Topic: maybe im just stupid but...
adj4u's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:11 PM





now i am not good enough for mindy's clique neither

i better leave b4 i get banned or somethin

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:


You can be in my clique. You just can't be my husband.
I can still have guy friends.
I think?



i do not remember asking that

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Sat 11/15/08 07:12 PM

i do not remember asking that

:wink: laugh laugh laugh


It was implied in the original paperwork.


buttons's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:15 PM



Txsgal3333 said

PacificStar48, I agree with you to a point about what all happened yesterday. But........there are some details that some do not know about that actually caused others to take the thread the way they did.


You mean those others thinking I was someone elses sister or I was her or whatever? The problem is I didn't know why they were taking the thread the way they were. How would I? All I saw was certain people implying things about me that were not true. They assumed something without finding out if it is true or not first.

I figure moderators can use computer technology to see were I post from and you mods can check for double profiles. They should have asked you mods first.

I don't think that they should be excused from their behavior because they made false assumptions about me.

Edit again: I didn't mean to say you excused their behavior txsgal333, I saw you didn't. I was just making a general statement.
no drama pleaselaugh


Buttons you silly girl, don't you know the old site ( JSH) thrived on drama? Why do you think I joined,huh?
laugh laugh uh compared to now? uh the word drama was'nt born yet roflmao! but no joking lol

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:15 PM


yer avoiding the dues thingy

laugh laugh laugh laugh


Why, yes I am!

Thank you for noticing!




u bastard

adj4u's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:16 PM


i do not remember asking that

:wink: laugh laugh laugh


It was implied in the original paperwork.





ya think

i do not think so

but hey what do i know

seeing how i have said many times i don't intend on ever getting married again it was a mis perception of a false reality

see philosophy -- reality threads

buttons's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:17 PM


I am not here for drama. My main goal at this point is trying to get a certain forum guy to notice me and message me but he is playing hard to get.

I can't message him because I am too old fashioned.


You might want to rethink that position....!

Some of us absolutely refuse to e-mail anybody first -- traumatic experiences and all that....!

shades

Here's what I do when I want someone special to notice me -- I put hidden messages in my posts -- seriously, I have done that -- and, even though it has never worked yet, who's to say that someday it won't....?


laugh laugh :wink: i sly slick fellow ulaugh laugh flowerforyou

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Sat 11/15/08 07:20 PM

buttons's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:20 PM



Here's what I do when I want someone special to notice me -- I put hidden messages in my posts -- seriously, I have done that -- and, even though it has never worked yet, who's to say that someday it won't....?




Hidden message huh? I have been sticking my post in his face. Unfortunately my most obvious messages got sucked into a black hole.

That's okay. There's another forum guy that's been turning me on lately.

I've started ignoring all my mail that isn't from forum people. Why read some guys 10 word profile when I can find out so much more about him on the forums?
why not read it? i have met grand people that dont go in the forums either... could be passing up something really good by ignoring others

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:21 PM





hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

buttons's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:24 PM



This guy told me I was too young for him. Creep


Too young! Too old! Wrong shoe size! Don't like your license plate number!

Some people....

Let's face it, the ONLY thing that REALLY matters is if they know how to use apostrophes or not....




Age matters. If I married a guy 20 years older than me.....then how long would I have to live the end of my life alone? Girls already outlive guys. A guy 20 years older when leave me living the last 25-35 years of my life alone.

I also want children and a dad that can play with them. Not a dad that is old enough to be their grand dad.

Older guys are pretty cool but when it comes to marriage and raising a family and living together for a long time....age matters, too me anyway.
thats some sensible thinking thereflowerforyou

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Sat 11/15/08 07:27 PM

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:27 PM




haha. how many of these pictures do you have?

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:27 PM




haha. how many of these pictures do you have?

7z3r05's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:28 PM
silly hedgehog. thats a snowbrush!

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 11/15/08 07:28 PM



This guy told me I was too young for him. Creep


Too young! Too old! Wrong shoe size! Don't like your license plate number!

Some people....

Let's face it, the ONLY thing that REALLY matters is if they know how to use apostrophes or not....




Age matters. If I married a guy 20 years older than me.....then how long would I have to live the end of my life alone? Girls already outlive guys. A guy 20 years older when leave me living the last 25-35 years of my life alone.

I also want children and a dad that can play with them. Not a dad that is old enough to be their grand dad.

Older guys are pretty cool but when it comes to marriage and raising a family and living together for a long time....age matters, too me anyway.


I have thought about that several times because my Dad married and older woman and now he is alone in his later years. The flip side of that is they were very compatiable personalities and had almost forty years of being happily married.

He could remarry now if he chose to but he is realy doesn't want to. I know many older people who remarry in their senior years so being older does not mean being alone unless you choose to be.

I do wonder how people who are radically different in age (20 years) would be peers intellectually. I would get really tired of explaining things to a younger partner. Time frames and experiences are so different in a radical age differences. Someone twenty years my junior is not going to really get what I lived through because the world has changed so much.

But physically and health wise there are guys my age that are athletic and could keep up with someone 20 years younger.

Lot of elements to factor in.

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Sat 11/15/08 07:29 PM
TONS



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Sat 11/15/08 07:32 PM


laugh laugh :wink: i sly slick fellow ulaugh laugh flowerforyou


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Sat 11/15/08 07:32 PM

why not read it? i have met grand people that dont go in the forums either... could be passing up something really good by ignoring others


I do. Most are too short. One or two sentences. Doesn't tell you much. I could chat with them but where do I start? Do I chat with every single guy that sends me a message? I get a lot of messages.

I have to start my editing somewhere. Maybe I am missing a great guy but if the great guy can't put 5 sentences in his profile or send a message longer than 1 sentence than I wont notice him. I can only go by what I read. That is why forum guys are at the front of the line.


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Sat 11/15/08 07:36 PM



laugh laugh :wink: i sly slick fellow ulaugh laugh flowerforyou


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laugh ps that was supposed to be Hi you slick fellowlaugh laugh :wink: lol too funny never thought of you doing that before Lexflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 11/15/08 07:37 PM

I have to start my editing somewhere. Maybe I am missing a great guy but if the great guy can't put 5 sentences in his profile or send a message longer than 1 sentence than I wont notice him. I can only go by what I read. That is why forum guys are at the front of the line.


That's how I work it with the Mutual Match list --

"I don't know what to write here" = NO

"Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask" = NO

"I'll fill this in later" = NO

"I hate writing about myself" = NO

"I'm laid back and easy-going" = NO

97.3% of all local girls' MM profiles are less interesting and less informative than the period at the end of this sentence.