Topic: what's the deal boys?
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Fri 12/12/08 01:22 AM



This to me is ironic, because I seem to have the problem of most females I date using me for sex!


is that bad or good?:wink:

Honestly, I feel it's bad. Especially when I am looking for a great woman that will love my sons and I, that will stick around for a long lasting relationship; rather than some chick using me for sex and then breaking my sons' hearts as she walks out of their lives. I put trust into relationships and get misled too, but when they do that I say "F@CK THEM!" I want a TRUE RELATIONSHIP! And eventually, they'll wish they had never done me that way or my children. Those types eventually will find themselves "WANTING!"


hmm, yeah i guess that would suck. oh well, better luck next time if you're still looking.flowerforyou

torance09's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:24 AM






what makes me yack up

is all these people hating the word "label"

and crying about it.

if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo.

If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine.
Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach.

Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way!

But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's.



excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it?


maybe cause he didn't know it was pathetic til AFTER he read it?


If it bothers you if they sleep with you and leave.. don't jump in bed so fast.. don't put so much emotion in the sex.. most women attach emotion to sex.. most men dont.. keep your pants on then.. or just be glad you got some and move on...


you to can keep your comments to yourself...You don't know me so don't judge me


I can say as I please.. you want to post your business and ask for advice then Im giving it.

don't like it. dont post


I didn't ask you for advice....
So don't give it.

tiggeray's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:24 AM
right on Sir. I have seen so many true instances of this!! Negative, in turn receives negative.

scotty1964's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:24 AM


hey, no one even noticed what i said........and it was nice and good......except for the one white guylaugh



sorry...Yes I noticedd.Thank you.
& that guy does look white.Haha it was not neccessary for him to even comment.Lol

: ]


laugh :smile:

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:25 AM
Like....wtf is going on here people?

Seems like battle lines are being drawn and I'm just tryin to go on a date with JulieMP.

Cant we all just get along!!

SamaraNJ's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:25 AM







what makes me yack up

is all these people hating the word "label"

and crying about it.

if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo.

If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine.
Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach.

Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way!

But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's.



excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it?


maybe cause he didn't know it was pathetic til AFTER he read it?


If it bothers you if they sleep with you and leave.. don't jump in bed so fast.. don't put so much emotion in the sex.. most women attach emotion to sex.. most men dont.. keep your pants on then.. or just be glad you got some and move on...


you to can keep your comments to yourself...You don't know me so don't judge me


I can say as I please.. you want to post your business and ask for advice then Im giving it.

don't like it. dont post


I didn't ask you for advice....
So don't give it.



um... ok.. so you aren't the original poster than?

thought it was...

ok I just had a bm


yeah.. I agree.. this is pathetic...


Engraven_Image's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:26 AM


what makes me yack up

is all these people hating the word "label"

and crying about it.

if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo.

If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine.


didnt you know? anytime you say "men," they all get pissy as if you called them out personally by name? laugh

yeah, if it doesn't apply to you, don't get pissy. when a guy says all women are b!thches, i don't get mad (because a lot of women are b!tches) and take it personally. i figure he's had some crappy relationships and wish him well, but that's me...
No, I just think it is pathetic to generalize all males into that category of "THEY ONLY WANT ONE THING!" Very Untrue. I even took the time in my profile to sympathize to the Women that get treated like sh!T by guys like that. Don't label us all the same. And straight up, even the OP said it... maybe she should listen to her own advice... YOU DON'T KNOW ME SO DON'T JUDGE ME!

Don't place every male in the same category, because alot of us are very different. Just say "some guys" because the ones that mistreat Women, shouldn't even be in the same category as "MEN":thumbsup:

scotty1964's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:27 AM
julie mp is busy monday jumping outa my cakelaugh

Mr_Music's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:28 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Fri 12/12/08 01:35 AM

Labeling "all" men to be same....is why you are single.


WHAM! J hits the nail right on the head!

Personally, I am so sick and tired of these whiny women saying "ALL men this" and "ALL men that". For cryin' out loud, take some responsibility of your own instead of placing blame! If "all" your relationships keep turning out the same way, the common denominator for the problem is YOU!

darkowl1's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:28 AM

right on Sir. I have seen so many true instances of this!! Negative, in turn receives negative.

thanks! although i think they're too busy to notice what i said, or, are not putting stock in it, lol. but it's there if one wants it.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:28 AM
Ok...

Ladies...line up one by one, tank your pants off, and bend over. Here comes the Mayhem train. Remeber my name...cause you'll be screaming it later!!



Ha ha...and I'm out. I dont love them ho's...I'm out the door.

scotty1964's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:29 AM

julie mp is busy monday jumping outa my cakelaugh


engraven.......lets take a tylenol pm or something bro.......mellow down easy.....

Engraven_Image's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:30 AM







what makes me yack up

is all these people hating the word "label"

and crying about it.

if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo.

If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine.
Actually, I could care less. But, it is very pathetic to see people take and use this type of topic to be able to vent off about how they were mistreated. Saying all "of whatever sex" are the same because that person is upset about something that happened to themself. Why not start out the topic or converstaion with a different approach.

Now, don't most women hate being referred to "As a piece of @ss"? Well, some of us GOOD MEN out there, hate being referred to as the type of person that refer to women that way!

But, I could care less what anyone thought about me; especially when they don't know me, have never taken the time to know me, or is basing my character off of someone else's.



excuse me?If its so pathetic...then why did you take time to read it?


maybe cause he didn't know it was pathetic til AFTER he read it?


