Jealousy is an emotion we can live without

When you are jealous of someone else, your positive attitude suffers.

When tempted to compare yourself to a woman who is more beautiful or successful than most, you have a choice. You can choose to admire her fine attributes or let the green-eyed monster have its way. If you choose jealous, you will become negative, learn to doubt yourself and cultivate both fear and anger. But, when you choose admiration, you nurture an inner awe and wonder, which is too often lost as children grow into adults.

Turn jealousy into admiration. Stop comparing yourself to those with wonderful qualities. Replace negative feelings with appreciation and admiration, and appreciation of your own great qualities will grow!!!

A little bit

Making a little bit of progress is much better than making no progress at all. Even though the going may be slow, keep going.

Moving slowly toward your goal is much better than not moving at all. Do what you can, when you can, with what you have.

Time will work in your favor when you use that time for positive purpose. Over time, even the small efforts bring big results.

If you waste your time wishing you could do more, you end up doing less. Cheerfully use your time as it comes to do the best you can.

Even when you're not able to take a major step forward, you can always take a small step forward. Keep taking those small steps, and the opportunity to take that big step will surely come.

A little bit here and a little bit there will soon add up to a lot of progress. Even when you can't do much, you can always keep yourself actively headed in a positive direction.

"Resilience is the key to survival"

If you and your partner have a history of power struggles, nasty arguments and broken trust, you have little to draw on when times are hard.

On the other hand, if you and your partner have a history of trust, partnership, respect, friendship and kindness, you have built up enough resilience and strength to endure the bad times. Vital relationships fill our days with humor, caring and good conversation.

Now is a great time to look at your relationships. Do you have a cushion of resilience to fall back on? If not, it's never too late to start building one.

Love em all fran...thanks for sharing the words of wisdom with the sisterchicks...

aww thanks, I'm glad you enjoy them, I post them to make sure to keep on the positive track but glad to hear you also enjoy them

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Ten Rules to Live By

1) Realize your own worth. Avoid comparing yourself with others. Each of us is special, because we are different one from the other.

2) Set your own goals based on what is important to you, not what others think is important. Only you know what is best for you. 3) Treasure the things that are closest to your heart. Cherish them as you would your life, without them life is meaningless.

4) Live your life one day at a time, in the present, each day to its fullest. Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.

5) Be relentless when you have something to offer; never give up. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.

6) Embrace risk; don’t be afraid. We learn how to be brave by taking chances.

7) Love deeply, freely, and with all your heart. The quickest way to receive love is to give love; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

8) Live your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.

9) Slow down. Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored, each and every step of the way.

10) Surrender to your destiny; have faith that it will unfold as it should. Choose to be happy, at peace and one with the universe.

GIRL POWER

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great post {{{feral}}}

Welcome Holly

The last quote is the best.

<<<Looking for her dose of daily motivation!

Good Morning to all the sisterchicks.

Low spirits will stay by your side if you let them.

If you've been feeling depressed, discouraged or bummed out for a while you may just be making a comfortable bed for your unhappy feelings. Who wants to leave a comfortable bed? Not me!

Low spirits are kept alive and well when you rehearse depressing thoughts in your mind over and over again. Guess what? It's time for you to make an intelligent decision, and that decision is for change.

Start thinking in terms of possibilities and opportunities instead of things that bring you down. It's hard at first and you may have to force yourself, but with a little practice, your spirits will improve and the blue funk will subside.

Into action


When you don't feel like doing what you know you must, that's the best time to go ahead and do it anyway. That's when you can break through your old habit patterns to a new level of focus, performance and achievement.
That first step will require you to go against your natural tendency to put it off until later and to stay comfortably where you are. So how do you get beyond that?

Use your power of visualization to do two things. First, use your thoughts to make it even more uncomfortable, even more painful for you not to take action.

Next, visualize in great detail all the positive and desirable rewards you'll create by going ahead and getting it done. In your mind, make it so compelling to take action that you cannot avoid doing so.

Many times in the past, you've successfully avoided action by telling yourself why you can't or why you won't. Now, choose to use that same power to tell yourself why you can and why you will.

You control the awesome power of your thoughts. And with your thoughts you can successfully visualize yourself into action every time.

Some early Christmas advice from Santa Claus:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIsw_he-9LI

(((((((Fran))))))))


Was catching up and all were great...and of course santa one made


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