Being the inquisitive guy that I am, I recently attempted to sign up on
the dating site "Conecting Singles". For those living under a rock,
This happens to be the site that our many new arrivals fled from.
The following is the response I recieved from "CS" after signing up...



Hello BigGlenn,
The profile you submitted cannot be approved. We have been warned by a
past member of the site that you are attempting to join for reasons
other than dating. As you know, Several members of connecting singles
have been banned or left this site and they continue to spread rumors
and lies aboutC.S.. Although we will not go into detail,, rest assured
that there were very valid reasons for removing a core group who did
everything they could to stir up trouble for staff and other members.
Obviously a decision such as this would not have been made without
extreme reason. A small clique is manipulating, misleading and sending
others to carry out there crusade, using them as pawns in their power
game. When members use gossip and lies to cause fights and justify
breaking rules, They are removed. These members knew the rules, were
given reason, but chose not to listen. They may be happier somewhere
else and the site will have a fresh start.
Ordinarily, We would welcome you as a new member, But given the current
situation, The time is not right.

Regards,
Connecting Singles Staff


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Now, To my fellow JSHers (new and old),
I posted this for a couple of reasons.
1 : The "formers" can see what their past site is saying about them.
2 : Those of us who never heard of CS until this week get their side of
the story.
3 : Notice who wrote the e-mail, CS Staff. I for one never give
creedence to anything written that someone won't put their name on.

... and most important,
4 : Someone here at JSH is a plant for CS. I did not post this to start
a paranoid frenzy. I posted it to keep everyone informed. Be careful
what you say and who you say it to. We don't know the intent of the
person/persons who are giving CS their info..
My intentions are to keep the harmony we have here at JSH, Not to spread
discord.


Big G.

BigGlenn, The notion that there is a 'plant' comes entirely from this
line, right?

"We have been warned by a past member of the site"

I don't get this at all. There is a 'past member' who is advising CS
who they should and should not accept?

Oh, and just in case anyone is unaware, (as far as I know) everything in
the community section of JSH is visible to the entire world, member or
not.

Trade,
I'm just showing all what they said to me. I gave my opinion. I don't
claim to know anything else.

G.

hello Big Glenn... just yesterday i think i sent a member
here,PassMS1980

a heads up warning because i saw her over there posting...i warned her
that they read private emails...she politely thanked me and seems to be
doing just fine there....so you see the discrimination continues...and
yes there is a mole...but how do we find it???


if you want to have more info you may feel free to email me privately


sincerely

alex

heh interesting

well thx

they kicked me off

no explanation or warning

and do not recall breaking any rules

and was there 2 years or more

but who cares anymore i am here

and how did they know you where on this site did you tell them

or are they illegally getting information off your computor

just a thought

but hey what do i know

i have my suspisiouns on who

but i am not going to say

They obviously have somebody on this site, otherwise they wouldn't get
the information. We should not let that bother us, as we are here and
not there anymore, and I for myself am glad that we escaped the witch
hunt that was going on over there

hey glenn,

Yup. Fact is there was an option to choose from when signing up. Looking
for...

marriage
freinds/hang out
long term
intimate encounters...

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I was the for two years. as have been others.

I do have saved screen shots of mails from the preditor that was called
out.

No, the cs staff lie. All there is to it.

Some of us woke to be deleted. We did nothing. Others as well.

When there is someone dangerous...a scammer, I for one want to know, and
I will warn others.
This person wove through many many people. Used intimidation and
threats to shut people up. And, staff have done the same.
Victims of abuse are deleted. and the abusers kept on the site.

It's not uncommon for people to belong to other sites...
So, not sure what the "mole" thing means

I do know the abuser Goes under many profiles. I also know this person
has all the time in the world to do what he does. He has no life
offline. Has ben known to stalk folks...

Nothing those of us brought to light is rumour, or an untruth.

I was warned once to shut up by staff.

They do not answer emails. EVER. So, I am surprised you recieved one.
Some have been writing for months.

I'll just say, I say things up front. I do not tolerate abuse from
anyone. And, I will stand up, and back the truth.

Many many threads have been deleted. So, unless anyone saved them, all
we have is our word as to who we are, and who we prove to be by our
actions.

How paranoid is that? lol
"A small clique is manipulating, misleading and sending
others to carry out there crusade, using them as pawns in their power
game."

When in reality those core members have lives offline, and share truth
and love.

There's more. but, we wanted a new beginning, and not have the drama
brought in to make this site a negative place.

Others from here have joined and they allowed it.
Shows how the pick and choose factor comes into play.

CS never never used to be that way. I was once a freedom place, and so
full of life. We all shared our heats, good, and bad days. Helped others
in need. Were allowed to vent safely...

Things changed in a bad way. and, nothing can be made sense of there
now.

hey big glenn

who did you tell you were gonna try signing up

just a thought

but hey what do i know

WoW !!! This is very interesting,, I just went and made a profile to see
if I could,,, and it let me,,, Hmmmmmmmmmm very
intersting I might say,,,, Thier is so much going on around here,,, I
have to say I love JSH and the calm we have and the ability for all of
us to come on and meet and greet with our friends is amazing,,, I would
really like to see JSH stay the home I have found it to be... Having
people on here to cause hurt to someone is just plain wrong...

well obviously it is someone so paranoid they have to watch both sites
and see who is a likely candidate for exposing them...like we really
even care!!


this is so stupid... if it is Rich aka the professor he has been known
to make several profiles in male or female catagories... he is
seriously messed up and pathalogical.... but hey we have better things
to do right??

i suggest we disarm whom ever it is by ignoring the whole thing and
having fun and keeping each other awake.


just a note: how professional is it to write an email in such a
fashion?? as the one they wrote to you??

interesting

very interesting

Noam Chomsky:

If we do not believe in freedom of speech for
those we despise we do
not believe in it at all.

nsa is watching

lol

Emoturb,
I hope I didn't imply that any newbies lied. I don't believe that and
that wasn't my intent. Just sharing my experience.
As far as who I told I was going to sign up? I made a joke on a thread
about heading a raid to rescue some others.

THANKS BG!!! good ta know..


no worries though.. beefed up security in the pub.. got some EXTRA
bouncers and installed a few spy camera's with audio recording so.. we
shud be good


O and.. having a resident FIERCE dragon on watch full time helps

Oh, and "Thank you, Glenn!" for posting this.

I'm very protective of those I care for. I just want everyone to be
informed and safe.

good to know