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Topic: disability
ALAN_50501's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:33 PM
would you date anyone that has a disability? if you do have a disability how do you go about telling someone you have one?? tell them on the first date or wait for awhile

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:37 PM
I would date someone with a disability. I think that you should be told before the first meeting.flowerforyou

ledi180's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:39 PM
Sure I would - and I too would like to know before the first date.

Queene123's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:40 PM
Edited by Queene123 on Sun 12/07/08 05:43 PM

would you date anyone that has a disability? if you do have a disability how do you go about telling someone you have one?? tell them on the first date or wait for awhile


i have a disabily and i would tell the person right off the bat and besides that the info is right in my profile
i met someone on here a month ago and the day before we met i email him and mention that i wore a hearing aid, and he responded back saying if your trying to scare me its not working.. well no i wasent i was just telling before hand..
we went to the state falls about 2weeks ago and he never been there before.. some people dont know how to deal with my issue, and the guy that i had went out with had no problem(he accepts me for me which i found awsome)

and yes i have dated someone that had a disabilty my daughter dad was considered legally blind.even though he could see a little from one eye

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:41 PM
Don't care, my only disability is some psychosis...just a minute, the voices are talking and I should listen...they sound quite adament this time around...

Mysticflower's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:45 PM
I would and have dated someone with a disability. I would like to be told from the start, but it wouldn't stop me from wanting to get to know the person on the inside.

wendynhouston's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:45 PM
Yes I would date someone that had a disability. A disability doesn't define who a person is.

I think people need to be up front about things. That being said, you aren't going to know everything about someone before you meet them or even on the first date/meeting. If the disability is one that would be noticeable, it would be wise to devulge the information ahead of time. Wouldn't want someone to be caught off-guard and not be able to really get to know you as a person because they are wondering why they weren't informed before hand.

catwoman96's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:46 PM
im mentally disabled. i got neuro sensors that dont always work right. causes weird sensations and psht. not fun.

honestly depends on the disablity..and level of functioning/awareness in another person.

oo your talking about jsut a date..sure I would hang with a person regardless of anything. im kewl like that.

Jill298's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:55 PM
I think the only reason I wouldn't date someone with a disability is if they lied to me about it. If it's something thats going to effect our life together I deserve to know about and decide whether or not I want to move forward. If you lie to me about it then that goes to your character, thats not the kind of character I want to be around.

no photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:01 PM
Edited by quiet_2008 on Sun 12/07/08 06:03 PM
eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way

I would never date someone with a disability


Jill298's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:03 PM
and I'm not sure I could date someone with a disability that meant I would never get to have sex again ohwell

Queene123's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:05 PM

and I'm not sure I could date someone with a disability that meant I would never get to have sex again ohwell


just because they have a disabilty doesnt stop them from having a life... were all human with feelings
my disabilty doesnt stop me from enjoying things
im just like anyone else.

Queene123's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:06 PM

eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way

I would never date someone with a disability




someone with no heartexplode

papersmile's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:12 PM


eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way

I would never date someone with a disability




someone with no heartexplode

and no kidneys

Lily0923's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:15 PM



eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no way

I would never date someone with a disability




someone with no heartexplode

and no kidneys


Like the sarcasm didn't sream from Quiet's post....slaphead

no photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:17 PM
sream?

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:19 PM
I have Lupus and I make sure people know right up front. It is a chronic condition that can interfere with life and was a contributing factor to my marriage failing. So, I get it out there right away.

Lily0923's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:19 PM

sream?


Yes, sream... noun, to yell without raising one's voice.

Guess you see my disability huh???

Jill298's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:20 PM


and I'm not sure I could date someone with a disability that meant I would never get to have sex again ohwell


just because they have a disabilty doesnt stop them from having a life... were all human with feelings
my disabilty doesnt stop me from enjoying things
im just like anyone else.
whoa I never said anything like that. I said if their disability would prevent us from having sex ever I'm not sure I could do it. I was not trying to offend anyone.

TJN's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:20 PM

sream?

isnt that a movie?laugh

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