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depends on what your waiting for? 
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Honestly? If I had kept waiting for love to find me, I would have lost out on my honey. I was tired of waiting for him to notice me as more than a friend. So I spoke up. And now I am the happiest woman on the face of the planet! I agree with this as it relates to love and romance. If you have feelings for someone or want to take it to that next level, you really should just come out with it and let the chips fall where they may. I think a lot of people are afraid to do this because they worry about being rejected and then having it out in the open. The truth of the matter is that rejection is really pretty minimal. The regret of never having confessed your feelings will last a life time. |
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Honestly? If I had kept waiting for love to find me, I would have lost out on my honey. I was tired of waiting for him to notice me as more than a friend. So I spoke up. And now I am the happiest woman on the face of the planet! I agree with this as it relates to love and romance. If you have feelings for someone or want to take it to that next level, you really should just come out with it and let the chips fall where they may. I think a lot of people are afraid to do this because they worry about being rejected and then having it out in the open. The truth of the matter is that rejection is really pretty minimal. The regret of never having confessed your feelings will last a life time. Yeah, but it's harder here because if you guys break up, everyone knows it and starts rumors. |
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statement "good things come to those who wait", i think for those who wait for good things to happen are letting life pass them by. anyone agree? Well, of course I believe it, but it's not stated as an absolute. |
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Edited by
Krimsa
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Sun 11/16/08 06:19 PM
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Honestly? If I had kept waiting for love to find me, I would have lost out on my honey. I was tired of waiting for him to notice me as more than a friend. So I spoke up. And now I am the happiest woman on the face of the planet! I agree with this as it relates to love and romance. If you have feelings for someone or want to take it to that next level, you really should just come out with it and let the chips fall where they may. I think a lot of people are afraid to do this because they worry about being rejected and then having it out in the open. The truth of the matter is that rejection is really pretty minimal. The regret of never having confessed your feelings will last a life time. Yeah, but it's harder here because if you guys break up, everyone knows it and starts rumors. Harder? Really? It will matter so much what a bunch of anonymous folks think about your relationship? 
It was also your decision to run public with it? |
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There's a difference between sitting around and waiting for something to happen without being proactive and doing all you can and then patiently waiting for the fruits of your labor to come in. Think farming. Lots of hard work. Lots of patience. 
So I see you have a problem with being patient. Me too. |
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statement "good things come to those who wait", i think for those who wait for good things to happen are letting life pass them by. anyone agree? Are you just trying to argue? |
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statement "good things come to those who wait", i think for those who wait for good things to happen are letting life pass them by. anyone agree? Are you just trying to argue? 
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statement "good things come to those who wait", i think for those who wait for good things to happen are letting life pass them by. anyone agree? Are you just trying to argue?
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actually, it was his.
I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... |
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Man, great name. I'm so glad when someone actually stands for something! |
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I don't think the statment means sit on your ass and wait. I take it as stop trying so damn hard.
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? |
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Shes dating a man from this forum and I still dont understand how this was not brought upon yourself if you CHOSE to make it public on this forum exactly who you were involved with? Why did you do that if you were uncomfortable what a bunch of anonymous strangers would think on an electronic relay chat forum? |
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Not a Hollywood couple comparison. A 'clique' comparison. I just hate the word 'clique' cause it has stirred up so many mean threads lately.... Just stating that when you date within a group, rumors tend to fly. I am dating Engraven Image. We have had tons of emails when people found out. Even had one guy email me and then email Engraven with my response to try and cause a rift cause he was pissed I picked E over him. |
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That just sounds like self created drama honestly.
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actually, it was his. I am just saying, as I have had this conversation with him and many others here on Mingle, that if you are not a 'duck' you let the rumors get to you. E and I have heard many different hate and jealousy messages at us, but it is water off our back because truly do feel this strongly that this is it. We ignore the rumors as much as we can until they get out of hand. But other than that, whenever you date someone within a large group, say a football player in high school or a Student Body Rep from college, you tend to gather more opinions and rumors. It happens when you date a 'darlin' or someone popular in a clique or what have you. If one of Obama's kids started datin' someone, I am sure all of America would know about it and start a rumor mill. Look at the Hollywood couples.... Who are you dating, and are you compairing yourself to hollywood couples??? Shes dating a man from this forum and I still dont understand how this was not brought upon yourself if you CHOSE to make it public on this forum exactly who you were involved with? Why did you do that if you were uncomfortable what a bunch of anonymous strangers would think on an electronic relay chat forum? I think it's kind of normal to be excited about your "new love" and feel like you want to tell the world about it, BUT it is true, if you don't want people in your business don't put your business out there for people to know... |
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That just sounds like self created drama honestly.
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Not really. We laughed about it.
We are ducks. It rolls off our backs. Just gets annoying once in a while. we hope to be one of Mingles success stories, that's all. |
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Not really. We laughed about it. We are ducks. It rolls off our backs. Just gets annoying once in a while. we hope to be one of Mingles success stories, that's all. Well I hope so to and Im not giving you a hard time. Just saying that in hindsight, maybe you two should have been a little more discrete? |
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