Topic: I don't blame you!
FreeToB's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:09 PM
Mail? What is MAIL?


907daydreamer's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:12 PM
oh you don't post a photo but you would really love to add me to MSN so you can "get to know" me.
gee, sorry...I'm all outta something for nothing!

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:12 PM
But lilith I only sent you the email because I didn't want the whole frickin world to know about my Anal Warts!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:13 PM

add me to MSN


screw the msn, let me get them digits,

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink: flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:14 PM
Makes me wonder if people had to mail instead of email, maybe they'd put forth more effort in what is written.

I'm tired of the Hi emails - nothing more nothing less just Hi.

I just reply in kind

Ron1218's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:15 PM
You all might hate me then because I talk A LOT so you'd have to actually start reading the emails :O

no photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:16 PM

Makes me wonder if people had to mail instead of email, maybe they'd put forth more effort in what is written.

I'm tired of the Hi emails - nothing more nothing less just Hi.

I just reply in kind


I got a hi email yesterday. So I replied back with the same thing. Then he asked me why I only said hi. huh noway

franshade's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:20 PM
damned if ya do
damned if ya don't
:laughing:

I'd reply - cuz

:laughing:

mscherbear's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:21 PM


Makes me wonder if people had to mail instead of email, maybe they'd put forth more effort in what is written.

I'm tired of the Hi emails - nothing more nothing less just Hi.

I just reply in kind


I got a hi email yesterday. So I replied back with the same thing. Then he asked me why I only said hi. huh noway


Oh for cryin' out loud!

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:26 PM
I get what people are saying about preferences and boundries.

On a date site a simple "Hi" is just a nice way of saying you caught my eye look back and see if you like my profile or you think we have anything in common. It isn't agressive or pushy and acknowledges the fact that a lot of people are not going to match so why write a disertation? And some people are slower to warm up to strangers.

I think standing on a demand for perfect grammer and punctuation is ok if you recognize you are probably passing up a lot of people who are extreamly smart and genuinely nice but might think fast but struggle to type. Not a skill everyone has. Not everyone is really at home with computers and all the features either.

I am currently talking to someone who is very busy, but still very nice, highly educated, and extreamly considerate but our inital contacts were very subtle and not great masterpieces of writing. The friendship has grown and so have the depth of the conversations. I am quite certain if it was a formal business presentation rather than an intimate conversations that the grammer and spelling ect. would be meticulous.

If the goal is to connect with someone and build bridges to a relationship maybe less focus on the forgetable errors and feeling the message might bring you closer to the heart you want.


no photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:30 PM

I get what people are saying about preferences and boundries.

On a date site a simple "Hi" is just a nice way of saying you caught my eye look back and see if you like my profile or you think we have anything in common. It isn't agressive or pushy and acknowledges the fact that a lot of people are not going to match so why write a disertation? And some people are slower to warm up to strangers.

I think standing on a demand for perfect grammer and punctuation is ok if you recognize you are probably passing up a lot of people who are extreamly smart and genuinely nice but might think fast but struggle to type. Not a skill everyone has. Not everyone is really at home with computers and all the features either.

I am currently talking to someone who is very busy, but still very nice, highly educated, and extreamly considerate but our inital contacts were very subtle and not great masterpieces of writing. The friendship has grown and so have the depth of the conversations. I am quite certain if it was a formal business presentation rather than an intimate conversations that the grammer and spelling ect. would be meticulous.

If the goal is to connect with someone and build bridges to a relationship maybe less focus on the forgetable errors and feeling the message might bring you closer to the heart you want.




The hi emails wouldn't be so bad if they would follow up with something of a little more substance.

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:36 PM
Pacific, we aren't talking about sincerely interested parties here.

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:40 PM

oh you don't post a photo but you would really love to add me to MSN so you can "get to know" me.
gee, sorry...I'm all outta something for nothing!


No, it's like THIS:

"U B kewl. I wanna git 2 no u. Hit me on MSN".

907daydreamer's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:43 PM


oh you don't post a photo but you would really love to add me to MSN so you can "get to know" me.
gee, sorry...I'm all outta something for nothing!


No, it's like THIS:

"U B kewl. I wanna git 2 no u. Hit me on MSN".


haha classic.

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:48 PM


Makes me wonder if people had to mail instead of email, maybe they'd put forth more effort in what is written.

I'm tired of the Hi emails - nothing more nothing less just Hi.

I just reply in kind


I got a hi email yesterday. So I replied back with the same thing. Then he asked me why I only said hi. huh noway


They may be a bit behind the times as of late, but at least they're doing what they were told:

"Just Say Hi".

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:50 PM
yooooooooooooooooo shawtyyy,

Can i axxxxeeeeeee you a question?


:wink: flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:52 PM
Aww Dubz. I be knowing yous for a minute. Supafly. Axe away.

buttons's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:53 PM
Edited by buttons on Mon 12/01/08 01:08 PM

people don't want to correspond, or even to chat, they want magic... for that go to the nearest magic show... they have to put forth the effort to get desired results. (jmo) Which is why I stay on the forums :banana:


laugh laugh laugh i had a email the other day..."do you want to chat?" .... i havent answered it yetlaugh dont know that i will...almost bot likenoway :laughing:

franshade's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:54 PM
I never be cool enuff to undastand kewl tawk -

what about the - so tell me about yourself

Marley's photo
Mon 12/01/08 12:56 PM
Ever get a message from someone who talks dirty to you? Kinda like it.:wink: