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Why is it that when I have a good thing going with any kind of relationship I have to sabotage it?
I push people away. Recently I did this to someone I was really starting to care about and I feel horrible about it. Who else out there catches themselves doing this with a lot of relationships? Any suggestions? Please be nice. |
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I do this a lot too.
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Sat 12/13/08 03:50 PM
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well,......stop that!!
 i understand though, but it's hard enough to make work without sabotage. how-ever, sometimes people mis-construe actions, and try to make you be the culprit of guilty, if that makes sense.
try not to anylize it to death, and find faults galore, unless there are faults galore, then it may be time to move on. |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Sat 12/13/08 03:50 PM
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I do this a lot too.  Yeah Im starting to think I may have this problem too.I can't seem to stay interested in maintaining a relationship. I get bored with it. I like the first parts of a relationship when I am still getting to know the other person but after I get to know them I seem to lose interest.
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I do this a lot too. Yeah Im starting to think I may have this problem too.I can't seem to stay interested in maintaining a relationship. I get bored with it. I like the first parts of a relationship when I am still getting to know the other person but after I get to know them I seem to lose interest.
Exactly the same with me! |
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I do this a lot too. Yeah Im starting to think I may have this problem too.I can't seem to stay interested in maintaining a relationship. I get bored with it. I like the first parts of a relationship when I am still getting to know the other person but after I get to know them I seem to lose interest.
Do you see each other too often in the beginning and talk too much on the phone? That doesn't help it. |
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I do this a lot too. Yeah Im starting to think I may have this problem too.I can't seem to stay interested in maintaining a relationship. I get bored with it. I like the first parts of a relationship when I am still getting to know the other person but after I get to know them I seem to lose interest.
Thank you Mirror, that is exactly my problem.
But the even worse part is that I find myself doing this sooner in a relationship the older I get. I lose my patients so quickly and just give up.   What the he** is wrong with me?
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It takes alot for me to be interested in someone theses days, long ago I would fall in love fast, now I'm stand offish, maybe I just got too comfortable being single...
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Are these online relationships ? If so, my feeling is that they are iffy at best, so I wouldn't beat myself up about it.
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Are these online relationships ? If so, my feeling is that they are iffy at best, so I wouldn't beat myself up about it. I've had a good online relationship. |
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It takes alot for me to be interested in someone theses days, long ago I would fall in love fast, now I'm stand offish, maybe I just got too comfortable being single...  .............. 
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It takes alot for me to be interested in someone theses days, long ago I would fall in love fast, now I'm stand offish, maybe I just got too comfortable being single... ..............
You don't bring me flowers anymore 
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Are these online relationships ? If so, my feeling is that they are iffy at best, so I wouldn't beat myself up about it. |
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It takes alot for me to be interested in someone theses days, long ago I would fall in love fast, now I'm stand offish, maybe I just got too comfortable being single... |
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I believe that alot of people sabatoge relationships because they are afraid of getting too close, (engulfed) in love and or subconsciously dont believe they deserve something so good.
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I believe that alot of people sabatoge relationships because they are afraid of getting too close, (engulfed) in love and or subconsciously dont believe they deserve something so good. |
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I set one on fire once.......it wasnt pretty.....
oh.....are we talking about relationships..... 
Nevermind.............. 
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Why is it that when I have a good thing going with any kind of relationship I have to sabotage it? I push people away. Recently I did this to someone I was really starting to care about and I feel horrible about it. Who else out there catches themselves doing this with a lot of relationships? Any suggestions? Please be nice. |
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I believe that alot of people sabatoge relationships because they are afraid of getting too close, (engulfed) in love and or subconsciously dont believe they deserve something so good. The psychologists suggest that they could be doing it for that reason. It's a push pull kind of thing. I want you - go away/don't get close. |
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I believe that alot of people sabatoge relationships because they are afraid of getting too close, (engulfed) in love and or subconsciously dont believe they deserve something so good. You have soooo much to offer. I can see it in your posts. Intelligent, caring, witty.
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