Topic: Lowering your standards
SitkaRains's photo
Sun 12/14/08 11:34 AM
Once will never do it again it ended badly since we both knew deep down that I was just settling. I think that more a more hurtful thing to do to him than cheating on him took me a long time to feel good about myself again.

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Sun 12/14/08 11:35 AM

:smile: Have you ever lowered your standards for someone, only to regret it?:smile:

Many times and always.

It is time to take a step back, slow down, be more critical, and NEXT time, not to discount the feeling in your gut or intuition. Not to ignore, minimize, or make excuses for anything that is not acceptable.

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Sun 12/14/08 11:36 AM




Dayummmmmmm...........


she's HAWT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: smitten

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 12/14/08 11:38 AM
Edited by motowndowntown on Sun 12/14/08 11:42 AM
Yeah, but I was on a three day drunk at the time and I don't remember much till I sobered up, and then it ended badly.

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Sun 12/14/08 11:40 AM

Didn't see it as lowering my standards at the time. Thought I was working on the relationship. LOL


That about sums up my experience, too.

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 12/14/08 12:03 PM
No and if you had to lower your standards you had none to begin with...............

betsybubbles's photo
Sun 12/14/08 01:58 PM

im still thinkin am i am buzzed as possable?
yep!:smile:

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Sun 12/14/08 01:59 PM
I'm only lowerin mine......

if she lowers hers.......

fair enough??

AllenAqua's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:03 PM
I kind of think that you don't really "lower your standards". If you accepted them in the first place, that's your standard.

Jess642's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:05 PM
There's nothing 'standard' to lower........

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Sun 12/14/08 02:07 PM
I would only ever lower my standard....

after the war is......won

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:10 PM





Dayummmmmmm...........


she's HAWT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: smitten



Two trailer park girls run round the outside, round the outside, round the outside....

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Sun 12/14/08 02:17 PM






Dayummmmmmm...........


she's HAWT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: smitten



Two trailer park girls run round the outside, round the outside, round the outside....


what was it Richard Prior said.....

"I want you to go out on the roof....and I'm gonna run round the house three times....
on the third time.....I wantyou to jump off...
on my face"

laugh laugh laugh rofl

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:18 PM
I don't think I lowered my standards but I have ignored my gut telling me what I knew was true and lived to regret it. This is sure what happened recently. I would say never again but then I don't want to let the ashholes of the world turn me into a person I don't want to be.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:21 PM



Would you rather have a girl that lives with in her means or a Princess that mootches of her boyfriend while she is looking for something better. Life in the real world isn't necessarily posh.

luv2roknroll's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:30 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Sun 12/14/08 02:32 PM
Whats this???

"The Limbo?"....

"How lowwww, can you gooooooo?!?!".

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:32 PM
I did a couple of times.

I won't do it again. That's one of the big reasons why I am still single.

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Sun 12/14/08 02:34 PM




she looks rather familiar.........

I think I may have dated her!!!!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:36 PM





she looks rather familiar.........

I think I may have dated her!!!!!
laugh She looks like most of the chicks where I livelaugh

tanyaann's photo
Sun 12/14/08 02:43 PM
Nope. I tend to look for the best or good in everyone. However, when people protray themselves different from what they are you can't help that. From that I have learned to take time to get to know a person to truly know who they really are!