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Topic: Why is it.....
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Sun 11/16/08 11:54 AM
that I seem to have such a hard time meeting a decent girl? I'm intelligent, funny, have a good job, own my own house, have my life together, am honest and genuine, know how to make a girl happy, and I'm not THAT bad looking. Pretty much what every girl says they want but for some reason not what they want. Is there something I'm not seeing?

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Sun 11/16/08 11:56 AM
Edited by Etrain on Sun 11/16/08 11:56 AM
You look like a werewolfsmokin

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Sun 11/16/08 11:57 AM
i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone

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Sun 11/16/08 11:59 AM

You look like a werewolfsmokin



laugh laugh

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Sun 11/16/08 12:00 PM

i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh

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Sun 11/16/08 12:01 PM


i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh



i always get the "im so surprised your single" thing from guys. but they never want to date me they just say they are surprised im single

ha single people are funny. they say they want a relationship but half the time dont

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Sun 11/16/08 12:03 PM


i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh


Either that, or you put yourself in the "friend zone" too quickly.

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Sun 11/16/08 12:07 PM
Edited by SweetnFunny on Sun 11/16/08 12:08 PM
Took a peek at your profile. You may want to add more to the Interests part. It'll help with conversation starters & breaking the ice.
smile2

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Sun 11/16/08 12:11 PM



i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh



i always get the "im so surprised your single" thing from guys. but they never want to date me they just say they are surprised im single

ha single people are funny. they say they want a relationship but half the time dont


I HEAR YA, GIRL..SAME THING HERE..LOTS OF PLAYERS OUT THERE TOO..SO OVER IT..rant laugh laugh laugh OH WELL..I'VE BEEN HAPPY BEIN SINGLE..I HAVE MY TWO KIDS THAT MEAN THE WORLD TO ME..THATS ALL THAT MATTERS:heart:

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Sun 11/16/08 12:13 PM



i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh


Either that, or you put yourself in the "friend zone" too quickly.


WHAT??? NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FRIENDS FIRST..IN FACT I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT STARTED OUT AS FRIENDS..IT TAKES ALOT OF TIME TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE..IT REALLY DOES

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Sun 11/16/08 12:14 PM
just be like me


I stay under my rock

and you need to get Llamas lol
the ladys love my Llamas

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Sun 11/16/08 12:16 PM

You look like a werewolfsmokin


I didn't shave at all that week. We all get a little lazy sometimes. You should see me after 2 weeks...

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Sun 11/16/08 12:17 PM

Took a peek at your profile. You may want to add more to the Interests part. It'll help with conversation starters & breaking the ice.
smile2


I used to have a lot there but that didn't seem to help too much. I'll add more to it after the Eagles game.

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Sun 11/16/08 12:17 PM




i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh


Either that, or you put yourself in the "friend zone" too quickly.


WHAT??? NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FRIENDS FIRST..IN FACT I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT STARTED OUT AS FRIENDS..IT TAKES ALOT OF TIME TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE..IT REALLY DOES
no i think what he meant was a guy will try showing he is interested and a woman will say i could see us as friends,meaning the woman is saying i'm not really interested in a nice way,but the guy gets the point.

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Sun 11/16/08 12:18 PM
Ever heard the expression "nice guys always finish last", well, it's true. I've had a few girls tell me I was "too nice". And I don't have the ability, nor do I want to be a jerk, so I guess I'm going to die, a lonely, bitter old man.

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Sun 11/16/08 12:20 PM





i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh


Either that, or you put yourself in the "friend zone" too quickly.


WHAT??? NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FRIENDS FIRST..IN FACT I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT STARTED OUT AS FRIENDS..IT TAKES ALOT OF TIME TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE..IT REALLY DOES
no i think what he meant was a guy will try showing he is interested and a woman will say i could see us as friends,meaning the woman is saying i'm not really interested in a nice way,but the guy gets the point.


OK..SORRY..BUT I'M TOTALLY HONEST WITH A GUY IF I'M NOT INTERESTED..I DONT LEAD OR LIE TO THEM..Y BOTHER DOING THAT? LOL..NO POINT IN THAT CRAP..I'VE ALSO SEEN ALOT OF PEOPLE JUST "SETTLING"..NOT ME..I WILL NOT JUST SETTLE..EVENTUALLY IT WONT WORK OUT..EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY ON THIS EARTH:smile: :heart:

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Sun 11/16/08 12:23 PM

Ever heard the expression "nice guys always finish last", well, it's true. I've had a few girls tell me I was "too nice". And I don't have the ability, nor do I want to be a jerk, so I guess I'm going to die, a lonely, bitter old man.


That's something you can never win with. You're either too nice or an asshole. There apparently is no middle ground. Women do tend to be more attracted to guys that are assholes though. I guess it's because they want to try to prove they are good enough for a person that isn't good enough for them.

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Sun 11/16/08 12:24 PM






i think a lot of people have a hard time meeting a decent person. i know its not just you.

i know thats not much help but i just wanted to let you know your not alone



I'LL SECOND THAT..EVERYONE IS TOOOOOOO PICKY IF U ASK ME..THATS Y THERES MORE SINGLE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAN NOT..BEEN THERE, DONE IT..THATS Y I DONT EVEN TRY ANYMORE..I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW..WHATEVERfrustrated ohwell laugh
you seem intelligent,can you tell me the difference between being to picky and not settling for lessflowerforyou

Either that, or you put yourself in the "friend zone" too quickly.


WHAT??? NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FRIENDS FIRST..IN FACT I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT STARTED OUT AS FRIENDS..IT TAKES ALOT OF TIME TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE..IT REALLY DOES
no i think what he meant was a guy will try showing he is interested and a woman will say i could see us as friends,meaning the woman is saying i'm not really interested in a nice way,but the guy gets the point.


OK..SORRY..BUT I'M TOTALLY HONEST WITH A GUY IF I'M NOT INTERESTED..I DONT LEAD OR LIE TO THEM..Y BOTHER DOING THAT? LOL..NO POINT IN THAT CRAP..I'VE ALSO SEEN ALOT OF PEOPLE JUST "SETTLING"..NOT ME..I WILL NOT JUST SETTLE..EVENTUALLY IT WONT WORK OUT..EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY ON THIS EARTH:smile: :heart:

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Sun 11/16/08 12:57 PM


Ever heard the expression "nice guys always finish last", well, it's true. I've had a few girls tell me I was "too nice". And I don't have the ability, nor do I want to be a jerk, so I guess I'm going to die, a lonely, bitter old man.


That's something you can never win with. You're either too nice or an asshole. There apparently is no middle ground. Women do tend to be more attracted to guys that are assholes though. I guess it's because they want to try to prove they are good enough for a person that isn't good enough for them.



can i just say from a girls point of view. ive tried dating the guys who say they are a nice guy and you know what happens? you get in a relationship with them and within months they change. and they are ever bit of the asshole i was avoiding.

i want a guy who says he is a nice guy to actually prove it to me. honestly. because either be real that your an asshole up front and not hide it or prove it that your not.

actions speak louder than words. jmo

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Sun 11/16/08 12:58 PM
yes soul your correct


now days words me notihng.you truly have to prove it

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