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Ok don't get me wrong, i do like the sex... A LOT!... but it's more than just sex... right now i'm just figuring a way to make it less painful for the both of us. I said before, that i do have strong feelings for him, but we've only been together a month now, I dont want to jump the gun and move too fast. Despite what feelings i have for him now, or what feeling he has for me i know that in reality those feelings might change later on down the road. People get married for years and then divorce because of a change of heart. So if i act on impulse now and go to virginia with him, what happens if it doesn't work? Then you have learned a life lesson and, at the same time, broadened your horizons just a bit. You found your way out of your self proclaimed " comfort zone " which would only help you later on in life. |
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OK HERE are my thoughts. He goes there......you stay where you are. 6 months down the road...see how you both feel.
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OK HERE are my thoughts. He goes there......you stay where you are. 6 months down the road...see how you both feel. You mean besides sex deprived??? She seemed to make it pretty clear that not having sex for that long would be akin to cutting off her right arm...lol |
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Edited by
Pinky01
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Fri 11/07/08 12:35 AM
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not just for myself either.. i mean he was just gone from sunday until today.. and we both went at it like rabits on speed when he got back..
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not just for myself either.. i mean he was just gone from sunday until today.. and we both went at it like rabits on speed when he got back.. You do realize that the sex usually slows down a bit once a couple has been together for a while right?? |
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not just for myself either.. i mean he was just gone from sunday until today.. and we both went at it like rabits on speed when he got back.. You do realize that the sex usually slows down a bit once a couple has been together for a while right?? 
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not in every case...
Or at least not when you're dating a sex addict |
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not in every case... Or at least not when you're dating a sex addict 
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not just for myself either.. i mean he was just gone from sunday until today.. and we both went at it like rabits on speed when he got back.. You do realize that the sex usually slows down a bit once a couple has been together for a while right?? I'm not saying it stops altogether. LOL |
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well I'm almost positive no guy is about to deny sex... unless they're in physical pain..
so yeah..... only leaves one other person lol |
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Yah yah!!! move to VA BEACH!!!
 I need someone fun close to me!!! 
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lol derrr... if i were to move to VA it'd be with the guy lol
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Good luck on whatever your decision is Pinky
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ok it seems as though the whole concept of venturing outside of your comfort zone is not an option... personally I moved 2000 miles away to someplace I had never visited, was unemployed before moving and came out here with no plan... and it was the BEST thing I ever did with my life - things in my life that had been going terribly for many years all just started to fall into place once I moved and decided to have some adventure and take a chance in my life
now that aside - you seem like you are sure of this guy's feelings even though neither of you has used the L-word yet... if you won't go with your heart and take a chance, and the only options are now or later with regards to ending things then it seems to me like you really need to think about things more if you have feelings but the only options you are seeing are when things are going to end, then try to look at the situation and your past with a little less bias... see the things that brought you to this point and are coloring your perspective to make you only able to see an end in the future and not a world of possibilities perhaps looking at things in a new light will help you see more options are available to you 
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I thought the thread was titled "Vagina In Winter" lol
Maybe you could just date or see each other casually until he leaves. |
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