Topic: To what extent...
GreenEyedHippieChick's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:37 PM
I am who I am, take it or leave it.
If you can't accept me for who I am,
Well then F--K You!
flowerforyou

Modius's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:38 PM
well said hippie...............I like you bigsmile

GreenEyedHippieChick's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:39 PM
why thankies Modiussmooched

bigpappa4331's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:40 PM
i'll take you i'll take you [jumping up and down waving my arms]honest i
will!!!!:smile:

no photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:41 PM
Sheila -- I just don't worry about stuff like that. If I want to talk
about llamas, I just do it. If I want to talk about something serious,
I just do that.

People are going to think whatever they're going to think, and I'm not
particularly interested in making an impression, per se. If they like
what I post, fine, that's a bonus because maybe it leads to some more
communication and some new friends, but I'm not about to change what I
write or how I write it just because someone might not like it or
understand it.


GreenEyedHippieChick's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:41 PM
hehehehehe Pops smooched

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:54 PM
I agree with many of the opinions expressed.

I recognize the limitations of this 2D format. We miss much of the
conversation without tone and inflection and intention. All we have to
go on is the words. Of course people will form opinions about me based
upon what I write here. In many cases it is all we have to go on.

I can be mindful and choose my words but I cannot predict how everyone
else will interpret them. We all come with our sets of filters and
belief systems and experiences which guide our own interpretation.

I saw a book title once ... 'What You Think Of Me Is None Of My
Business'.

If we believe our own press then we have to believe the good as well as
the bad. People's perceptions are just that - theirs.

So I write with the hope that my intentions are understood...or if they
are not that clarity is requested.

flowerforyou

Tameka's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:03 PM
i would have to say that i am the same person here as i am in real
life... i guess that i am really playful here... but i am in real life
as well... just not as often because day to day, i have reality to deal
with such as work, kids, family... that kind of thing.

adj4u's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:11 PM
original opening line

do you care what words you choose when posting are going to be judged as
to the content of your character?

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would be a waste of time to read it if they don't would it not

just a thought

but hey what do i know

adj4u's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:12 PM
hey ms hippie chick

is this an offer to be friends

bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

____________________________________

I am who I am, take it or leave it.
If you can't accept me for who I am,
Well then F--K You!

__________________________________________


would not want a friend that felt any other way

adj4u's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:12 PM
hey ms hippie chick

is this an offer to be friends

bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

____________________________________

I am who I am, take it or leave it.
If you can't accept me for who I am,
Well then F--K You!

__________________________________________


would not want a friend that felt any other way

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:20 PM
I can be a bit#ch on the outside but mostly I am a good humored soul
which is reflected in my posts.People are always judging ,some less
harshly than others.F@#$k em .I can only be me,as for the rest of the
personalities in my body well they will have to come forth and speak for
themselves.bigsmile

jeanc200358's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:22 PM
Lex, trust me. I do NOT worry about whether or not someone likes what I
have to say (and oftentimes because of "constraints" I've had to curb
what I'd REALLY say)...

And I'm not talking about worrying about being an individual...I don't
change a THING about what I say because I'm worried about what someone
else might think...ask anyone who knows me. LOL.

The last person I'd get a bad impression of on this site would be you.
Llamas and all. You've always conducted yourself like a gentleman,
pretty much, if memory serves.

I was hoping to not have to write a book explaining myself
here..but...won't be the first time..

I'm talking about conducting one self in such a way that someone doesn't
sit here and shake their head and go..man, he's a "jerk"..or she's
"trashy" or ...he's abusive... women...or she's this or that or he's
that or this...you know?

I've seen posts in some forums on some places, thinking ...good lord in
heaven..."look what the cat drug in."

and in general it's great to be yourself but ...I guess people who don't
"curb their conduct" don't worry about it cuz they'll find someone who
doesn't curb thier conduct too and voila! match made in heaven!




ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:27 PM
I am the same online and in person. My brain fires in multiple
directions at once. My mindfulness about word choice is about trying to
be clear.

If I have an opinion, popular or otherwise, I will share it.

bigpappa4331's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:33 PM
yup

bigpappa4331's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:34 PM
and i do believe your "self description" was quite accurate

Tneal's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:36 PM
I like to think I am on here as I am in real life. I joke, I laugh, I
argue, I feel. Nuff said

jeanc200358's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:36 PM
For clarification, who is your comment addressed to, BigP? Me or
Artgurl? thanks

bigpappa4331's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:40 PM
the "yup" was ,,artgurl the "self desription" was for you you have a
grasp of self ,,,i believe

jeanc200358's photo
Fri 04/13/07 02:46 PM
oh thanks for clarifying

but have to point out, as stated in the profile..it's not a "self"
description..meaning, I didn't write it...but...it is a description of
myself. And I was even surprised at how accurate it is!

It was fun doing the survey.

www.brainbench.com

personality inventory, if anyone wants to try it. I think they still do
it on that site, and it's free.drinker