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MalenaC Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 749	Fri 11/21/08 03:41 PM
On giving up .I am in this site for about 2 years now and never find anybody to match,never meet any guys.I have some guys in my M.match list for so long , one is from my area but only 24 years old ,the rest are from Canada.I email one of them and he said:''WTF you want from me? I am from Canada can't you see it?''Christmas coming up and believe or not I have no reason to go shopping .Kinda getting bored searching online for the one who can complete my life.Guess is time to go back with the old strategies .Somebody else having this feeling?

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Fri 11/21/08 03:43 PM
Everyday. But i stay cuz i have met some really great people and im addicted.

MalenaC Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 749	Fri 11/21/08 03:47 PM
addiction is bad .we don't feel when time flying

invisible Joined Mon 04/09/07 Posts: 7692	Fri 11/21/08 03:48 PM
Perhaps you are looking too hard. I didn't look at all, and I found someone. Not here, but I found someone. If you go into the game with the attitude that you need to find someone, you more than likely won't. Sit back, relax, and the most amazing things can happen. Just don't try too hard for them

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 11/21/08 03:49 PM
Not me. I did find someone...but even if I hadn't......I love all my Mingle homies!!

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Fri 11/21/08 03:49 PM
Being on here just beats being bored and lonely at home, You can talk to people from all over and its fun- this addiction is better than drugs or alcohol, or anything else out there.

martymark Joined Tue 11/18/08 Posts: 1105	Fri 11/21/08 03:50 PM
addiction is bad .we don't feel when time flying some addictions can be good, maybe, and that is a big maybe. don't give up yet, you never know when the right window will open and reveal a whole new day!

itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Fri 11/21/08 03:50 PM
I gave up looking and actually turn dates down and am very happy but still like to communicate and make friends.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Fri 11/21/08 03:51 PM
Yeah, not so much for meeting 'that special someone' But I have alot of fun here. Who knows??

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 11/21/08 03:51 PM
On giving up .I am in this site for about 2 years now and never find anybody to match. Somebody else having this feeling? Definitely. Love the site, love the people, just wish there was someone datable here who wasn't 897,000 miles away. I've learned that dating sites are not the answer for everybody.

AhaloAskewed Joined Wed 02/14/07 Posts: 190	Fri 11/21/08 03:53 PM
I've been using this for a pretty long time 2, and seem to have no luck at all. I like the forum though =]

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Fri 11/21/08 03:54 PM


papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Fri 11/21/08 03:56 PM
have you ever NOT replied to someone who emailed you? have you ever dismissed someone as not being attractive enough, interesting enough, too tall, too short, etc.? perhaps that WAS mr. right and you walked right by without really even noticing him and giving him a chance?

MalenaC Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 749	Fri 11/21/08 03:59 PM
have you ever NOT replied to someone who emailed you? have you ever dismissed someone as not being attractive enough, interesting enough, too tall, too short, etc.? perhaps that WAS mr. right and you walked right by without really even noticing him and giving him a chance? can be

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 11/21/08 03:59 PM
i even tried "gay bear date" and a retired circus grizzly bear rejected me.then h-date and someone with herpes rejected me...wtf

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 11/21/08 04:01 PM
i even tried "gay bear date" and a retired circus grizzly bear rejected me.then h-date and someone with herpes rejected me...wtf Just be glad it wasn't a gay bear with herpes who rejected you. There's not much farther down you can go from there.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Fri 11/21/08 04:03 PM
.Kinda getting bored searching online for the one who can complete my life. That might be part of your problem right there, trying to find someone to complete your life. The only person who can do that is you! And when you do, only then is it possible to find someone that you can share it with.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 11/21/08 04:03 PM
i even tried "gay bear date" and a retired circus grizzly bear rejected me.then h-date and someone with herpes rejected me...wtf Just be glad it wasn't a gay bear with herpes who rejected you. There's not much farther down you can go from there. yeah thats the bottom of the barrel there

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Fri 11/21/08 04:08 PM
On giving up .I am in this site for about 2 years now and never find anybody to match,never meet any guys.I have some guys in my M.match list for so long , one is from my area but only 24 years old ,the rest are from Canada.I email one of them and he said:''WTF you want from me? I am from Canada can't you see it?''Christmas coming up and believe or not I have no reason to go shopping .Kinda getting bored searching online for the one who can complete my life.Guess is time to go back with the old strategies .Somebody else having this feeling? I hear ya, I gave up looking some time back, but I have met some nice friends on here. Good luck in what ever you end up doing.

MalenaC Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 749	Fri 11/21/08 04:08 PM
i even tried "gay bear date" and a retired circus grizzly bear rejected me.then h-date and someone with herpes rejected me...wtf