Topic: A question for the Ladies...
LAMom's photo
Wed 04/11/07 03:30 PM
Thats a no for me as well, Its hard to approach, the fear of rejection
is heavy,,,

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 04/11/07 03:39 PM
Im too blasted shy for my own good.blushing

buckethand56's photo
Wed 04/11/07 05:30 PM
Dang, all these shy women on here, they will sure get you in here
though, think I will stay here, no supermarket for me

Duffy's photo
Wed 04/11/07 05:30 PM
yup i'd ask him, but that doesn't mean he'd take me.

wanttachat's photo
Wed 04/11/07 05:36 PM
No could not would not noway

Here I can let loose cause whats the worst that can happen I get ignored
whopee.
in person A LOOK of rejection can just totally bring me down, you know
shake of the head, smirk, covered laugh

ScottyBravo's photo
Wed 04/11/07 05:57 PM
Too bad because the supermarket is where all the sexy ladies are.I have
struck up conversations with woman in supermarkets but thats about
it.Guys a good way to talk to women in the supermarket, is if you have a
dog or cat, hang out in the pet aisle, women love to talk about their
pets. Just a tip.Me personally I hang out in front of the ladies room,
but hey thats just me LOL. Also you can play helpless, just like some
ladies do.If you see a lady you want to talk to, just see what she might
be looking at, and say that you don't know how to make such & such, or
you be holding something and wait for her to approach and ask her if she
knows how to cook such & such kind of meal. Woman love to help us
helpless men.

jeanc200358's photo
Wed 04/11/07 07:03 PM
You know, the fear of rejection is there for me, but not that much. Way
I figure it, if I miss this bus, another one'll be along any moment.

no photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:05 PM
I agree Sheila...I have asked and sure I will in the future...don't mind
rejection. I realize that not everyone will be interested in me. And
that's okdrinker

seahawks's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:07 PM
NEVER REJECT U XO

noteworthy2's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:10 PM
No matter how much I was interested, never. Yes I live in 2007 but am
still old fashioned.

Native_Grl39's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:11 PM


No I couldn't either...Not only fear of rejection but when it comes to
men and dating...that is the ONLY area I seem to be shy in...at least in
the beginning!!!!!!!!!!

embarassed ohwell embarassed

AdventureBegins's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:16 PM
Not a single one of you ladies above should ever fear rejection.

Most guys would be thrilled to talk to you let alone have you ask them
out.

As the was stated above we have the same fears. Next time you see a guy
that looks interested but ain't doing anything about it consider he
might be thinkin the same thoughts.

flutter5's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:22 PM
:smile: no way, do not have enough courage to do something like that!

jeanc200358's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:22 PM
That's nice of you to say AB.

But if a woman came up to you and asked you out and you weren't
interested in her, how would you handle it?

Sanna's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:29 PM
Rejection is had sometimes. But every once in awhile, I'll see someone
attractive and make eye contact. Might even walk by and say hello.
Sometimes he may talk with me for a bit. But ask him out, maybe someday.

AdventureBegins's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:31 PM
With the same tact I would hope you would under reversed circumstances.

Just the fact that you tried would at least get you a cup of coffee.
Perhaps even a dinner.

Native_Grl39's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:32 PM
Wow...What a gentleman!!!!!






:wink: :heart: happy

Morena350's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:37 PM
OHH YEA!! that would be so funny, roflmao!!
walking up to a fine man and asking him
excuse me, will you go on a date with me?

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Native_Grl39's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:41 PM
That kinda sounds desperate doesn't it!!!!!!


laugh :tongue:

AdventureBegins's photo
Wed 04/11/07 08:46 PM
Hi morena.

Man am I glad I swam over here.

Worth it just to see your picture.

Practice with the average ones like me first. After a few of us faint
you can move on to the fine ones.