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Lil..... When you meet people on the net, you can't really go by the profile. People are not very good judges of themselves. Like, me. I think I'm an ok guy. I do what I can. Some people think I'm great. I don't see it. So, like, my profile on MYSPACE says that I'm pretty much a loser, because I wouldn't say that I'm a really great guy. I could be more of a saint if I wanted and I don't know as much as I should. But, where I am is just fine for me......... I agree I normally don't go by a person's profile. However, I do think you are wrong in stating that people are not very good judges of themselves. Self confidence appears to be lacking, you say you like yourself but also in the same breath called yourself a loser? Self confidence and self esteem all radiate outwardly. Good luck |
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I dont think its right to comment on a lady's prettiness, so i normally just comment on the size of her breasts instead.
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LOL...Yeah, I knew I was throwing myself in front of the bus, but he who has no battles etc etc...
I'm sorry lil, I have just made it a point to read through a lot of the posts and you seem to get a little aggressive and insulting if someone doesn't follow your point of view. Like I said, this was IMO. Opinions are all that are offered here. No one can claim to have the best one because one opinion or action cannot be applied to every circumstance. Personally, I can care less if someone agrees with me or not. A forum is a grab bag of ideas. |
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Dan..... I have often debated on putting a cleavage photo up just to talk about that with men....
Adrenaline... all I can say is, why don't you get to know me first before you decide who and what I am? 
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OK.... I always thought of it as, people always try to look nice. It's not a crime to tell them that thier doing a good job. People are born looking the way they look. If you appreciate a hairstyle, whatever.... that could be appropriate. If you say someone is pretty, that is not unlike saying, wow, your parents possessed great genes and they got passed to you, and I just want to comment to you about things you cannot control, and have nothing to do with who you are inside. a bit over analytical for a lot of people but i get accused of being over analytical a lot as well |
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a bit over analytical for a lot of people but i get accused of being over analytical a lot as well Dammit Robin I can't help it!  I was going for an explanation... next time just tell me to shuddup!
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a bit over analytical for a lot of people but i get accused of being over analytical a lot as well Dammit Robin I can't help it! I was going for an explanation... next time just tell me to shuddup! hey lilith shuddup 
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Adrenaline... all I can say is, why don't you get to know me first before you decide who and what I am? I haven't decided anything lil. Just observations....I apologize if I have offended you in any way. I am sure that you are a wonderful woman with oodles of qualities. (that's not sarcastic, that's just how it sounds in my head :) )  |
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Tue 11/25/08 11:55 AM
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infatuated?
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Being that this is the net, women get enough of that as it is, One liners don't work. Well i guess that depends on the women to
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Adrenaline... all I can say is, why don't you get to know me first before you decide who and what I am? I haven't decided anything lil. Just observations....I apologize if I have offended you in any way. I am sure that you are a wonderful woman with oodles of qualities. (that's not sarcastic, that's just how it sounds in my head :) )  |
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adrenaline...... LOVE THE TUDE......... Lil, you have a great opinion. YOU ALL ROCK!!!!!!!
You wanna know what the funny thing is..... I was about to send Lil one of those emails. She's pretty.... Guess I'll just keep it to myself now........lol |
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Gotta take my laundry out and get ready for work. It's been interesting (I feel saved).....lol
ROCK ON!!!!!!!!! |
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Ain't nothing wrong with a simple compliment man. You might try a different approach. Small talk...a bit of conversation pertaining to her interests...then casually slip in the "This is just a compliment" thing.... Just a thought man.....it works for me. Yeah, I like this. But really, let's not over-think this, sometimes a compliment is what it is. Not everyone is creepy or means it that way. We all possess different styles of communicating. However, rpwolf, if this is your opening line and not in actually just a compliment, try Krupa's approach.
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Edited by
Mr_Music
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Tue 11/25/08 12:46 PM
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I find it quite ironic that women go to such great lengths to make themselves attractive, but as soon as a man makes a comment to such, they get creeped out and think he's a weirdo.
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yahhh I get that a lot too
I don't understand why women think I'm creepy |
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It's because you got a purty mouf, Robin.
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If I get a mail that says simply, Wow you are pretty.... I delete. Immediately. A person cannot control how they look, nor is that what they want in a response. Talk about the profile, did you read it? What interested you? Yes, looks matter but if that is all I hear, it is superficial and yes, creepy. If you are sending one line e-mails, I doubt you will ever, ever get a date on here. That is just ridiculous. It is lame, it is generic, and it is laziness epitomized. Try a little empathy and consideration. yeahhhh... sorry about that. |
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adrenaline...... LOVE THE TUDE......... Lil, you have a great opinion. YOU ALL ROCK!!!!!!! You wanna know what the funny thing is..... I was about to send Lil one of those emails. She's pretty.... Guess I'll just keep it to myself now........lol smooth hehehe |
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