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Topic: what's the deal boys?
gian831 Joined Thu 12/11/08 Posts: 13	Fri 12/12/08 01:03 AM
nigga please

scotty1964 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 10197	Fri 12/12/08 01:04 AM
why do all guys say there different but in the end do the same dam thing.Have sex with you & then tell you something like its not you its me. ugh!! I swear I'm done with all the lies & bull.I can't take it anymore.I just don't understand..Im so sad mad hurt pissed off right now.I mean everything all at the same time.Im just tired.I need a drink....Where the hell is my bottle of jack? Maybe I'll just drink my night away. [sighs] hmm?he makes me want to vomit! grrr & after everything he just said to me I still want to be his friend : [ its ok sweetie, that sucks and that guys an asshole! but u can be his friend i guess if ur crazy......

torance09 Joined Thu 11/13/08 Posts: 922	Fri 12/12/08 01:04 AM
what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach. Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way! But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's. excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it?

scotty1964 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 10197	Fri 12/12/08 01:06 AM
nigga please that guy looks whitish

SamaraNJ Joined Fri 08/01/08 Posts: 788	Fri 12/12/08 01:08 AM
what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach. Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way! But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's. excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it? maybe cause he didn't know it was pathetic til AFTER he read it? If it bothers you if they sleep with you and leave.. don't jump in bed so fast.. don't put so much emotion in the sex.. most women attach emotion to sex.. most men dont.. keep your pants on then.. or just be glad you got some and move on...

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 12/12/08 01:09 AM
All boys say what they need to say to get in your pants. All men say what they need to say to get in your pants. It will never change ever. They will always say what ever they need to, to get in your pants. Now, since you are a woman and an attractive one at that. It is up to you...who you chose to get in your pants. Men will hump and orgasm a grapefruit. Do not become produce. That is harsh but its true. When you get older you will understand your power of prowess. yep, i agree.

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Fri 12/12/08 01:09 AM
Hey...I laughed at what you said. Its a joke to me. Its funny to me. You are funny to me. Sorry, but did you take that personally? I did not mean to single you out. and i agree...jokes aplenty! I am funny. wanna go steady? No i didnt...and I know you didnt. I was just making sure you knew that I was joking with you when i said your were frustrated. Go steady? Lets make a date...lol!! deal! and i think this little love connection is because of our torance Thank you girl, from now on we are solid.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 12/12/08 01:11 AM
This to me is ironic, because I seem to have the problem of most females I date using me for sex! is that bad or good?

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Fri 12/12/08 01:11 AM
what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach. Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way! But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's. excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it? Because, I have seen the same topic posted 4 times by 4 different OPs in the past 24 hours. All calling all men the same. And what is so screwed up, is each person used that to make some of their first posts here in the forums. So what if one guy did you wrong, or even if another did, and another. Why does your profile say you are looking for a man if we are all the same? Move on with your life and forget about the pathetic guy that has mistreated you. Not all MEN are the same. I have met so many females out there that have used me the same way. But, I'd never label all WOMEN that way. I know there are some GREAT ones out there wanting a GREAT MAN like me.

torance09 Joined Thu 11/13/08 Posts: 922	Fri 12/12/08 01:13 AM
what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach. Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way! But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's. excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it? maybe cause he didn't know it was pathetic til AFTER he read it? If it bothers you if they sleep with you and leave.. don't jump in bed so fast.. don't put so much emotion in the sex.. most women attach emotion to sex.. most men dont.. keep your pants on then.. or just be glad you got some and move on... you to can keep your comments to yourself...You don't know me so don't judge me

SamaraNJ Joined Fri 08/01/08 Posts: 788	Fri 12/12/08 01:14 AM
what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach. Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way! But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's. excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it? maybe cause he didn't know it was pathetic til AFTER he read it? If it bothers you if they sleep with you and leave.. don't jump in bed so fast.. don't put so much emotion in the sex.. most women attach emotion to sex.. most men dont.. keep your pants on then.. or just be glad you got some and move on... you to can keep your comments to yourself...You don't know me so don't judge me I can say as I please.. you want to post your business and ask for advice then Im giving it. don't like it. dont post

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 12/12/08 01:14 AM
what makes me yack up is all these people hating the word "label" and crying about it. if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo. If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine. didnt you know? anytime you say "men," they all get pissy as if you called them out personally by name? yeah, if it doesn't apply to you, don't get pissy. when a guy says all women are b!thches, i don't get mad (because a lot of women are b!tches) and take it personally. i figure he's had some crappy relationships and wish him well, but that's me...

tiggeray Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 266	Fri 12/12/08 01:15 AM
Totally agree with you there. Nobody has a right to judge!! Especially when they don't even know a person. To judge is to ask to be judged and these ladies have requested that tonight,,

scotty1964 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 10197	Fri 12/12/08 01:16 AM
hey, no one even noticed what i said........and it was nice and good......except for the one white guy

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 12/12/08 01:16 AM
nigga please nice ethnic slur there, sooo very necessary. you should be proud.

torance09 Joined Thu 11/13/08 Posts: 922	Fri 12/12/08 01:16 AM
Hey...I laughed at what you said. Its a joke to me. Its funny to me. You are funny to me. Sorry, but did you take that personally? I did not mean to single you out. and i agree...jokes aplenty! I am funny. wanna go steady? No i didnt...and I know you didnt. I was just making sure you knew that I was joking with you when i said your were frustrated. Go steady? Lets make a date...lol!! deal! and i think this little love connection is because of our torance Thank you girl, from now on we are solid. awww!! How funn : ] Your welcome I'm gonna add you as a friend cause I like your advice.Thanks girlee!! <3

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Fri 12/12/08 01:18 AM
This to me is ironic, because I seem to have the problem of most females I date using me for sex! is that bad or good? Honestly, I feel it's bad. Especially when I am looking for a great woman that will love my sons and I, that will stick around for a long lasting relationship; rather than some chick using me for sex and then breaking my sons' hearts as she walks out of their lives. I put trust into relationships and get misled too, but when they do that I say "F@CK THEM!" I want a TRUE RELATIONSHIP! And eventually, they'll wish they had never done me that way or my children. Those types eventually will find themselves "WANTING!"

torance09 Joined Thu 11/13/08 Posts: 922	Fri 12/12/08 01:19 AM
hey, no one even noticed what i said........and it was nice and good......except for the one white guy sorry...Yes I noticedd.Thank you. & that guy does look white.Haha it was not neccessary for him to even comment.Lol : ]

SamaraNJ Joined Fri 08/01/08 Posts: 788	Fri 12/12/08 01:20 AM
Totally agree with you there. Nobody has a right to judge!! Especially when they don't even know a person. To judge is to ask to be judged and these ladies have requested that tonight,, How did my statement 'judge' her as she and you say... I stated my opinion and my advice.. If someone wants to post their business and questions here.. why are they doing that? for entertainment? She asking people to judge what happened to her and why men are just using her

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Fri 12/12/08 01:21 AM Edited by darkowl1 on Fri 12/12/08 01:24 AM
i'm glad i don't have to deal with drama like this, and can just watch it from afar.....good luck with it. when you are 100 feet up or more, none of this makes any difference, for you can't hear it, and can barely see it. re-evaluate what you want in a partner if you need one, and hold true to yourself, or do research on making it better for you. if you put negative energy out there, you bring negative energy to you, and that's a fact. if you are stubborn on this matter, and don't do your research, you have nobody to blame but yourself.