If it bothers you if they sleep with you and leave.. don't jump in bed so fast.. don't put so much emotion in the sex.. most women attach emotion to sex.. most men dont.. keep your pants on then.. or just be glad you got some and move on...


you to can keep your comments to yourself...You don't know me so don't judge me


I can say as I please.. you want to post your business and ask for advice then Im giving it.

don't like it. dont post


I didn't ask you for advice....
So don't give it.

It's a public forum. Everybody is entitled to their opinions. Just like you.

You are new here, and trust me, if you can't take people casting their opinion and views, well you won't like it here.

And btw, she wasn't judging.

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Fri 12/12/08 01:30 AM
To the OP: I would have emailed you, but your mail is restricted, so I will post it here. First of all, I don't know how most "dating sites" work, but with this one, if you ever say all of something, in this case, "all men" the "something" you're referring to will get mad and jump down your throat. So it's best to avoid that reference, unless you like a good argument.

Secondly, I'm alot older than you, so I've experienced a bit more (I hope!) and I can tell you that you just have to be careful, get to know the guy before you take off your panties. I'm not saying you barely knew him, since I know nothing of your situation, just what I read. But give it a looong time. Like months maybe, and talk to him alot and see how he treats other people and what he thinks about different things.

Then, if you decide to sleep with him, you'll be making an informed decision, not a spur of the moment one, and hopefully it won't end badly. There's still a chance that it will, because some (notice I said "some" for those of you looking for a battle) men will still treat you like crap after getting what they want. But I think it might be less chance of that.

Anyway, I know how you feel, this very thing happened to me this summer and I'm still pissed about it. So it happens to everyone, even "old ladies" like me. Try not to let it bother you though, I've been mad at this guy and he's going on with his life, I have proof of that. Try to do the same with yours, and next time, be cautious!!flowerforyou

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Fri 12/12/08 01:31 AM
ooooohhh oooohhhhh, pooped me pants!!!......oooohh ooohhh, pooped me pants!!!

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Fri 12/12/08 01:32 AM
Edited by catwoman96 on Fri 12/12/08 01:33 AM
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is for all that deserve it. need it. and want it.


man and women hoes can have there fun in the sun.


life is good


and im still a strawberry

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Fri 12/12/08 01:33 AM


julie mp is busy monday jumping outa my cakelaugh


engraven.......lets take a tylenol pm or something bro.......mellow down easy.....
No, I'm cool. I really just hate seeing this being the opening post for so many newbies. rofl

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Fri 12/12/08 01:34 AM
Edited by darkowl1 on Fri 12/12/08 01:36 AM

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is for all that deserve it. need it. and want it.


man and women hoes can have there fun in the sun.


life is good


and im still a strawberry

yanno? i really like that.....it's a relaxing thought....:heart: :heart: :heart: smooched drinker flowerforyou even though, i'm just a peice of poo.

torance09's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:35 AM



what makes me yack up

is all these people hating the word "label"

and crying about it.

if it does not apply to you then shut up, but my god it is so much the status quo.

If you take offense than perhaps that is something you should examine.


didnt you know? anytime you say "men," they all get pissy as if you called them out personally by name? laugh

yeah, if it doesn't apply to you, don't get pissy. when a guy says all women are b!thches, i don't get mad (because a lot of women are b!tches) and take it personally. i figure he's had some crappy relationships and wish him well, but that's me...
No, I just think it is pathetic to generalize all males into that category of "THEY ONLY WANT ONE THING!" Very Untrue. I even took the time in my profile to sympathize to the Women that get treated like sh!T by guys like that. Don't label us all the same. And straight up, even the OP said it... maybe she should listen to her own advice... YOU DON'T KNOW ME SO DON'T JUDGE ME!

Don't place every male in the same category, because alot of us are very different. Just say "some guys" because the ones that mistreat Women, shouldn't even be in the same category as "MEN":thumbsup:




I do take my own advice...& nobody judged you.
I never personalized you & I surely never looked at your profile.So I don't know what it says....


If I offended you in anyway I do apologize.Just had a rough day all together.Expressed my situation.

& so no one else gets offended let me stand corrected.


MOST men are like this.

ok there is everyone happy now.****

Engraven_Image's photo
Fri 12/12/08 01:35 AM

To the OP: I would have emailed you, but your mail is restricted, so I will post it here. First of all, I don't know how most "dating sites" work, but with this one, if you ever say all of something, in this case, "all men" the "something" you're referring to will get mad and jump down your throat. So it's best to avoid that reference, unless you like a good argument.

Secondly, I'm alot older than you, so I've experienced a bit more (I hope!) and I can tell you that you just have to be careful, get to know the guy before you take off your panties. I'm not saying you barely knew him, since I know nothing of your situation, just what I read. But give it a looong time. Like months maybe, and talk to him alot and see how he treats other people and what he thinks about different things.

Then, if you decide to sleep with him, you'll be making an informed decision, not a spur of the moment one, and hopefully it won't end badly. There's still a chance that it will, because some (notice I said "some" for those of you looking for a battle) men will still treat you like crap after getting what they want. But I think it might be less chance of that.

Anyway, I know how you feel, this very thing happened to me this summer and I'm still pissed about it. So it happens to everyone, even "old ladies" like me. Try not to let it bother you though, I've been mad at this guy and he's going on with his life, I have proof of that. Try to do the same with yours, and next time, be cautious!!flowerforyou
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