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Topic: True or False
dudedad11's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:26 PM
"No (Man,Women) can possibly know what life means, what the world means, until he has a child and loves it. And then the whole universe changes and nothing will ever again seem exactly as it seemed before."(My Answer is definantly True, I have a Son that just turned 10 and is my World)

AllenAqua's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:32 PM
Edited by AllenAqua on Wed 11/12/08 02:34 PM
I feel that's likely true... ( not that it means everyone, simply by the fact that they have kids,"gets it")

rebel58's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:33 PM
Very very true..............

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:34 PM
no, no... the world still has no meaning just now you have a vested interest in making it not suck

irad8you's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:34 PM
True, i have 2 kiddo's and they are my world, i love them dearly.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:34 PM
very very true!! well put!

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Wed 11/12/08 02:38 PM

"No (Man,Women) can possibly know what life means, what the world means, until he has a child and loves it. And then the whole universe changes and nothing will ever again seem exactly as it seemed before."(My Answer is definantly True, I have a Son that just turned 10 and is my World)


I'm gonna say False -- it changes your perspective, I'm sure, but it strikes me a little bit presumptuous to assert that the simple act of procreation somehow confers the ability to "know what life means." Who's to say one perspective is better than the other?


I have run into a lot of people who are parents but have little regard for the value of life -- their own, their children's, anyone's.



msmyka's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:50 PM

no, no... the world still has no meaning just now you have a vested interest in making it not suck

Well aren't you just a little ray of sunshine tongue2

hunky62's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:50 PM
Edited by hunky62 on Wed 11/12/08 02:51 PM
There is NO meaning to life. That is the Devine Riddle--that we are sensient beings, self aware and capable of asking such a perplexing question about our own existence...just a cruel joke...perpetrated by an infinately ironic universe.

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:53 PM
By and large, Lex, what normally happens when a person becomes a parent, something changes. They look at this poor, helpless little creature that they took part in creating, realizing that this new life cannot sustain itself on its own, so they are responsible for making this new life into a "person". It's a swelling of pride, a realization that they have done their part in perpetuating the human species. As a result, a typical parent wants to do everything they can to make sure their new child never wants for anything, as much as they can within their means.

It's rather tough to describe. I know you don't have any children of your own, and it really can't be explained. It's something you have to experience on your own, and believe me, you'll know it when you experience it.

Cmyserenity's photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:54 PM
I have children who have brought meaning into my life so I personally agree with that thought but I would only hope that those who do not have children have meaning in their life too.
I just had a man view my profile who's headline read " Looking for the meaning of life" Should I tell him to have children?

no photo
Wed 11/12/08 02:59 PM
And if you think kids are great...just wait til you have grand babiesbigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

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Wed 11/12/08 03:00 PM

It's rather tough to describe. I know you don't have any children of your own, and it really can't be explained. It's something you have to experience on your own, and believe me, you'll know it when you experience it.


Well, I decided early on that I was never going to be a parent. It's just not something I want in my life.

I don't think that this single decision somehow disqualifies me from having a valid view of "what life means, what the world means." Frankly, I find that attitude a bit condescending.


hunky62's photo
Wed 11/12/08 03:09 PM
Wasn't this supposed to be a "true or false" question? What the hell happened?

auburngirl's photo
Wed 11/12/08 03:12 PM
false

star123353's photo
Wed 11/12/08 04:18 PM
false

catwoman96's photo
Wed 11/12/08 04:22 PM
true

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 11/12/08 04:26 PM


It's rather tough to describe. I know you don't have any children of your own, and it really can't be explained. It's something you have to experience on your own, and believe me, you'll know it when you experience it.


Well, I decided early on that I was never going to be a parent. It's just not something I want in my life.

I don't think that this single decision somehow disqualifies me from having a valid view of "what life means, what the world means." Frankly, I find that attitude a bit condescending.




I made no inference as to not being able to have a valid view of what life means or what the world means. I was just attempting to describe what it feels like when one becomes a parent, knowing that you have no children of your own. No condescension was intended, and I apologize if any was inferred.

no photo
Wed 11/12/08 04:27 PM
it is possible to have a fulfilling life without bearing children..some people are able to define their lives beyond the confines of being a "parent"...

your comment is insensitive towards all those people who wish but can not have children...

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 11/12/08 04:38 PM
Y'know what? Forget I even said anything. Why bother trying to explain something when it's just going to be ripped apart and twisted from its original meaning?

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