Glenn, no need for defense..you're merely presenting information; CS is
digging its own grave.

Lex, you hit the nail on the head.

In much simpler terms, what CS is doing is trying to cause paranoia and
dissention not only amongst its former members who are now here, but
have it spread to the current JSH members as well, to the point that no
one will be able to trust anyone else.

I'm beginning to see that was their tactic over there, as well, because
they obviously only want little CS "Stepford" members, who will blindly
follow each other like pawns in their little mind-manipulation game.

Oh, I said I was going to make it simple, didn't I? Me? Simple? Ha!

Sorry!

Anyway, bottom line?

THEY CAN'T STAND THE COMPETITION!

Hey folks,

Just a couple of quick points:

- The forums are public for all to see. You don't have to be a member
of JustSayHi to read them. So I wouldn't necessarily be suspicious of a
specific member - anyone could know what is happening by simply visiting
the site. So let's not turn on our own or anything over this, and
please be aware that anyone can read your posts because it is a public
forum.

- In general, we prefer that people NOT talk about other dating sites on
the forums, given that they are the competition and all. We've
been trying to be pretty accomodating about it given the influx of new
folks, but now that our own members are starting to sign up over there,
we'd like to ask everyone to please avoid mentioning any other dating
sites in the future if possible.

Thanks for understanding.

Mike

My apologies Mike,
My intentions were well placed, But I understand your concerns and I'm
sorry if I stepped over the line.

G.

G - not at all, I know your intentions were good. Just hope you see
where we are coming from too.

Thanks again for understanding.

Mike

i myself glenn think that what they told you was none of your business
for one... seems strange to me that the staff of that place is doing the
very same thing they are accusing their members of doing.... quite
childish and very unbusiness like if u ask me.... furthermore the so
called person that is on here to watch,could be a staff member after
reading that note...just a lurker on here.. who knows but that note u
posted is quite interesting since i wanted to go see what it was like
myself.. since i never heard of it.. not to cause problems there just to
check it out.. guess i just lost interest of even looking now thanks for
the thread.....

JSH rocks! im glad van and mike are more personal, tactful definately
and even business like to boot! thats what makes this place special..
to van and mike we can be ourselves here. and lets
respect them and the rules we have and keep this a great place to be
everyone... thanks van and mike

My only comment is, who cares? What difference does it make what's
happening at TSFH, we're here now, it really doesn't matter who knows.

And btw, I was not a member of some "core group", I even tried to defend
the moderators actions, and where did it get me? They're the paranoid
ones, I say!

This is my last comment on the subject, from now on, it's all just say
hi!

Hi!!!!!!!!!!

Buttons,

Good Morning everyone, and thank you Mike for coming in and clarifying
that issue of "observation without membership" I was wonderingabout
that when I first started reading this thread a few minutes ago, and am
glad to see it mentioned.
And as buttons and others have said, I personally am glad that you DO
take such an active role and even participate in the forumns themselves.
You do not rely on word of mouth,and ifthere isever confusion or
distatse over something, you come in andexplain it. Thank you for the
maturity, and responsibility that shows.

For everyone else, I am glad to see we have som many caring memebers who
want to help protect everyone. But the bottom line is, we can not stop
them from watching, we can not stop them form saying anything, so why
even think about it. Let's just go on with our normal lives, and have
fun.

I love you all and look forward to seeing you all for a very long time.

Mike, let me apologize for posting this in advance, but I think this has
to be said.

I was also kicked off of the other site. Just before being kicked off,
I came to look at JSH, not join, just look.

When I tried to log on, I was blocked.

I suspect that they were either looking for folks that were on their
site for more than two years or they were looking at my cookies to
determine if I visited this site.

Glenn, I don't think there is a mole, I think they just looked at your
cookies and determined that we're trouble makers.

What's funny is, I didn't have anything against the site. I just wanted
to occasionally wanted to post on their forum.

As far as I'm concerned, after what they have done, I will never visit
their site again. Besides, I love this site and I think I found a
home.

Thanks Mike...and I made my post with the full knowledge that anyone who
wants to to be able to read it can read it, even though they're not
members here. In fact, I did it specifically for that reason. I'm not
ashamed of what I said, for it's the truth.

Having said that, I do know it's not "proper protocol" to mention other
dating sites by name...

So is saying "that other place" okay?

hehe...just kidding.

Thanks for your involvement here; it really means a lot to us.

H Sweetheart (Bev not Glenn ) , I see that this
caught your interest.

How about you and me sneaking off together and............

OMG ...they can see our cookies??

I didn't know anyone could see my cookies! I didn't even know my cookies
were showing!

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I'm sure I jumped the gun with the "mole" tag. I just thought the note I
got was telling. I started this thread before my first cup of
coffee.
I don't want to sound like a conspirist.

Yep, I forgot to put my pants on that day.


Seriously, any site can check out the cookies on your computer. Cookies
are used to speed up access on the web by containing surfing info.

Speaking of cookies,
A little girl was in the barber's chair getting a haircut and eating a
cookie.
When she made a wierd face, The barber asked, " What's the matter
sweetheart, Do you have hair on your cookie?"
To which the little girl responded,
" No! I'm only seven!"

Hey Glenn, you just posted the info you had and I thank you for
that.

I'm not really sure, but I'm also posting the info I had.

Sorry if I accused you of anything.

glenn

thanks, bs...yeah, I know what they are, but I didn't know anyone else
could see them! ...or that they'd even potentially want to.

OMG Glenn that was just WRONG!!!!!!! lmao...