Topic: Spill it!
lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:33 AM
Awww, you liked her too. Sorry Dubz. flowerforyou

I went on one last night and I didn't even kiss him... shocker I know. Me, the kissing addict. laugh He went for a hug and I let it go.

Yes.... noway

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:46 AM
Edited by I_need_a_smoke_break on Wed 11/26/08 09:47 AM
Let's see.... I dont know if meeting and thoroughly making out with the guy I met on here counts as a date but sure.

He lives 2 hours from me and I happened to be going up there for a concert with some friends so we decided to meet up after the concert. I was drenched, cold, my hair was all frazzled, I generally looked horrible and was tired when I finally met up with him. The first thing he did was give me a big hug and say how good I looked and how glad he was to finally get to meet me in person. We stood around chatting for a bit (on and off kissing too smooched ), while my friends waited in the car a little ways down the road. Eventually, after like a dozen texts from my worried bff, we decided to walk back down to my friends so they could all meet. We chilled around the car for a little while before driving off to get him home (I wasn't gonna make him walk anymore than he already had!) then me and my friends left back to their place.

That was about it..dunno if it counts as a date.. But I'm going back up to see him Friday. ^^

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:57 AM
Sure it does! Congratulations and have a blast!

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:59 AM
Haha thanks!
Yeah I'm excited.
I think being single is no fun but that's just me. XD

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:03 AM

Haha thanks!
Yeah I'm excited.
I think being single is no fun but that's just me. XD


<whispering> It is fun when you're feeling lazy or sick or want to stay out late and not have to explain any of those things to anyone... or pj day, eating ice cream out of the container and no one notices how you ate the whole thing...laugh



But yes, I agree overall. The positive in dating and a relationship far outweigh the single ones.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:05 AM
why what was wrong lillth ? shy got your tongue,?
smooched smooched smooched


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


at this point in my life i :heart: love:heart: being single, to an extent, !!

i haven't had to buy a phone in over a year,

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Wed 11/26/08 10:07 AM
Edited by quiet_2008 on Wed 11/26/08 10:07 AM
the other date that I really liked.

we walked around Old Town in Albuquerque and window shopped for jewelry. I liked the turquoise and silver and she liked the "spiny oyster" jewelry. And we stopped in a 100 year old Mexican cafe for lunch. And walked through the oldest active church in America to take pictures

Adrenaline's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:08 AM
Well, my dates are pretty tame. (At lease the dates that I would talk about on here are) It's not really about what we do or where we go as much as it is about paying attention to the details. I'm a pretty old fashioned minded guy in respect to dates. I believe in going to a nice restaurant, never fast food or buffet. I believe in holding the door and pulling out the chair if the waiter does not do it. I believe in having the night be all about the girl, what she wants and what makes her happy. If she's happy, I'll be happy. Sometimes a flower is a good idea on a date, other times it isn't. I like escorting her to the car or restaurant by offering my arm or hand if she is open to that. Conversation wise, I like showing genuine interest in her career, family, hopes, and dreams. More often than not, I can draw a parallel between some interest or facet of her life to my own. If we have common interests, I compare my own to hers so we can share experiences. I guess all in all, I believe in being every bit a gentleman.

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:08 AM
No Dubz... I just got the sense that was the type of guy he was, and he was being respectful. I am not shy, silly..... laugh

I just got a text from him: Finally have a break for lunch, wanted to say what a great time I had meeting with you. Hope you have a nice night with your son and a great Thanksgiving, will talk to you soon.:)

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I might've pushed the kiss if it wasn't 20 degrees and snowing. He scraped off my windshield though..... Awwwwwwwwww.

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Wed 11/26/08 10:10 AM

No Dubz... I just got the sense that was the type of guy he was, and he was being respectful. I am not shy, silly..... laugh

I just got a text from him: Finally have a break for lunch, wanted to say what a great time I had meeting with you. Hope you have a nice night with your son and a great Thanksgiving, will talk to you soon.:)

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I might've pushed the kiss if it wasn't 20 degrees and snowing. He scraped off my windshield though..... Awwwwwwwwww.


wow that's better than any old kiss

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:13 AM

the other date that I really liked.

we walked around Old Town in Albuquerque and window shopped for jewelry. I liked the turquoise and silver and she liked the "spiny oyster" jewelry. And we stopped in a 100 year old Mexican cafe for lunch. And walked through the oldest active church in America to take pictures


You are a gamey guy today, playing on words where ever you can.... whoot whoot!laugh



Adrenaline, you sound like a great date.

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:14 AM
I do have to say he said he was 5'11"... anyone want to guess where I might be going with this?

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:15 AM
I think I might go crazy if I didn't have my phone. And thats not even because of dating! It's how I keep in touch with most of my friends.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:17 AM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Wed 11/26/08 10:18 AM

I think I might go crazy if I didn't have my phone. And thats not even because of dating! It's how I keep in touch with most of my friends.


in my last realtionship, if a female, would call me or a text me my x would snap my phone in half, god knows how many phones i bought 7 or 8 ? god it got expensive, sorry lillith,offtopic oops offtopic oops

franshade's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:18 AM

I do have to say he said he was 5'11"... anyone want to guess where I might be going with this?


he was a hair shorter????? laugh

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:19 AM
laugh Dubz... no need, I am glad you posted that... now I understand your phone issues and jokes!

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:20 AM
I would suggest staying away from the person that keeps breaking your phone..... noway

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:20 AM


I do have to say he said he was 5'11"... anyone want to guess where I might be going with this?


he was a hair shorter????? laugh



Let's do the math....
I'm 5'8". I wore 2.5 inch heels.
I was taller.... not by much but I'm just saying.... frustrated

I am going to see him again though. It's not like it's the be all end all.

franshade's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:21 AM



I do have to say he said he was 5'11"... anyone want to guess where I might be going with this?


he was a hair shorter????? laugh



Let's do the math....
I'm 5'8". I wore 2.5 inch heels.
I was taller.... not by much but I'm just saying.... frustrated

I am going to see him again though. It's not like it's the be all end all.


wear flats winking

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Wed 11/26/08 10:24 AM
Edited by littleredhen on Wed 11/26/08 10:29 AM
My last date, Aug 15th 2007grumble

We stopped by a friends house & visited then on the way to my house from there I let him drive my car & he hit a deer. The deer actually ran into the side on the car, was not his fault. Very little damage showing to car & the deer fled the scene. He freaked out like a little girl though.

Everything seemed ok with the car, so we went out later for kareoke. We decided I would drink & he would drive. (I wanted to show him it was OK about the car) The kareoke was set up outside which was great because I hate the smoke inside, but it was cold. I did jello shots & sang show tunes. I wowed them with Caberet!bigsmile He worked the crowd & kept bringing me jello shots.

We went to go home & found out the accident had shorted something & I had no headlights, so we had to get a ride home. I found out in the car that he had been drinking all along & was getting me jello shots because they were free that night. He was walking around with a can of soda, but was pouring booze in it so I would not know. He didn't even help me change the headlights the next day. We split up a few weeks later (this was the BEST date we ever had) I havn't dated since.