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Topic: Why Do they alawys get back with the EX?
Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/12/08 10:40 AM
Two within one year eh? If I were you, I would only date chicks who are three years removed from an ex. Safer that way, and you always play the odds my friend. I'm only one year removed from my ex.

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 10:41 AM
yours.. you should just beat up their ex's.. or next time you date someone, go back to your ex and beat them at their own game..... Better yet i should just get like 5 ladies and maybe i will get one who likes me better!

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 10:43 AM
Two within one year eh? If I were you, I would only date chicks who are three years removed from an ex. Safer that way, and you always play the odds my friend. I'm only one year removed from my ex. And I 2 years! I still miss her from time to time!!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/12/08 10:44 AM
Two within one year eh? If I were you, I would only date chicks who are three years removed from an ex. Safer that way, and you always play the odds my friend. I'm only one year removed from my ex. And I 2 years! I still miss her from time to time!!! Well, I don't miss mine. I was crying because Goof's rule eliminated me from dating him.

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 10:48 AM
Fair enough!

Filmfreek Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2541	Fri 12/12/08 10:55 AM
Sounds like they are living in the past. Which means they will always be comparing you to their ex's. Not good. Let go. Move on, and start fresh.

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 10:56 AM
Holler!!!

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Fri 12/12/08 11:01 AM
Hey i just wanna let you know, I you

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Fri 12/12/08 11:01 AM Edited by Riding_Dubz on Fri 12/12/08 11:02 AM
double post

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Fri 12/12/08 11:01 AM Edited by Riding_Dubz on Fri 12/12/08 11:01 AM
Hey i just wanna let you know, I you

NkdSanta Joined Wed 09/10/08 Posts: 84	Fri 12/12/08 11:06 AM
If you say so DUDE???

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sat 12/13/08 07:03 PM
I have had two girl friends get back with an ex in the last year! All I have to say is WTF!!!!! At least they didn't become gay or nuns. I'd hate to have to deal with my shallow male ego if that happened.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 12/13/08 07:11 PM
if your only drivin 'em back to their ex's, I wouldnt worry too much..... now if they start runnin to other women...... thats another thing to be concerned about.....

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 12/13/08 07:18 PM Edited by shoesmonkey on Sat 12/13/08 07:20 PM
Why does one go back to their ex? Fear of some sort? Realization of something?

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 12/14/08 11:19 AM
Why does one go back to their ex? Fear of some sort? Realization of something? or just a dumb a$$

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sun 12/14/08 11:21 AM
It rarely works out the second time around. Too soon after, you are reminded why you asked them to leave or left in the first place.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sun 12/14/08 11:23 AM
Familiarity.........thats all it is. Or unfinished business.

Dewayne123456 Joined Sat 12/06/08 Posts: 112	Sun 12/14/08 11:23 AM
Oh, come on! It can't be THAT difficult to find a woman who hates her ex. Look around you, man! They're EVERYWHERE! Whatever!

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sun 12/14/08 11:31 AM
Familiarity.........thats all it is. Or unfinished business. Yeah, at least I know it wasn't me and that I did and tried all I could to make it work....gave him a second chance and hoped for the best. But, ultimately, you gotta do what is best for you and yours. ....And forget about their stuff.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sun 12/14/08 11:34 AM
Familiarity.........thats all it is. Or unfinished business. Yeah, at least I know it wasn't me and that I did and tried all I could to make it work....gave him a second chance and hoped for the best. But, ultimately, you gotta do what is best for you and yours. ....And forget about their stuff. First of all......you have to forgive YOURSELF!!!! And when you are ready........forgive him.