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its not like that really she has her life i have mine she has no job no money and nowhere to move to i cant just put her on the street nobody deserves that right? I want an X like you!  You can do all of that and date too. |
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Yea w/ the EX around, even if she says she is "cool" with it..nah..that would be a "No-Go" for me..sorry..the chord would have to be cut completly, before I would get involved w/ someone that still has his EX living w/ him. Too much drama and heartache.
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Yea w/ the EX around, even if she says she is "cool" with it..nah..that would be a "No-Go" for me..sorry..the chord would have to be cut completly, before I would get involved w/ someone that still has his EX living w/ him. Too much drama and heartache. 
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guess im just a soft hearted fool
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its not like that really she has her life i have mine she has no job no money and nowhere to move to i cant just put her on the street nobody deserves that right? How long has this "arrangement" of yours been going on for? A few weeks, months ? ? It's nice that you care for her and do not want her on the streets -- BUT, she is not your responsibility. If you truly want her out of the house (is it your strictly your house???), then you need to give her a date that she needs to be moved out, then it's up to her to do what she has to in order to get her life together. That's what you both should be doing afterall, right? If you do not do that, then either you do not really want her gone - or she will continue to take advantage of your kindness to not want her on the streets and you'll probably have a very difficult time with the dating process... |
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guess im just a soft hearted fool Honestly, it's not fair to the women that you'll be dating. |
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I wouldn't date someone that had their ex still living with them. Me neither. It's just so ... CREEPY! |
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its not like that really she has her life i have mine she has no job no money and nowhere to move to i cant just put her on the street nobody deserves that right? How long has this "arrangement" of yours been going on for? A few weeks, months ? ? It's nice that you care for her and do not want her on the streets -- BUT, she is not your responsibility. If you truly want her out of the house (is it your strictly your house???), then you need to give her a date that she needs to be moved out, then it's up to her to do what she has to in order to get her life together. That's what you both should be doing afterall, right? If you do not do that, then either you do not really want her gone - or she will continue to take advantage of your kindness to not want her on the streets and you'll probably have a very difficult time with the dating process... enough said
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guess im just a soft hearted fool Honestly, it's not fair to the women that you'll be dating.
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i guess thats true its better to make friends for now then when shes out i can look for a relationship thnx for the advice
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i guess thats true its better to make friends for now then when shes out i can look for a relationship thnx for the advice Don't sound so sad. the idea of giving her some time to get her act together sounds good. That way you don't feel as if you are "letting her down" It is obvious you care for her, but you need to start caring for yourself if this union is going to be disolved. 
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thnx lcjw
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thnx lcjw My pleasure! |
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