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Labeling "all" men to be same....is why you are single. WHAM! J hits the nail right on the head! Personally, I am so sick and tired of these whiny women saying "ALL men this" and "ALL men that". For cryin' out loud, take some responsibility of your own instead of placing blame! If "all" your relationships keep turning out the same way, the common denominator for the problem is YOU! yea well you can take that WHAM! back.Im great.Screw you |
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what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. didnt you know? anytime you say "men," they all get pissy as if you called them out personally by name?  yeah, if it doesn't apply to you, don't get pissy. when a guy says all women are b!thches, i don't get mad (because a lot of women are b!tches) and take it personally. i figure he's had some crappy relationships and wish him well, but that's me... Don't place every male in the same category, because alot of us are very different. Just say "some guys" because the ones that mistreat Women, shouldn't even be in the same category as "MEN"  Well, all I want from a man is his online friendship so it doesn't really matter to me what they do in their personal life. It will never affect me. Every man I've known or known of or seen with another woman, or whatever has only "wanted one thing." So maybe I've only known azzholes? I don't know, it really doesn't matter. Like I said, their crap doesn't affect me. I was mainly trying to instruct the OP not to say all men, because if you do, "all men" on here get mad about it, LOL. So yeah, I'm sure you're a nice guy, I wouldn't know, I only see your posts on here. At any rate, I hope you find what you want and what you need and that it lasts. 
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Life is meant to be lived and loved. cherish family, as well as friends. Wake up each day and offer thanks for waking up. We have people in poverty, that will never have a date, let alone,,,,another meal,water. When a person is able to appreciate what they have on a daily basis, they can then appreciate themselves. This action, in turn, allows others to appreciate them. We live in a world of compromise. We are not perfect and neither is the next. We have troops, fighting, to allow us to sit here and talk **** to each other, or question the motives of another. I can only ask that you take a moment and think about this. I have screwed and been screwed. Loved and been left. I have chosen not to give up. There is one lady for me and if I give up that search,,than I have lost!!
Please, anyone who reads this, take a quick moment for our troops and offer them blessing on a safe trip home!!! |
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To the OP: I would have emailed you, but your mail is restricted, so I will post it here. First of all, I don't know how most "dating sites" work, but with this one, if you ever say all of something, in this case, "all men" the "something" you're referring to will get mad and jump down your throat. So it's best to avoid that reference, unless you like a good argument. Secondly, I'm alot older than you, so I've experienced a bit more (I hope!) and I can tell you that you just have to be careful, get to know the guy before you take off your panties. I'm not saying you barely knew him, since I know nothing of your situation, just what I read. But give it a looong time. Like months maybe, and talk to him alot and see how he treats other people and what he thinks about different things. Then, if you decide to sleep with him, you'll be making an informed decision, not a spur of the moment one, and hopefully it won't end badly. There's still a chance that it will, because some (notice I said "some" for those of you looking for a battle) men will still treat you like crap after getting what they want. But I think it might be less chance of that. Anyway, I know how you feel, this very thing happened to me this summer and I'm still pissed about it. So it happens to everyone, even "old ladies" like me. Try not to let it bother you though, I've been mad at this guy and he's going on with his life, I have proof of that. Try to do the same with yours, and next time, be cautious!! Yeah, and I still have the scars to prove it.
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 Torance, trust me, you can't keep giving people hell for voicing their opinion to a post even if you created the topic. It's a public forum, and that poster was just referring to your comment, not you.
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Edited by
SamaraNJ
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Fri 12/12/08 01:43 AM
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yeah, I think there needs to be maturity to be able to post.. so the good advice can be taken with the bad advice with out getting so emotional..
maybe some people are just too emotional and the make the men run away.. *** since I used 'maybe'.. is that judging?
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well tell em that they can lick your butt and masturbate, and that's all they're gonna get....
should solve the problem straight away, doncha think? |
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what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. didnt you know? anytime you say "men," they all get pissy as if you called them out personally by name? yeah, if it doesn't apply to you, don't get pissy. when a guy says all women are b!thches, i don't get mad (because a lot of women are b!tches) and take it personally. i figure he's had some crappy relationships and wish him well, but that's me... Don't place every male in the same category, because alot of us are very different. Just say "some guys" because the ones that mistreat Women, shouldn't even be in the same category as "MEN" Well, all I want from a man is his online friendship so it doesn't really matter to me what they do in their personal life. It will never affect me. Every man I've known or known of or seen with another woman, or whatever has only "wanted one thing." So maybe I've only known azzholes? I don't know, it really doesn't matter. Like I said, their crap doesn't affect me. I was mainly trying to instruct the OP not to say all men, because if you do, "all men" on here get mad about it, LOL. So yeah, I'm sure you're a nice guy, I wouldn't know, I only see your posts on here. At any rate, I hope you find what you want and what you need and that it lasts.  And yes, some of us GOOD ONES are still left 
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what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. didnt you know? anytime you say "men," they all get pissy as if you called them out personally by name? yeah, if it doesn't apply to you, don't get pissy. when a guy says all women are b!thches, i don't get mad (because a lot of women are b!tches) and take it personally. i figure he's had some crappy relationships and wish him well, but that's me... Don't place every male in the same category, because alot of us are very different. Just say "some guys" because the ones that mistreat Women, shouldn't even be in the same category as "MEN" Well, all I want from a man is his online friendship so it doesn't really matter to me what they do in their personal life. It will never affect me. Every man I've known or known of or seen with another woman, or whatever has only "wanted one thing." So maybe I've only known azzholes? I don't know, it really doesn't matter. Like I said, their crap doesn't affect me. I was mainly trying to instruct the OP not to say all men, because if you do, "all men" on here get mad about it, LOL. So yeah, I'm sure you're a nice guy, I wouldn't know, I only see your posts on here. At any rate, I hope you find what you want and what you need and that it lasts. And yes, some of us GOOD ONES are still left LOL, well those will end up being my good friends, I hope. :) |
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yeah, I think there needs to be maturity to be able to post.. so the good advice can be taken with the bad advice with out getting so emotional.. maybe some people are just too emotional and the make the men run away.. *** since I used 'maybe'.. is that judging? 
