Topic: Need advice about liars
no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:36 AM







how did you find out she joined the site

just curious
Her friend showed it to me


But...weren't you apart then?
Yes like I said it's so confusing I just wish I knew from the start before putting all that effort in.



Ummm...that's how it happens when a relationship doesn't work out.
very true it still hurts though you know you think you found the one and bam back to the drawing board unfortunately im not getting any younger.


Yes, it hurts. Yes, it sucks. But..I don't see how she did you wrong. flowerforyou
I guess it's really hard for others to understand but I felt like I was lied to guess it's something you have to experience for yourself to understand.

Winx's photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:39 AM
Edited by Winx on Sat 11/29/08 01:40 AM








how did you find out she joined the site

just curious
Her friend showed it to me


But...weren't you apart then?
Yes like I said it's so confusing I just wish I knew from the start before putting all that effort in.



Ummm...that's how it happens when a relationship doesn't work out.
very true it still hurts though you know you think you found the one and bam back to the drawing board unfortunately im not getting any younger.


Yes, it hurts. Yes, it sucks. But..I don't see how she did you wrong. flowerforyou
I guess it's really hard for others to understand but I felt like I was lied to guess it's something you have to experience for yourself to understand.


I believe that most people here have been in relationships that didn't work out. There are no guarantees. You are lucky to find this out before you entered into a marriage, IMO.

I still don't see how you were lied to.flowerforyou


no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:42 AM
Oh yes definitely if we got married and she pulled this I would have blown a fuse. I guess that's one positive way to look at it I was lucky in that regard.

mythicalman22's photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:46 AM
just go get yourself some young and dumb chick and make her feel real bad about herself. Trust me it works great.If you want to I can give you somenumbers of some girls you can take your hostility out on.Your first mistake you made was in trusting a girl my man,never trust a girl..I respect a girl..I respect how manipulative they all are, they all have some serious gifts at that and at lying, its allmost impossible to tell if they lie.Just try to be more like a women,*****y, winey, liars who do anything to get what they want

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:46 AM

nice excuse typical women thing to say. become a man whore like me buddy. Dont just let them repeatedly surprise you with how shallow and immature women are go out and fight fire with fire.Find a really sweet girl and destroy her, thats exactly what they do then they allways ask where have all the good guys gone..That is the next step, be a completely arrogant asshole and ask the worlds most stupid question.Make sure that you have atleast trampled a few hearts before the infamous retarded girl question


I have no intentions of turning this into a any form of "religious" thread...but, WOWZERS! You profess to be a Buddhist/Taoist? noway

Anyhooos...

Regarding the OP stating..."you should have heard what she said to me". Well, perhaps I should have, but I haven't, and never will.

I'm simply stating you made it loud and clear in your first post that she stated...loud and clear..."you are too young...I'm not looking for a long-term relationship".

What I "hear" there is that you are/were too emotionally young for her, and perhaps she realized this after getting to know you more personally.

So what she has joined another dating site? This does not necessarily mean she seeks marriage or commitment...perhaps just another venue for interaction.

Certainly, she could have been more open with you about her feelings...perhaps even being BLUNT by saying..."I'm just not into YOU", but I don't think her actions warrant being publically labled a liar.

JMHO... flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:47 AM
If someone tells you everyday I love you so much we're going to be together forever I never want to lose you. I don't know what I would do if we broke up or never talked again. Then does a turnaround and says im not ready for a serious relationship then goes on a dating site 2 weeks later how is that not lying? really confusing to me.

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:52 AM
Edited by SilverJoy on Sat 11/29/08 01:53 AM

If someone tells you everyday I love you so much we're going to be together forever I never want to lose you. I don't know what I would do if we broke up or never talked again. Then does a turnaround and says im not ready for a serious relationship then goes on a dating site 2 weeks later how is that not lying? really confusing to me.


I wouldn't necessarily call that "lying"...but, rather psychotic.

Again....HUGE difference! flowerforyou

Oh, and for Mythical's second post...again...WOW! I do commend you for your honesty on your profile about "being burned" a few times. May want to edit that to add...

