I don't think it shows you're desparate. It shows youre interested. And
who knows, you might meet your match!

I just flirt a lot, if he's got any sense at all he'll get the idea and
ask me.

<<<That's what he did.

Sure....why not?

Worst thing he can say is ...NO


Best thing he can say is HELL YEAH!!!


50/50 odds...sound pretty good to me.

Once upon a time yes

Over the years my confidence around men has been circling the bowl...

not me lol....not a rejection thing... just think at least the guy sould
ask the gal out first maybe for a second date i would though

The fear of rejection is only in your minds, ladies!!!

Most of the men suffer from it too.

But in the "game" of relationships there are rules that any decent
participator (I didnt use the word player here, on purpose) will abide
by.

My job is apporaching ladies in the street and asking personal questions
of them. When I have illicited their answers I then make money!

So, the fear of rejection is not really in my vocabulary in that
scenario.

However outside of this comfortable arena of work, unless the "game"
suits my style of play, I too dont feel comfortable participating.

So, if you ladies see this lil' hot thang over the water melons and
oranges in your local Wally-world, and he seems to be on his own ... you
have three choices!

1) do nothing and always think that you havent been rejected, therefore
its all ok .. but then you wonder "does he have a 9 inch giraffe tongue,
hold his breath for an hour and breathe through his ears"

2) throw him a big smile, and see what happens. If he smiles back move
on to number 3

3) go up to him with a pair of lemons in your hands, and ask him would
they go well with fresh tuna and a chilled bottle of Pinot Grigio?

After all, what is the worst thing he could say?

No. If he does, then ask him what he would use them for.

If he mumbles something about his mother, then make him have it!!!

Hes as scared of you as you are of him!!!

Jeez ladies ... we men are soooo stooopid when it comes to these things.

You have to take the lead sometimes!

i'm kind of shy
no i would not
happened to me before-
lost my chance and kicked myself later

Sure, why not?
The worst that can happen is they say no. At least you gave it a shot.
You never know, that could be your one and only, or end up a really good
friend.

Life..... Grab it by the horns and hang on!

No venchure gain could be a venchure lost.