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Ok... Ladies...line up one by one, tank your pants off, and bend over. Here comes the Mayhem train. Remeber my name...cause you'll be screaming it later!! Ha ha...and I'm out. I dont love them ho's...I'm out the door. you so crazeeeee 
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yeah, I think there needs to be maturity to be able to post.. so the good advice can be taken with the bad advice with out getting so emotional.. maybe some people are just too emotional and the make the men run away.. *** since I used 'maybe'.. is that judging? I wish my lawn was emo.... then it would cut itself....
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yeah, I think there needs to be maturity to be able to post.. so the good advice can be taken with the bad advice with out getting so emotional.. maybe some people are just too emotional and the make the men run away.. *** since I used 'maybe'.. is that judging? hmmm, i think you're a bit too cheery to be emo
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I do take my own advice...& nobody judged you. I never personalized you & I surely never looked at your profile.So I don't know what it says.... If I offended you in anyway I do apologize.Just had a rough day all together.Expressed my situation. & so no one else gets offended let me stand corrected. MOST men are like this. ok there is everyone happy now.**** No, I am not. It's quite obvious you don't practice what you preach. For a PERFECT instance, you said you "never personalized Engraven", and you "never judged him"....but by your very own admission and by definition, you DID, simply because he is a man, and you most certainly said "ALL men". I am also not satisfied with you changing your assessment to "MOST men", because that is still incorrect. Someone also said something about "the moment something like this is said, the men get all pissy and defensive" (pardon the paraphrasing). Well, doesn't that work the other way around, too? Of COURSE we're going to get defensive! You're attacking our entire gender for a handful of assholes! For all the women that say "ALL men blah-blah-blah", is it really any wonder why so many men will turn around and treat women like the b!tch they're being? To get respect, you fist have to give it, and then EARN it. Better get over yourself, 'cause you ain't that great. |
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yeah, I think there needs to be maturity to be able to post.. so the good advice can be taken with the bad advice with out getting so emotional.. maybe some people are just too emotional and the make the men run away.. *** since I used 'maybe'.. is that judging? I wish my lawn was emo.... then it would cut itself....
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Edited by
Calleigh12
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Fri 12/12/08 01:53 AM
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I do take my own advice...& nobody judged you. I never personalized you & I surely never looked at your profile.So I don't know what it says.... If I offended you in anyway I do apologize.Just had a rough day all together.Expressed my situation. & so no one else gets offended let me stand corrected. MOST men are like this. ok there is everyone happy now.**** No, I am not. It's quite obvious you don't practice what you preach. For a PERFECT instance, you said you "never personalized Engraven", and you "never judged him"....but by your very own admission and by definition, you DID, simply because he is a man, and you most certainly said "ALL men". I am also not satisfied with you changing your assessment to "MOST men", because that is still incorrect. Someone also said something about "the moment something like this is said, the men get all pissy and defensive" (pardon the paraphrasing). Well, doesn't that work the other way around, too? Of COURSE we're going to get defensive! You're attacking our entire gender for a handful of assholes! For all the women that say "ALL men blah-blah-blah", is it really any wonder why so many men will turn around and treat women like the b!tch they're being? To get respect, you fist have to give it, and then EARN it. Better get over yourself, 'cause you ain't that great. I don't get mad when someone makes a generalized comment, unless I think I have those traits. If someone says all blacks are lazy criminals (and I'm black, in case no one was aware) I figure screw them, I know who I am. But that's just me. And like I said before, I was instructing the OP not to generalize because of the reaction she was sure to get from this site, not because I agree or disagree. All my dealings with men are platonic so their personal behavior isn't my business. Makes no difference to me if all men are azzholes or saints, I just want to be friends with them, not lovers, so who cares? As for you not accepting her amendment to what she said, that's rather uncharitable, it's making what she said about "all men" true, don't you think?
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even a little effort towards the correct way is making progress. you made some today.....take stock in that.
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For all the women that say "ALL men blah-blah-blah", is it really any wonder why so many men will turn around and treat women like the b!tch they're being? I would like to add though, being mistreated by the opposite sex, can make someone feel completely different about them, and cause them to be seen in a certain way. And, that is still wrong. |
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For all the women that say "ALL men blah-blah-blah", is it really any wonder why so many men will turn around and treat women like the b!tch they're being? I would like to add though, being mistreated by the opposite sex, can make someone feel completely different about them, and cause them to be seen in a certain way. And, that is still wrong. Yep, you can be conditioned to feel different things about certain groups of people. According to my mother, the secret of the journey is get through it all and still love. Needless to say, I'm way off the mark, but I know I'm not perfect and I admit it. Maybe when I'm older and grayer, I'll be capabale of that. |
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For all the women that say "ALL men blah-blah-blah", is it really any wonder why so many men will turn around and treat women like the b!tch they're being? I would like to add though, being mistreated by the opposite sex, can make someone feel completely different about them, and cause them to be seen in a certain way. And, that is still wrong. yeah but people don't get treated badly by the opposite sex as a whole.. just by particular jerks or whatever... and those people shouldn't treat everyone else they meet the same because of the few bad they have met... although I could understand the fear of it happening again... but not everyone should suffer.... I wouldn't just use you for sex..... during the day anyway
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