"...TO A FRIGGIN' CRISP"! laugh

mythicalman22's photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:53 AM
If someone tells you everyday I love you so much we're going to be together forever I never want to lose you. I don't know what I would do if we broke up or never talked again. Then does a turnaround and says im not ready for a serious relationship then goes on a dating site 2 weeks later how is that not lying? really confusing to me.


lol exactly..

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:54 AM
smitten She's my girlfriend nowsmitten

adj4u's photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:57 AM
so how long were you a member there

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:58 AM

If someone tells you everyday I love you so much we're going to be together forever I never want to lose you. I don't know what I would do if we broke up or never talked again. Then does a turnaround and says im not ready for a serious relationship then goes on a dating site 2 weeks later how is that not lying? really confusing to me.


lol exactly..


And I must interject here...any MAN that actually falls for that over the INTERNET alone, without actually MEETING the woman and spending QUALITY time with her in person...

GETS "BURNED"!

lol...exactly! :wink:

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 01:59 AM

so how long were you a member there
Member where?

adj4u's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:00 AM
at the site you mentioned in the o p

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:01 AM


If someone tells you everyday I love you so much we're going to be together forever I never want to lose you. I don't know what I would do if we broke up or never talked again. Then does a turnaround and says im not ready for a serious relationship then goes on a dating site 2 weeks later how is that not lying? really confusing to me.


lol exactly..


And I must interject here...any MAN that actually falls for that over the INTERNET alone, without actually MEETING the woman and spending QUALITY time with her in person...

GETS "BURNED"!

lol...exactly! :wink:
We spent plenty of time together and she told me this stuff looking straight into my eyes and saying it.

yaya28's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:01 AM
If someone lies to you, just run away as fast as you can. She isn't worth your time or this post my friend.

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:03 AM

at the site you mentioned in the o p
I was a member a week then deleted my account before I even met this girl.

mythicalman22's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:03 AM
lol silvertoy...If you knew me at all you would know that my posts on this matter are simply tom foolery. I joke around alot but this dude is right in a way. The exactly post was my only real feelings..I am kinda a man whore now though and find it amusing how women think they know men and vice versa..I am very over getting BURNT and am more confident then ever before and owe it all to that lying b*tch..lol..thank you

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:06 AM



If someone tells you everyday I love you so much we're going to be together forever I never want to lose you. I don't know what I would do if we broke up or never talked again. Then does a turnaround and says im not ready for a serious relationship then goes on a dating site 2 weeks later how is that not lying? really confusing to me.


lol exactly..


And I must interject here...any MAN that actually falls for that over the INTERNET alone, without actually MEETING the woman and spending QUALITY time with her in person...

GETS "BURNED"!

lol...exactly! :wink:
We spent plenty of time together and she told me this stuff looking straight into my eyes and saying it.


Just an FYI...I was referring to Mythical's post, Riff! :wink:

Regarding YOUR situation, again...I wouldn't classify her as a liar perse, but perhaps a woman who is NOT clear on what/who she wants in her life right now.

Then again, she may be very clear on who/what she wants...and it's not you...but, can't face the confrontation to actually TELL you. She said it in so many words, but just wasn't blunt enough about it...so, shame on her. Agreed. ohwell

catwoman96's photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:08 AM
bitter???

no seriosuly. liars aint worth your time. drama is a waste of energy.

too many other things going on.

Im gonna rid tthe world of drama...funny and romantic movies ONLY

no photo
Sat 11/29/08 02:11 AM

lol silvertoy...If you knew me at all you would know that my posts on this matter are simply tom foolery. I joke around alot but this dude is right in a way. The exactly post was my only real feelings..I am kinda a man whore now though and find it amusing how women think they know men and vice versa..I am very over getting BURNT and am more confident then ever before and owe it all to that lying b*tch..lol..thank you


Ummm...that would be SilverJOY...and not "toy"! ohwell laugh

And while your little speech was sweet...it made NO sense whatsoever.

Hopefully, as you mature in life....

Oh well, nevermind. You are right, I don't "know" you at all. Carry on! :banana: