Ones profile or what they might want in a post on the forum. Mainly looking at people that express they are looking for sex, somone to just have fun with. It's funny when somone comes on the forum and is not afraid to express what there looking for in that matter, but yet and i have done it my self. Will play with them but some are really serious on how disrespectful it is. Is it really? Knowing that a lot of people that will make a comment to someone that is expressing themselves, in what they really want play on the sex forum? You know,how they would "F" the person above them etc etc. Is that any different from someone being straight out honest in what they want? before any of you answer this Your not going to tell me that every single person that plays on the sex forum, thinks it's just all in fun.

So, looking at that, is it saying that some are not afraid to be who they are and others hide what they would actually like to be at times?

And my main question is. Why are so many of you offended when people like this express themselves?

This was your last post, before you made this thread....



What is wrong with others expressing their opinions now, when you encouraged it an hour ago?

Not right or wrong... just asking if it was appropriate

Not understanding. Please explain a litt more.

nothing to do with you Just wanted to get a little more insite on it.

I am only offended when the person that posts disgusting things is physically digusting to me. Hypocritical? maybe! But I don't care.

You know...that's a very good question. You do have a point.

I myself am not at all interested in someone who just wants the "intimate encounter". All I have to do is not interract with them if I am not looking for the same....I don't have to bash them or criticize them.

These people ARE simply being honest about what they are looking for and no matter how I may feel about it...they have every right to be here...as much as anyone else.

Now having said that....I think that at some point, based on the extreme sexual nature of the interraction that some are looking for....Their needs might be better served on another site, such as Adultfriendfinder.com.

Good question.

I personally am not offended by profiles that list what they are looking for sexually in a partner. I think that the physical part of a relationship is very important. However, I think that I would rather start a conversation with someone and work up to that topic.

There is nothing wrong in expressing your opinion.

very well put

If a newbie gets on here and the first thing out of their fingers on here is saying something brash and nasty, just wanting to get sexed up... I try to put tongue in cheek and wish them well. But some are so overboard and it just comes off as gross or crass. But, mostly, I really do just welcome them aboard and wish them well. It'd be nice if the newbies looking for sex did a nice welcome on the Newcomers, and then they can go seek their needs on the forums in the sex/dating area. On the newbies forum, it's too much of a public announcement, makes my fingers tense up!!!

Clear your mind must be, if you are to discover the real villains behind this plot

If you read the rules, most of what goes up here should be taken down and the people suspended. It almost reads like one of those contracts that states that one party may change any rules or options without notice. So in other words, it's up to somebodies opinion as to wether or not to enforce these rules, or if some crybaby feels insulted and goes to the moderator. So you're all just here at the whim of the mod.

I like getting propositioned for sex

That is completely accurate....fortunately there are some pretty cool mods here....now I just need to bribe the other mods that I haven't met.

Well actually the topic has nothing to do with the rules or if the Mods are enforcing them.

What it is stating is for excample if someone goes to the Sex & Dating forums and makes the comment they like bondage with the whole nine yards or really gets into the kinky stuff. Why should they not be able to express their opinion with out everyone jumping down their throats.

My self I see no problem with that the only thing is tells me if I'm not into that sort of thing then to not look at them as a partner. But..it would not make me not being friends with them due to the fact they like that type of sexually favors.

I see this the same as far as profiles or what they post on here.

They can give their opinion and say how they feel all it does if that is not what I like in a person is pass them on that aspect. But......I will still be friends with them I don't have a problem with what others like or how they live their lives. And actually no one esle should judge them on that fact.

Bribe shshhshshhs I ain't seen no money yet ohhh or will it be a drawing lol

I don't think there is anything wrong with expressing yourself in the manner that you want. These forums are separated into the categories and topics they are for good reason. Mrs. Perriwinkle might not want to hear (or know) that the person beneath her would like to pile drive her. So, the sections were created to define a space where different acceptable behaviors begin and end. Now, if you are the type that is squeamish and shy about topics that are HUGELY sexual in nature, you might want to steer clear of Tap it or Pass it. I don't think it is right for someone to voluntarily go into a forum and scream foul. If what is going on in the forum is not your cup of tea, there are about a billion others out there to choose from. If one of those are not suitable, you are welcome to give birth to your own.

I don't think some people "hide what they would actually like to be", I just think that some people are one way, others are another, and the third set follow the majority whomever that might be.

If this is Tuesday, then I want an intimate encounter.

okay i changed my mind.

i am a sexy old grandma, and want some SEX...

gitter done. fick and get it over with is my motto, then i want to go out to dinner, and buy me some new clothes. and throw in a few diamonds.
that is what maxine would say...and i endorse everything that comes out of her mouth.

now what do ya all think of that...