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Topic: You're Fat!!!
Dredz_Hang_Low Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 796	Wed 11/12/08 01:57 PM
....is it wrong of me to not date someone because they are fat?? lol. dont get me wrong i have slept with some big girls so its not like a concrete rule. however, if i had to be honest it isnt as fun to sleep with a big girl as it is a smaller girl. id explain why but im sure we are all mature enough to figure it out. so what do you say? is it wrong??

alisha07 Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 4265	Wed 11/12/08 01:59 PM
you're late.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 11/12/08 02:00 PM
Everyone has their preferences.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 11/12/08 02:00 PM
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Wed 11/12/08 02:01 PM
Everyone has their preferences. agree

dia_licious Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 613	Wed 11/12/08 02:01 PM
....is it wrong of me to not date someone because they are fat?? lol. dont get me wrong i have slept with some big girls so its not like a concrete rule. however, if i had to be honest it isnt as fun to sleep with a big girl as it is a smaller girl. id explain why but im sure we are all mature enough to figure it out. so what do you say? is it wrong?? from what it sounds like its a pretty shallow question...you're obviously looking at it from an in-bed point of view, totally bypassing the personality factor...im not going to say its wrong...thats your preference...but im also not going to say its right...cuz it kinda makes you look like a douche bag...maybe if you would have worded the question a little differently. i have a feeling this one is going to spark up some flares.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 11/12/08 02:01 PM
you're late. Talk about a day late and a dollar short!!! We've been beating this subject to death on the forums today!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 11/12/08 02:01 PM
Fat & proud

alisha07 Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 4265	Wed 11/12/08 02:02 PM
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder beauty is in the eye of the beerholder

dia_licious Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 613	Wed 11/12/08 02:02 PM
Fat & proud meeeee toooo :)

Love4TheMilitary Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 62	Wed 11/12/08 02:03 PM
I would say yes but you know everyone has their own thing. No one is perfect. Love is about seeing an imperfect person as perfect. No one is gonna look the same twenty years from now so why judge on that plus if you ever plan on having kids, ur girl isn't gonna be a stick after she has it, just how it goes.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 11/12/08 02:04 PM
....is it wrong of me to not date someone because they are fat?? lol. dont get me wrong i have slept with some big girls so its not like a concrete rule. however, if i had to be honest it isnt as fun to sleep with a big girl as it is a smaller girl. id explain why but im sure we are all mature enough to figure it out. so what do you say? is it wrong?? My philosophy is that everyone is entitled to their preferences -- whatever those preferences may be. They don't have to make sense to anybody else. No one has the right to condemn you for yours, as you have no right to condemn others for theirs. As long as one understands that their preferences do create exclusions and limitations -- i.e., the woman who misses out on a fantastic 36-year-old man because she refuses to date anyone over 35 -- and, if one is able to deal with the ramifications of that, then nobody has a legitimate beef.

dia_licious Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 613	Wed 11/12/08 02:05 PM
I would say yes but you know everyone has their own thing. No one is perfect. Love is about seeing an imperfect person as perfect. No one is gonna look the same twenty years from now so why judge on that plus if you ever plan on having kids, ur girl isn't gonna be a stick after she has it, just how it goes. exhibit "A" <~~~~~~ lol

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Wed 11/12/08 02:05 PM
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder beauty is in the eye of the beerholder agree to that too...

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 11/12/08 02:07 PM
No you are entitled to your opinions and your preferences. I personally have never limited myself by physical looks. I much prefer to know the person on the inside. No one is perfect inside or out.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 11/12/08 02:10 PM
I don't date stupid. Aside from that, the rest is fair game.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Wed 11/12/08 02:11 PM
I'm workin on loOsin all my FHAT!

Josh_P_Rad88 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 1944	Wed 11/12/08 02:13 PM
I don't date stupid. Aside from that, the rest is fair game. Amen!!!...but i would have sex with stupid but only if jamie eason was stupid....... i know shallow

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Wed 11/12/08 02:13 PM
....is it wrong of me to not date someone because they are fat?? lol. dont get me wrong i have slept with some big girls so its not like a concrete rule. however, if i had to be honest it isnt as fun to sleep with a big girl as it is a smaller girl. id explain why but im sure we are all mature enough to figure it out. so what do you say? is it wrong?? Funny thought. When you marry someone that is thin, there is no guarantee that they won't gain weight when they're older. Male or female. You either love them or you don't.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Wed 11/12/08 02:15 PM
I don't date stupid. Aside from that, the rest is fair game. Amen!!!...but i would have sex with stupid but only if jamie eason was stupid....... i know shallow Evarybody is STUPID eXcept foe Meeeeeeeeeeeee!