Topic: my girlfriend wont have sex with me
I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Sun 11/30/08 02:02 AM
Yup. I vote that you are trying to sail in a sinking ship. You are not going to be getting very far.

no photo
Sun 11/30/08 02:06 AM

Nothin you can do to change it...if you love her, let her go. If it's right she'll come back.


This sucks; I hate it. It's little consolation for you, I know. But it's the only truth I've found. I have to agree with this statement, man. You push any harder, and things will get worse.

no photo
Sun 11/30/08 02:07 AM

Actually she has already left emotionally.
Your holding onto a memory.
Let the memory go, and live for a new day.

Peace...smokin


Well put.

no photo
Sun 11/30/08 03:16 PM
if someone still claims that she still loves you but she is not in love with you, what is that means?

3oh3's photo
Sun 11/30/08 03:18 PM


Nothin you can do to change it...if you love her, let her go. If it's right she'll come back.


This sucks; I hate it. It's little consolation for you, I know. But it's the only truth I've found. I have to agree with this statement, man. You push any harder, and things will get worse.


That's totally true. Why force something when the other party doesn't want it to happen? All that's going to happen is more heartbreak and you've held on so long it's going to hurt even more when you are let down.

pink1979's photo
Sun 11/30/08 03:24 PM
maybe its time to move on and let u be happy,let her go and if its ment to be dont sweat it shell come back to u. mayb she needs to get out there and find out that dating sucks, and most men only want a peice of ass, and then she will realize that u were a good thing and come running back to u, that is if u are not a smuck, there are always two sides of every story!!!!!!!

keepthehope's photo
Sun 11/30/08 11:37 PM
Sex is the least of your problems. Maybe try to win her back. Romance her again. All relationships hit a lull, but that is when you have to work extra hard to keep it going. Unless she is involved with someone else, don't be so quick to give up. I would definitely lay off the sex for a little while.

hunky62's photo
Sun 11/30/08 11:45 PM

we have been together almost 4 yrs,she started out slowly loosing sex drive w me, last month she told me she loves very much but she is not in love with me, i love her to death, please anyone knows how to bring her love back, i feel am going to loose her,



...after making PORN all day...she just doesn't have any energy left when she gets home.

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Mon 12/01/08 12:01 AM


Send her my way when she leaves

Mannnn, that was mean.....
no kidding.......now I see why a lot of you guys are single. GROW UP

SharpShooter10's photo
Mon 12/01/08 02:52 AM

we have been together almost 4 yrs,she started out slowly loosing sex drive w me, last month she told me she loves very much but she is not in love with me, i love her to death, please anyone knows how to bring her love back, i feel am going to loose her,
I've heard that I love you but i'm not in love with you crap before, dump her, she is probably just using you or waiting for a chance to leave anyway. You can't make her love you, it is either there or it isn't. Four years if she is not in love with you by now, it's not gonna happen most likely.

SharpShooter10's photo
Mon 12/01/08 02:56 AM

And it has nothing to do with the fact that you are posting on a dating site looking for your princess? I guess my impression would be if you are so in love you would not be seeking. Maybe I missed something.
This is a social site, not just for dating, nothing wrong with someone being on here if they enjoy the forums or contact friends through here.

Jtevans's photo
Mon 12/01/08 02:59 AM

we have been together almost 4 yrs,she started out slowly loosing sex drive w me, last month she told me she loves very much but she is not in love with me, i love her to death, please anyone knows how to bring her love back, i feel am going to loose her,



give her a golden shower



women love it!

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 12/01/08 03:17 AM
Hey boka....I love you but I'm not in love with you means I ran into my ex about 4 months ago and I've been screwing him ever since and I don't want you to smell him on me and you're nothing but a convenience and I'm searching for a way to get out of this relationship because I don't want to hurt you but I can't stand you. Uh um- can you tell I've been here before?

Adrenaline's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:19 AM
I'm not gonna lie to you, that's not a good sign. You sound like you're wandering into the town of Friendville. Psychologists say that women are more likely to link sex with emotional attachment as opposed to the physical mechanics of sex like guys do. If she lacking in sexual interest with you, it might point to a lack in emotional interest with you as well. That would explain the "love you but not in love with you" explanation.

adj4u's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:26 AM
sounds to me this is

the girl formerly known as your girlfriend

sorry for your apparent loss

life is too short to dwell

the only one that can actually control you is you
if you permit another to control you
that is your choice to make

may much good come your way

no photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:59 AM
if she loves you but she's not in love with you, sooner or later she's gonna find someone that she thinks she is in love with

where will you be then?

cottonelle's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:11 AM
Edited by cottonelle on Mon 12/01/08 10:15 AM

we have been together almost 4 yrs,she started out slowly loosing sex drive w me, last month she told me she loves very much but she is not in love with me, i love her to death, please anyone knows how to bring her love back, i feel am going to loose her,

you just answered your own question...lol


just kidding...lol

izzie's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:43 AM

A.Your boring
B.You have tiny wienie
C.you have turned her into a lesbian
D.All the above
i cant beleve you stole my answer!
grumble grumble grumble grumble

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:45 AM
Rupert Holmes wrote a song called "Escape".

It is commonly known as the Pina Colada Song. Go download it, learn the words, and play while she is in the car. Sing along, volume turned waaaaaaay up. Ask for commentary...(on song, not your singing) that is your answer. That'll be $40.

hunky62's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:54 AM
Wow...this ties in with the "Where have I heard that before?" thread...take a look...