Topic: how sweet is this...
EllenYUL's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:53 PM
A 19 year old messages me and i am pretty blunt but polite and explain he is too young for me (I do have a kid, and I am into a bit older...).. and he writes back all sweetly that I am sooo sweet and the most beautiful woman he has seen.

OK, I know he's 19, but wow. That just totally made my night. Ok I am into the wine also and kinda happy, but just someone telling me i am beautiful and sweet after I basically reject them is soooo refreshing.

Hey you 20, 30 and 40-somethings.. you can learn something here!!!! (this only applies to some of you... sorry to generalize)


night!


MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:55 PM

A 19 year old messages me and i am pretty blunt but polite and explain he is too young for me (I do have a kid, and I am into a bit older...).. and he writes back all sweetly that I am sooo sweet and the most beautiful woman he has seen.

OK, I know he's 19, but wow. That just totally made my night. Ok I am into the wine also and kinda happy, but just someone telling me i am beautiful and sweet after I basically reject them is soooo refreshing.

Hey you 20, 30 and 40-somethings.. you can learn something here!!!! (this only applies to some of you... sorry to generalize)


night!


flowers Thanks for sharing the adviceflowers

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:58 PM

A 19 year old messages me and i am pretty blunt but polite and explain he is too young for me (I do have a kid, and I am into a bit older...).. and he writes back all sweetly that I am sooo sweet and the most beautiful woman he has seen.

OK, I know he's 19, but wow. That just totally made my night. Ok I am into the wine also and kinda happy, but just someone telling me i am beautiful and sweet after I basically reject them is soooo refreshing.

Hey you 20, 30 and 40-somethings.. you can learn something here!!!! (this only applies to some of you... sorry to generalize)


night!




I get rejected all the time, but I don't care.smokin

no photo
Fri 12/05/08 07:01 PM
Another piece of advice... only say it if you mean it :)

CleanBathroom's photo
Fri 12/05/08 07:15 PM
Kids are often good for their honesty.

I don't wanna grow up. I'm a Toys 'R Us kid.

no photo
Sat 12/06/08 03:39 AM
Being rejected doesn't mean you find someone less attractive or beautiful, most wouldn't answer back after been rejected some would be angry because rejection ain't their thing but if your honest and are secure with yourself rejection is just part of life. From your picture I see here you are a beautiful woman that is a fact and it wouldn't change if you would say no thanks to me.

usernamefayou's photo
Sat 12/06/08 04:02 AM
i'm surprised this kid got replies

well how-dy

rejection for a dude is like the falling rain

i would have to be off my rocker to do that

krupa's photo
Sat 12/06/08 07:41 AM
That is cool. I find it is always best to let them down easy and it keeps things pleasant and civil. Younger/older, it matters not...some have easygoing and accepting personalities..some do not. Ironically, I find that many of my internet friends are ladies that I really like and would love to have some sack time with but, it is just not my fate. Still, doesn't stop me from apprecieateing them for the wonderful beauties that they are.

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 12/06/08 07:48 AM

A 19 year old messages me and i am pretty blunt but polite and explain he is too young for me (I do have a kid, and I am into a bit older...).. and he writes back all sweetly that I am sooo sweet and the most beautiful woman he has seen.

OK, I know he's 19, but wow. That just totally made my night. Ok I am into the wine also and kinda happy, but just someone telling me i am beautiful and sweet after I basically reject them is soooo refreshing.

Hey you 20, 30 and 40-somethings.. you can learn something here!!!! (this only applies to some of you... sorry to generalize)


*Makes note....wait until a woman is on the wine before making compliments.*

imsingle951's photo
Sat 12/06/08 07:55 AM
I get rejected all the time