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Topic: Just ask JustAGuy - part 3
keepthehope's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:37 PM

Hi People! I'm in the hotel winding down...

So JustAGuy? Who will win the AZ/Pitts game tomorrow?



Hello Galendgirl, what hotel are you at? Do you work there?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:39 PM
What do I think??

Well...it would depend on what turned him into an " ex ".

If it was because he was " too busy " to make things work....then that would be one issue.

If he sent you that letter ( this is the way I see it at this point ) because he thinks you still hold a flame for him and wants to see if he can make you hang around waiting for him....that's another issue entirely.

I would definitely need more information to be able to give you a clearer answer.

keepthehope's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:44 PM

What do I think??

Well...it would depend on what turned him into an " ex ".

If it was because he was " too busy " to make things work....then that would be one issue.

If he sent you that letter ( this is the way I see it at this point ) because he thinks you still hold a flame for him and wants to see if he can make you hang around waiting for him....that's another issue entirely.

I would definitely need more information to be able to give you a clearer answer.



I think I told you some of the issues before, and I'm sure you don't remember, but the biggest was that he couldn't make up his mind. One day he would be saying he was ready to get married and then a couple of days later he would freak out and panic, and say he thought he was ready but isn't.
It's been back and forth like that for over a year now.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:48 PM


What do I think??

Well...it would depend on what turned him into an " ex ".

If it was because he was " too busy " to make things work....then that would be one issue.

If he sent you that letter ( this is the way I see it at this point ) because he thinks you still hold a flame for him and wants to see if he can make you hang around waiting for him....that's another issue entirely.

I would definitely need more information to be able to give you a clearer answer.



I think I told you some of the issues before, and I'm sure you don't remember, but the biggest was that he couldn't make up his mind. One day he would be saying he was ready to get married and then a couple of days later he would freak out and panic, and say he thought he was ready but isn't.
It's been back and forth like that for over a year now.


Actually..I DO remember that.

If it's been that way for that long....what makes you think it's gonna change now???

keepthehope's photo
Wed 11/26/08 09:53 PM
It's probably not, but it's hard for me to turn off my feelings like that, and as much as I don't want to I still care about him. He is in counseling now. I also try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. It's hard for me to let go, ya know.

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Wed 11/26/08 09:57 PM

It's probably not, but it's hard for me to turn off my feelings like that, and as much as I don't want to I still care about him. He is in counseling now. I also try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. It's hard for me to let go, ya know.


Tell ya what....I still care about my ex g/f..the one that tried to kill me.

Does that mean that if she contacted me today, that I would think that anything would be different than it was before??? Nope.

If you don't think it's going to change, then it probably won't.

All you would be doing is setting yourself up to be disappointed again. It's not really worth the heartache involved when it fails....again.

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Wed 11/26/08 10:05 PM


jaggy why does no one else but me care about the poor turkeys!! tears


There are lots of people who care...just look at the P.E.T.A. whackos.

Besides. Have you ever seen a " cute " turkey???


well thats like deciding that pretty people are more deserving of life than the physically less fortunate ohwell

for the holidays i plan to actually have a moment of silence before i dig in bigsmile

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Wed 11/26/08 10:15 PM



jaggy why does no one else but me care about the poor turkeys!! tears


There are lots of people who care...just look at the P.E.T.A. whackos.

Besides. Have you ever seen a " cute " turkey???


well thats like deciding that pretty people are more deserving of life than the physically less fortunate ohwell

for the holidays i plan to actually have a moment of silence before i dig in bigsmile


i think the mommy turkeys think their babies are cute.....doesnt every mother?
i am giving turkeys a break, i have to work.....the apples and pumpkins on the other hand get no mercy

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:10 PM



jaggy why does no one else but me care about the poor turkeys!! tears


There are lots of people who care...just look at the P.E.T.A. whackos.

Besides. Have you ever seen a " cute " turkey???


well thats like deciding that pretty people are more deserving of life than the physically less fortunate ohwell

for the holidays i plan to actually have a moment of silence before i dig in bigsmile


If I wasn't working...the moment of silence wouldn't work anyway. My family is WAYYYY too loud. LMAO

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:39 AM


bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:48 AM
LMAO!!!

Happy Thanksgiving, Jas. flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:49 AM


I don't know...I'm guessing Pitt even though AZ has been "on" so far. JustAFeeling... probably doesn't compare with JAG.


I would take Pittsburgh...but if I was a betting man I would take the spread.


Upon further review.....

It's not Pittsburgh that Arizona plays tomorrow...it's Philadelphia.

McNabb has had two REALLY bad games in a row. I don't think he will have three.

It'll be a close game, but I think the Eagles will win it.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:54 AM

LMAO!!!

Happy Thanksgiving, Jas. flowerforyou


same to you jag flowers

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 11/27/08 01:02 AM


LMAO!!!

Happy Thanksgiving, Jas. flowerforyou


same to you jag flowers


flowers smooched

galendgirl's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:02 AM


I wouldn't bet on A&M if I were you. Tech has WAY too much offensive fire power and the Aggies don't have nearly the same kind of defense that Oklahoma has.

I think Tech is gonna lay a beating on them just to show that last week was a fluke.



No money is involved...but I kinda have to support A&M despite myself - I have a long time life friend there so figure it's sort of like a family obligation to either cheer or cry with them :)

galendgirl's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:04 AM

Hey Guy, I just got this email from my ex. What do you think?



I'm not JAG, but from a woman's point of view:
Follow your heart but tread very carefully! The problems you had before are likely to be unresolved. Second helpings of a bad dish rarely taste better. Good luck with the decision and whatever you choose!

galendgirl's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:06 AM


Hello Galendgirl, what hotel are you at? Do you work there?



Nope...a guest. I'm in CO where my daughter and her BF live and are hosting both families for dinner today. We had a fantastic night last night...all of us. We grilled fish in the cold and then built a fire in the outdoor firepit and chatted and laughed until late. Best Thanksgiving EVER so far and it's not even dinner time on "the day!"

galendgirl's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:08 AM


Upon further review.....

It's not Pittsburgh that Arizona plays tomorrow...it's Philadelphia.

McNabb has had two REALLY bad games in a row. I don't think he will have three.

It'll be a close game, but I think the Eagles will win it.


You are absolutely right! I shouldn't have been typing after wine and s'mores... (brain fart!)

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 11/27/08 10:28 AM



Upon further review.....

It's not Pittsburgh that Arizona plays tomorrow...it's Philadelphia.

McNabb has had two REALLY bad games in a row. I don't think he will have three.

It'll be a close game, but I think the Eagles will win it.


You are absolutely right! I shouldn't have been typing after wine and s'mores... (brain fart!)


Yep. Those s'mores will cloud your judgment every time...lmao

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Thu 11/27/08 10:36 AM
Happy Thanksgiving Justaguy...flowerforyou bigsmile

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