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Topic: Who is to say what is and isn't right to put on..
TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:21 AM

I don't think there is anything wrong with expressing yourself in the manner that you want. These forums are separated into the categories and topics they are for good reason. Mrs. Perriwinkle might not want to hear (or know) that the person beneath her would like to pile drive her. So, the sections were created to define a space where different acceptable behaviors begin and end. Now, if you are the type that is squeamish and shy about topics that are HUGELY sexual in nature, you might want to steer clear of Tap it or Pass it. I don't think it is right for someone to voluntarily go into a forum and scream foul. If what is going on in the forum is not your cup of tea, there are about a billion others out there to choose from. If one of those are not suitable, you are welcome to give birth to your own.

I don't think some people "hide what they would actually like to be", I just think that some people are one way, others are another, and the third set follow the majority whomever that might be.


I agree if it is not your cup of tea stay out of them don't get offended by what another may or may not say.

Myself I stay out of the above you below me threads why I just don't care for them. Even though I see it all as a game for I grant ya no matter what they look like ect.. sure does not mean I would jump their bones in real life just because it is said on a thread.

The threads are done in a playful way sure some mean what they say. And some say online what they think but would not have the guts to say that in person. But all in all it's just a game.

But for those that do not mind saying what they like sexually to everyone that is there choice. I commend them for having the balls to put it out there for all to see. :thumbsup:

adj4u's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:22 AM

okay i changed my mind.noway noway noway noway

i am a sexy old grandma, and want some SEX...

gitter done. fick and get it over with is my motto, then i want to go out to dinner, and buy me some new clothes. and throw in a few diamonds.laugh
that is what maxine would say...and i endorse everything that comes out of her mouth.blushing blushing blushing

now what do ya all think of that...:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: pitchfork


good for yuo hope it works out for ya at least no trying to figure it out

lilith401's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:25 AM
I am pretty open about my sexuality and am pretty sure I've offended some folks! happy

franshade's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:27 AM

Ones profile or what they might want in a post on the forum. Mainly looking at people that express they are looking for sex, somone to just have fun with. It's funny when somone comes on the forum and is not afraid to express what there looking for in that matter, but yet and i have done it my self. Will play with them but some are really serious on how disrespectful it is. Is it really? Knowing that a lot of people that will make a comment to someone that is expressing themselves, in what they really want play on the sex forum? You know,how they would "F" the person above them etc etc. Is that any different from someone being straight out honest in what they want? before any of you answer this laugh Your not going to tell me that every single person that plays on the sex forum, thinks it's just all in fun.

So, looking at that, is it saying that some are not afraid to be who they are and others hide what they would actually like to be at times?

And my main question is. Why are so many of you offended when people like this express themselves?


People can post what they want within the guidelines of the sight.

I don't get offended, write what you like, say what you like, that's on you and your profile.

Good thing I don't perv profiles :banana:

TheShadow's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:40 AM

You know...that's a very good question. You do have a point.

I myself am not at all interested in someone who just wants the "intimate encounter". All I have to do is not interract with them if I am not looking for the same....I don't have to bash them or criticize them.

These people ARE simply being honest about what they are looking for and no matter how I may feel about it...they have every right to be here...as much as anyone else.

Now having said that....I think that at some point, based on the extreme sexual nature of the interraction that some are looking for....Their needs might be better served on another site, such as Adultfriendfinder.com.




Good question.




I don't see it much on this site, but this other one i'm on, boy do these people get pounced! Not all of them and even on here were looking for "intimate encounter" just looking for somone and posted it. I do agree on there is a limit to things and a way at time to express yourself to get some reasonable answers. It's all in how you present the questions at times how some will reacted to it. At the same time i'm looking at it as, at least there being honest in what they want and looking for and not afraid to express it.

RKISIT's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:42 AM
i'm hornybigsmile

TheShadow's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:53 AM
I don't think some people "hide what they would actually like to be", I just think that some people are one way, others are another, and the third set follow the majority whomever that might be.


Maybe hide wasn't the right word to use, but was thinking, does it make people react in some sence because they'er not so open to the idea of being as open as some are?

no photo
Tue 11/25/08 12:58 PM
I think some folks are just bound to be offended and work really hard at it.

This is a dating site, so I don't think it's a stretch for folks to post what they are looking for in the forums, even if it isn't your slice of heaven. As far as profiles, one of their main purposes is to give folks an idea about you and what you're lookin' for. If it's not your thing, move on. Just don't see the big deal with this.

usernamefayou's photo
Tue 11/25/08 01:13 PM
For some reason, what everyone gets offended by is my "it's like kissing a bull in a red tent" line.

You wouldn't believe the trouble it has caused me. This leads me to believe that the very last thing I should be concerned about is how people might respond! What's important here is my own "education" and interests.

adirtygirl's photo
Tue 11/25/08 01:21 PM

okay i changed my mind.noway noway noway noway

i am a sexy old grandma, and want some SEX...

gitter done. fick and get it over with is my motto, then i want to go out to dinner, and buy me some new clothes. and throw in a few diamonds.laugh
that is what maxine would say...and i endorse everything that comes out of her mouth.blushing blushing blushing

now what do ya all think of that...:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: pitchfork




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