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Topic: How meny of you think a men should have a shirt on in profil
Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:05 PM

I have the same policy toward guys messaging me as my boss has towards customers in his diner.

He has a sign

No shirt
No shoes
No service


I make an exception for no shoes.


wow...i soo hope that was a joke
bcuz if all it takes is a shirt and shoes to get service from u , u must be VERY busytongue2

moonlight_ride62's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:09 PM

Depends on the guybigsmile


I agree depends on the guy...some need to some need not to...drool

auburngirl's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:09 PM

It's all about a proper time and place for everything. I say, let everyone find out who you are and what your all about with your shirt on. The people that want to find out more can get the peep show if they want it. I'm all about freedom of expression...if I don't like what I see, I look somewhere else. However, true "community" is doing things for the common good of all and being considerate of others. Kind of like keeping the curtins closed if your going to run around naked in your living room.


THAT was very well said!

enderra's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:09 PM
I think they should all post photos without shirts and bending over to pick something up!!! pitchfork pitchfork bigsmile :banana: :banana: :banana:

KarlaMay's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:10 PM
I'll weigh in. I think we should divide them into teams of shirts and skins. We should get a panel of female judges to vote who goes on what team. I would be happy to sit on that panel too. blushing

krupa's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:12 PM

What if I'm wearing his shirt and he is shirtless?


It would be a great pic!....lucky Dude!

auburngirl's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:13 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:18 PM

I think they should all post photos without shirts and bending over to pick something up!!! pitchfork pitchfork bigsmile :banana: :banana: :banana:


Great idea! Okay, all you ladies start posting those pics! :banana:

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 11/19/08 06:02 PM
I don't know why people don't get that their is a sense of privilege of shareing their body with another person by choice. It is a gift if I alone (or are in a select few) who see my mate. Yea that might take some discomfort or effort in a world that seems to let it all hang out but if I can do it I don't think it is too much to expect of him.

I am no prude. I have probably been seen by hundreds of people in certain settings (I am thinking predominently the hospital but not exclusively) nude more or less. Paper or hospital gowns are a joke and bikini on the beach doesn't cover a lot. I really doubt seeing me in that setting guys saw me as much more than a patient while in another setting I might be heating them up. It is likely that someone has seen more when I thought I was alone skinny dipping or forgot to close a drape but that wasn't a choice to display myself like a yardsale leftover. Yes I made the choice true to be seen in one perspective (doing that as a patient) I just have boundries. The same boundries I hope my mate has to some degree.

It all boils down to wheather I am catching someone's attention and steaming their glasses.

What gets me about a guy wearing no shirt on a web site is there is a certain level of intimacy that I would prefer to be present when I see him. Or for that matter anyone elses sees him in. No it isn't as extream as it has once been but I think asking men to cover some of their most erotic parts is not too much to ask.

It seems like men want to forget that their chest, the nipples, and the hair is part of what makes them sexually attractive. Maybe more so since they have little other function such as breasts that are for nutrition. Women like being turned on they just want to choose when and with whom. If you jump to that step too fast you are jumping out of the boat and are going to drown while the woman dances into someone elses arms.

To me, and from most of the posts, it is as poor taste as a woman displaying herself and expecting you to not focus on your sexual thoughts. You can either adapt or wait until that one very unique woman comes along.

Especially when most guys would be very uncomfortable in most instances if she displayed the same body parts to any one who got on a web site. If the average guy's standards are grossly different than yours do you think that makes you unique or questionable? And the majority of men I ever met would come unglued if some guy from the public at large made remarks about his girlfriend/wife.

There seems to be and assumption that women are somehow to stupid or asexual to imagine and desire their body with out actually seeing it. Yea maybe if you wrap up in twenty two layers of whatever but I can pretty much tell you exactly what a guy looks like naked from seeing him in jeans and a well fitting shirt. No I won't get and exact idea about his body hair but come on guys if you have a heavy beard it is no secret what is under your shirt. And I don't care what porno tells you what is in your drawers is not that much different than the next guy's.

A word about really great bodies. Frequently guys have strenouse jobs where being muscle bound is no big accomplishment or at least that is what most gals think. That your metabolism and youth let you look hunky doesn't impress most of us because we know what is coming. If you are too into your look we know we are going to have to share face time in the bathroom and maintenance with "Gymettes" and that is not a comforting idea if we are also thinking about having a family.

This doesn't mean that people who are comfortable with displaying their body are bad it is just one of those choices you have to live with.

P.S. Kruppa is right some of the best times are going to happen naked. The goal however is to get to that point where someone wants to be naked with you.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:47 PM
Edited by KoolAidWoman on Thu 11/20/08 06:54 PM

I think women should just go topless then it would be equal rights for all.bigsmile
:heart: I would get into trouble for being [indecent exposure] Koolaidhoney!
Remember this i would if i could yes ideed.
11/20/08,Thers the key word [Equal Rights!]for all.but not for Gaukers! Its the Law!Koolaidhoney thank you Mr!

no photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:53 PM
PacificStar48 ^^ two post up
I don't know.,.................naked with you.


What she said. She took the words right out of my mouth....... I mean if I was articulate enough to say all of that....lol.



KoolAidWoman's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:57 PM


I have the same policy toward guys messaging me as my boss has towards customers in his diner.

He has a sign

No shirt
No shoes
No service


I make an exception for no shoes.


wow...i soo hope that was a joke
bcuz if all it takes is a shirt and shoes to get service from u , u must be VERY busytongue2
JMO<maybe we should change it i always go bearfoot! all of the time!koolaidhoney!11/20/08,

no photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:05 PM
Pete


wow...i soo hope that was a joke
bcuz if all it takes is a shirt and shoes to get service from u , u must be VERY busytongue2


I guess I should not be so picky Pete. In my main profile photo that is up now I am barefoot and if you zoom in you might be able to see my butt crack.

Winx's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:07 PM
shocked

Sunrise600's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:16 PM
I think men should wear a shirt.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sun 11/30/08 07:49 PM


I think women should just go topless then it would be equal rights for all.bigsmile
:heart: I would get into trouble for being [indecent exposure] Koolaidhoney!
Remember this i would if i could yes ideed.
11/20/08,Thers the key word [Equal Rights!]for all.but not for Gaukers! Its the Law!Koolaidhoney thank you Mr!Just of the possiblites No dang bra!
I like it i love it!Billy ray cyruss!,,,drinker bigsmile 11/31/08

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