Topic: Does having three kids show?
shamariahauri2's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:11 PM
Edited by shamariahauri2 on Fri 12/05/08 04:32 PM
Really insecure, here...

Will u look at my profile?



Tell me what I'm missing on info and if I still have the groove (mommy for so long I forget to look in the mirror)

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Fri 12/05/08 04:23 PM
You may want to rephrase the statement about your relationship. The way I read it your still in it. JMO Welcome to M2 have fun and good luckflowerforyou

EllenYUL's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:32 PM
I'm new on here, but If I were a guy reading your profile, the only concern I'd have is whether you have self-esteem issues.

take away the part about you wondering if men are even attracted to you. You look very pretty, so even if you are wondering it, its not so hot for a guy to know that.

I'm all for honesty otherwise!
Good luck :)

shamariahauri2's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:33 PM
thanks ellen I will correct that (but it's the truth ;(

EllenYUL's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:35 PM
i know the feeling, mommy here too. But the TRUTH is that confidence is hot. :)

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Fri 12/05/08 04:37 PM

thanks ellen I will correct that (but it's the truth ;(
let him be the judge of that, you when you met the right one that will all go away :smile:

plk1966's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:38 PM
You also might want to add some of the activities that you enjoy doing and things that you would like to try. JMO

shamariahauri2's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:39 PM
ur pretty too; you do have a confident glow about you--so i will take your advice

shamariahauri2's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:41 PM
yeah the right guy would do wonders, the guy i was/am with is controlling, so he's downplayed me for five years...which explains the low self-esteem; i never used to have it.


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Fri 12/05/08 04:42 PM
It don't show :smile:

plk1966's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:43 PM

yeah the right guy would do wonders, the guy i was/am with is controlling, so he's downplayed me for five years...which explains the low self-esteem; i never used to have it.




My ex husband did that for 12 yrs to me, just remember one thing. You are beautiful to yourself, your children and that man that is waiting to meet you.

Those who don't like you well that is there problem not yours. Its their lose not yours.

shamariahauri2's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:46 PM
yes you're absolutely right. and i think the thing is, he doesn't think I'm all that bad--he just doesn't want ME thinking I have anything to offer. I think it's all an elaborate trap.

But I will add some interests too.

shamariahauri2's photo
Fri 12/05/08 04:50 PM
Have any of you met anyone here that interested you--like where it turned to dating?

EllenYUL's photo
Fri 12/05/08 05:13 PM
I've met someone before but it was on lavalife and we lasted a year. he was incredible, but I met my ex-husband and thats that. Now I kick myself! I had a very controlling ex (who was wealthy) and I found out after the separation that he was 'keeping' another girl. A teeeeny weeeny cute little asian girl. My confidence was shot, but its coming back - not 100% though. You're not alone and I think that what plk1966 said is sooo true.

chin up!

zen31999's photo
Fri 12/05/08 11:07 PM
You r a lovely woman...Women are not supposed to be built like little girls. Flaunt it and enjoy.

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Fri 12/05/08 11:09 PM
papersmile has seven kids and she's pretty hot

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Sat 12/06/08 01:13 PM
EllenYUL, you should have controlled him,
u r a cutie 4 sure.

special_guy's photo
Sat 12/06/08 01:24 PM

Really insecure, here...

Will u look at my profile?



Tell me what I'm missing on info and if I still have the groove (mommy for so long I forget to look in the mirror)



You are hot!!!
Don't let anyone try to tell you otherwise