with one person and see where it could go....?

be yourself by yourself,jus' coool and relaax man! good luck