Boka...Don't know your whole situation, but maybe she wants more out of this relationship. Maybe she wants a proposal from you, a commitment that you are going to be there forever, a marriage. Does she have concerns that that is never going to happen? There are still women in this world with morals. Just my opinion.

I'd never marry anyone I just told I loved but wasn't in love with.

Here we all sit replying, where did the OP go?? Haven't seen him at all in 3 pages of replies.

No shocker.....

Me either...but maybe that was what she was looking for a year or two ago, then realizing, or knowing it was never going to be, she decided she should move on.

Honestly? This lady should have been communicating with him. It seems so sad.

He's busy looking for nookie replacement.

Maybe!!!

you havent told me that yet...I have hope.

she's long gone>>>>

Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me

To say that most men only want a peice of ass is offensive to me! Especially when its possible that she is already doing someone else. Now how's that make you feel......lol

Have some distance.
Give her more space, see her less and less till she calls you all the time wanting to make plans. Do this for a while just showing heavy disinterest and she'll totally be all over your balls in about 2 weeks.

invite her to your house and show her porn movie maybe she want some

I absolutely agree, but communication is a two way street. Both people have to work at it to make it work. Sounds like there may have been some communication problems on both ends if he didn't express his concerns. Things like this are usually gradual slides... No one says anything as the whole relationship slowly crumbles, and before you know it, there's nothing left of what was there in the beginning.

I think if you get like a new face that might work. I saw a movie with John Travolta, and he changed his face. It worked. He fooled everybody

Is it okay to live with your ex in same house?

well its time to find another girlfriend...duh

It could be problematic...

Concerning the sex thing- well some women stop having sex with their men when he stops meeting her sexual needs.

I have a friend who's with her man and they haven't had sex in months. Do you think they're going to last? I don't. He doesn't meet her needs. The lights are always off, he doesn't make noises and he closes his eyes- everytime!

Maybe you suck at sex. Who knows, but if you come here instead of talking to your lady then that doesn't make a lot of sense. You have to let her know how you're feeling.

There is nothing that you can do. You can not make anyone do something they don't want ... that is trying to control them. The only true form of control is self control.

Try to control yourself and maybe things will change...but don't hold your breathe. I would make like a chainsaw and run run ruuuuunnnn rrrrruuuuuunnnn (that's a chainsaw sound)