Topic: You're Fat!!!
Krimsa's photo
Thu 11/13/08 05:08 AM

I think you're both hot.


You just want to get tag teamed Mister. laugh happy

Lily0923's photo
Thu 11/13/08 05:08 AM

Totally. When someone is happy with themselves and their appearance it shows and it is a turn on in general, thats for sure.

:tongue: It begs that you find them attractive also. It demands it in fact.


I agree it's the difference between an alpha and an omega man.....or woman for that matter. drinker

beachbum069's photo
Thu 11/13/08 05:10 AM


I think you're both hot.


You just want to get tag teamed Mister. laugh happy

Is there something wrong with that?

Lily0923's photo
Thu 11/13/08 05:10 AM
I've been called "fat" and I'm a size 9/10... but i'll tell you this I don't lack for attention... I see the sickly skinny girls with no self confidence in the corner because they don't know how to carry themselves...

beachbum069's photo
Thu 11/13/08 05:12 AM

I've been called "fat" and I'm a size 9/10... but i'll tell you this I don't lack for attention... I see the sickly skinny girls with no self confidence in the corner because they don't know how to carry themselves...

You know how to carry yourself.drool

Krimsa's photo
Thu 11/13/08 05:23 AM

I've been called "fat" and I'm a size 9/10... but i'll tell you this I don't lack for attention... I see the sickly skinny girls with no self confidence in the corner because they don't know how to carry themselves...


9-10 is not fat. Actually by clothing standards you aren't considered "heavy" until you reach 12-14 I think? Im a 6-8 but I am short also. Its not always your weight but your actual frame. Because Im small I can gain weight really easily so I have to watch it. Exercise, low carb all that.

DragonFlyTat's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:25 AM
I am a 9/10 but I have come a long way. I used to be a size 28. Gastric Bypass 3 years ago and 165 pounds later..here I am

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:51 AM


Absolutely not, you have every right to date who you want, I don't date black men and like you said we are all mature and adult enough to understand why that is.

If you are not attracted to someone initially then there is never hope in the future to be attracted to them for their personality or their good nature or their sense of humor...

I'm with you Dredz... Don't date "fat chics" you're doing them a favor really, maybe then they will lose weight, that's what I'm hoping for black men, they will change their skin color for me...after all I'm worth it....drinker


your making no sense at all. im gonna be black till the day i die... you can take ya ass to the gym. i think you should rethink that thought.

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Thu 11/13/08 11:52 AM



Absolutely not, you have every right to date who you want, I don't date black men and like you said we are all mature and adult enough to understand why that is.

If you are not attracted to someone initially then there is never hope in the future to be attracted to them for their personality or their good nature or their sense of humor...

I'm with you Dredz... Don't date "fat chics" you're doing them a favor really, maybe then they will lose weight, that's what I'm hoping for black men, they will change their skin color for me...after all I'm worth it....drinker


your making no sense at all. im gonna be black till the day i die... you can take ya ass to the gym. i think you should rethink that thought.


I think the point was that it's all personal preference.

Winx's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:53 AM
Edited by Winx on Thu 11/13/08 11:54 AM



Absolutely not, you have every right to date who you want, I don't date black men and like you said we are all mature and adult enough to understand why that is.

If you are not attracted to someone initially then there is never hope in the future to be attracted to them for their personality or their good nature or their sense of humor...

I'm with you Dredz... Don't date "fat chics" you're doing them a favor really, maybe then they will lose weight, that's what I'm hoping for black men, they will change their skin color for me...after all I'm worth it....drinker


your making no sense at all. im gonna be black till the day i die... you can take ya ass to the gym. i think you should rethink that thought.


She's telling you something, Dredz. It's there.:wink:


P.S. Going to the gym doesn't always help.

Also, some people can't physically do that.


no photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:58 AM
IMHO, if you have to ask that question to a bunch of strangers on a dating site, then perhaps you already know the answer to your question and are just looking for someone else to validate it, in which case you either (a) aren't fully convinced you are comfortable with your decision or (b) are so low in self-confidence that you need the approval of strangers to feel good about yourself. If that's your preference, own it. You don't need the validation and you don't need to justify it. It is what it is.

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Thu 11/13/08 12:01 PM
I think he just wants to be an A-hole!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

The word of the day is INSTIGATE!!! BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE LETTER 478932478932 AND THE NUMBER L!!!bigsmile

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Thu 11/13/08 12:14 PM

I think he just wants to be an A-hole!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

The word of the day is INSTIGATE!!! BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE LETTER 478932478932 AND THE NUMBER L!!!bigsmile


Yup. He's just looking for attention :wink:.

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Thu 11/13/08 12:16 PM


I think he just wants to be an A-hole!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

The word of the day is INSTIGATE!!! BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE LETTER 478932478932 AND THE NUMBER L!!!bigsmile


Yup. He's just looking for attention :wink:.
Yes.....it goes with the old adage.....Negative attention is better than NO attention. And some people just like to stir the pot!!! They actually GET OFF on it!!noway

no photo
Thu 11/13/08 12:21 PM
Yep, that's exactly what he's done with this thread.

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 11/13/08 12:23 PM

Yep, that's exactly what he's done with this thread.

He got off on this thread??? thats gross...and i touched it....i need some germ-x

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/13/08 12:28 PM




Omg i spit my drink out now i gotta clean it up,

mad mad mad explode

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 11/13/08 12:49 PM
Damn Kev that was brutal noway pitchfork


You are a bad boy .. go to my room pitchfork

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Thu 11/13/08 12:50 PM
You liked that picture enough to post it a second time, huh? laugh

Winx's photo
Thu 11/13/08 12:54 PM

You liked that picture enough to post it a second time, huh? laugh


It's all about the butts.:wink: