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Ladies this JAG guy, he obviously is some kind of repressed freak, he isn't hitting on all of you so apparently somethings wrong with him right? I mean, he must not like sex, because he wants to talk about other things right? I think you should all avoid him he's not sterotypical. 
(ok maybe now that I scared them all off I will have a chance) 
Yep. I am a psychological anomaly. A guy who actually uses his BRAINS to think rather than let his penis do the thinking for him??? SURELY NOT!!!! That could NEVER happen!!!!
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You guys should start "The Good Guy" club. Why not, us girls have a club? 
Oh HELL no!!! That would come way too close to being a " Nice Guy " club. We ALL know what happens to " nice " guys around here. 
 I stand corrected
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the guys that come on really strong and talk about sex and stuff all the time are the ones who arent getting any.
kinda funny how that works. |
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WOW   I owe some of the men on this site an apology  I'M SORRY! Apparently some of you are gentlemen. A lot of men on this site could take lessons from you guys.
In defense of the ladies on this site, after meeting so many guys that just want to "talk dirty" and never meet. It just seems like the "norm" on these types of sites, so when we do meet someone that actually wants to do this "dating site" stuff the way it was actually intended, it stumps us. Sincere apoligies
No apology is necessary. At least to me, RED. I can totally understand why some women would consider it the " norm " around here. After all...it probably is. Meanwhile, those of us that aren't within the " norm " sit here figuring that eventually, someone that we contact is going to look a little deeper and not assume that the norm applies to us. |
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I only e-mail smart guys....I don't want their bods. Well..that would be a point in my favor since my " bod " isn't all that great....lol |
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Aww Justa...I just perved your profile and you're such a sweetie! She probably couldn't help herself!
Well for cryin out loud. Why couldn't I get someone relatively normal to not be able to help herself??? Sheesh...lol |
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the guys that come on really strong and talk about sex and stuff all the time are the ones who arent getting any. kinda funny how that works. Ya know....way back in High School I noticed a bit of a trend. The guys that talked about being the most well endowed...were the ones with the least to brag about. The ones who talked about getting sex the most...were the ones who actually had sex the least. |
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Your going the right way.
I've lived a whole life of one nightstands, and traveling all over the world for the job I use to have and never really had meaning full relationships. Now that I have retired from that line of work and opened my business, I found that no one wants to have a relationship with me. I'm developing a thought that it has tobe that someguys are only good for the one night stand thing and others are good for real relationships. You seem to be more for the relationships. I on the other hand have lived my life alone and basically as a play toy for women, but never have been given a serious thought for a real Relationship. It sounds like a great time when your younger but when you get older you find out how lonely you really are. What I'm getting at is; don't second guess your self and think that theres something wrong with you. You were and still are a better man that I ever was or will be. |
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<snip> Sex is like icing on the cake................ and if you don't have good cake <snip> Am I the only one that read this and though "But you can just eat the icing off"... all humor aside, I find I need to have some sort of attraction to someone to go out on a date with them... the date is to find out of there's something meaningful behind the attraction. |
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can I have your fidora?
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can I have your fidora? Which one? I'm fairly attached to each of them! 
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That is why I keep my IM turned off--most guys DO want to talk like that. We love you for NOT being like those guys, Just. (((Tim)))
 
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That is why I keep my IM turned off--most guys DO want to talk like that. We love you for NOT being like those guys, Just. (((Tim)))
Thanks {{{Cher}}}. 
I know that it's probably " old fashioned " thinking, and probably not really the way to go these days ( or at least my brother tells me that )...but I am the way I am...lol Nice to know that there is a chance that I'll find someone who can appreciate it. |
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i don't think you are a freak at all. i wish there were more guys who thought like you do. kudos to you...maybe you can convince others that being genuine and caring is the way to go!
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i don't think you are a freak at all. i wish there were more guys who thought like you do. kudos to you...maybe you can convince others that being genuine and caring is the way to go!
Well...considering my track record, and considering that I have been alone for the last four years...the chances of ME convincing anyone that my way of thinking is the right way to go would be pretty slim, I think. |
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hey..you never know what can happen...the woman of your dreams may walk right by you tomorrow...take a chance...it'll be worth it!
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hey..you never know what can happen...the woman of your dreams may walk right by you tomorrow...take a chance...it'll be worth it!
Unfortunately, taking chances is what has gotten me to be the overly cautious, overly analytical person I am today. : shrugs : |
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I just got an IM out of the blue tonight and, feeling adventurous, I decided to go ahead and accept. It wasn't a scammer, which is what I expected. It was an actual ( I think ) woman that just wanted to talk. I discerned, after talking to her for a bit, that she had never even looked at my profile ( real big shock there ) but yet, was telling me that she wished I was there with her. My response : " You don't even know me " Answer : " What's to know? " What really cracked me up was when she asked if I liked " spooning " and I told her " At times ". She then proceeded to say " Well aren't you a male? " I said yes She then said " well aren't you horny??? " My response " Not particularly " lol I told her that just cuz I am a guy, that doesn't make me a walking hard on. She then asked me " Well what DOES that make you ? " I have a very simple answer to that question..... One that doesn't think with his d*ck....lmao Serious question...... Am I considered some kind of freak because I have never had a one night stand? Am I some kind of alien being because I think sex should actually mean something more than just getting off??? That made me laugh. People make all kinds of assumptions on here, though. There are some who think the way this girl did. There are some guys who assume that any woman on a site like this is desperate and lonely and should date anyone who asks. Just laugh at them and move on. |
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I just got an IM out of the blue tonight and, feeling adventurous, I decided to go ahead and accept. It wasn't a scammer, which is what I expected. It was an actual ( I think ) woman that just wanted to talk. I discerned, after talking to her for a bit, that she had never even looked at my profile ( real big shock there ) but yet, was telling me that she wished I was there with her. My response : " You don't even know me " Answer : " What's to know? " What really cracked me up was when she asked if I liked " spooning " and I told her " At times ". She then proceeded to say " Well aren't you a male? " I said yes She then said " well aren't you horny??? " My response " Not particularly " lol I told her that just cuz I am a guy, that doesn't make me a walking hard on. She then asked me " Well what DOES that make you ? " I have a very simple answer to that question..... One that doesn't think with his d*ck....lmao Serious question...... Am I considered some kind of freak because I have never had a one night stand? Am I some kind of alien being because I think sex should actually mean something more than just getting off???    cheers mate
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That made me laugh. People make all kinds of assumptions on here, though. There are some who think the way this girl did. There are some guys who assume that any woman on a site like this is desperate and lonely and should date anyone who asks. Just laugh at them and move on.
Well..besides the WTF moment I had...I definitely got a good laugh out of it. All I could do is just snicker and shake my head. lol |
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