Topic: Take it easy
a4realn08's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:15 PM
OK i am going out on a limb here.
I am been with one woman for almost 20 years and now we have been divorced for a couple years now. I haven't found ONE lady to chat with or maybe even meet for coffee. When i do talk with some girls i just freeze up! AHH!! I don't know what s wrong? I am begging to wonder whats wrong with me. Yeah i have heard the right one will show up when its time, well dam i am so tired of just waiting. Anyone else went through something like this?

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:24 PM
Don't put so much pressure on yourself .Take your time and don't press it'll come soon enough !

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:27 PM
To paraphrase a very funny movie...

" Desperation is a stinky cologne "

Women can tell when a guy is desperate ( or " damned tired of waiting " ) and they will avoid you like the plague.

Just relax man. Let things flow.

a4realn08's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:50 PM
I have been tryn to do that but it has got me nothing

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:51 PM

I have been tryn to do that but it has got me nothing



Well...doing anything other than that is gonna get you even less.

a4realn08's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:57 PM
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JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:04 PM

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Think about it this way...

If you were in the reverse situation..and ran across a woman who came off a desperate..wouldn't you think that she wanted to be with you just for the sake of being with SOMEONE???

How willing would you be to go out with someone like that?

no photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:05 PM
Relax, post in the forums, get to know some folks, let them get to know you.
Hello and Welcome

tastytreats's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:07 PM
i can relate to what you say myself and hear the same things all of these people say also but it still gets lonely and makes you wonder whats wrong with .lol feel lucky hon im working on 6 years and still no one but i'm not going to give up for i know i have alot to offer the right person, time , time, time, is all i have yes it is lol

no photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:12 PM


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Think about it this way...

If you were in the reverse situation..and ran across a woman who came off a desperate..wouldn't you think that she wanted to be with you just for the sake of being with SOMEONE???

How willing would you be to go out with someone like that?


nice job :smile:

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:20 PM
Wear plaid...you won't even care if you make an ass out of yourself.smokin