So I met this girl on another site...she seemed like my ideal woman. Of course at this point ANY woman would be my ideal woman...but from what I learned about her, she fit the bill. She kept talking about how "motherly" she was and whatnot. I would tell her how crappy of a work day I had because it was rainy and cold, and she would say something like "If I was there, I would already have a hot cup of soup ready for you and then wrap you up in blankets!" I honestly asked her what she was looking for, and she totally sounded like she wanted to find the right guy, and the only reason she was on this site is because she is tired of the guys only wanting sex. Anyway, I got to meet her...we went to a movie, hung out with friends and played board games, it was a total blast. She ended up staying at my place...in my bed, but no sex. I wasn't looking for it, but after the next morning she only talked to me once and never said one word again. I'm not sure where I am going with the story, but I kind of feel dissappointed.

So sorry that happened to you....don't give up

Dude...if you even mention that this thing happend on another site..you are torpedoing your own thread.

its a test

You respected her. You did the right thing. Don't worry about it.

What? This is kind of the whole reason I moved on to another one. I'm not so sure I know what you mean by "its a test".

She may looking only for a friend and not for a man.

She got something she wanted. Probably access to your wallet why you were sleeping. I would watch my credit and make sure she didn't rip off your identity.

aw sad :( the same thing sort of happened to me...only we did have sex

At least you got SOMETHING out of it. Oh, and I'm not worried about my ID...I make sure I hide all that crap beforehand ;)

or just dont hook up with random people you dont know too well

Well I suppose that would make sense...but it depends on what you mean by "hook up with". I think this was the first time I actually met someone in public that I first met on the internet...

The term "hook up" can be defined in many ways. I have met in person several people from this site.

OMG, I didn't even think of that

You all should. It is pretty scarey how much it is happening. You don't have to have a lot of money and some of these people sit on information for years. You all are working and I wouldn't be surprized if most of you even read your credit report once a year.

Well, since you're wondering if she is crazy, lunatic or psycho - be glad you found out after only one night, than many years later.

Was probably a blessing it happened as it did...

You give out one phone number and they know your birthday they know all they need to go to town.

no worries you'll find the right one you're a cutie

Sweet you are right on that idea. Maybe she didn't have sex with you because she had an STD.

Maybe she was offended that you spent the night in bed with her and DIDN'T try anything. Seriously, that can happen.