Topic: Forum's
misstina2's photo
Mon 11/03/08 06:53 AM
most of the Houston locals don't post

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 11/03/08 06:53 AM

Why do you think some ppl don't want to get involved in the forum's?


they just dun give a _ _ _ _


laugh laugh laugh laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 11/03/08 06:56 AM
Insecurity issues or simple minds.

no photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:00 AM
Some are just looking for THE ONE..they figure pictures and a profile is all they need. I don't think they think of it as a "community" to also socialize.

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:02 AM

Some are just looking for THE ONE..they figure pictures and a profile is all they need. I don't think they think of it as a "community" to also socialize.


Bingo! Too many people look at these sites as simply DATING sites, nothing more.

no photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:05 AM

most of the Houston locals don't post


Same where I am, tons of locals, nobody posts.

pyrochik's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:10 AM

Most of the newbies I chat with dont know about the forums..The others are too chickensh!t to come in ...They know if they say the wrong thing the Mingle family will attack...laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
I can testify to this...it took awhile for me, & I still don't post much...I like sitting in the corner watching the blood splatter....surprised scared waving :angel:

no photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:10 AM
Of the 23 matchs in the 50 mile range, 0 post,
of the 56 matchs in the 100 mile range, I have seen one of them post.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:18 AM



Same where I am, tons of locals, nobody posts.



don't be getting greedy on me now,

at least you got locals,


devil devil devil devil


laugh laugh laugh :wink:

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:25 AM
Personally, when I join a new site such as this one, the forums are what I'm joining for, and that's the first place I head to. I couldn't give a damn about the "dating" end of it.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:30 AM
Many are here for dating only and care nothing about posting in the forums. They are busy going through search ect.. Most of the ones in the forums are here just for the forums and if they find someone then they do. JMO

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:33 AM
By definition, "mingle" illicits socialization. If I wanted dating or sex, I'd look up Horny_R_Us.com

adirtygirl's photo
Mon 11/03/08 07:56 AM

By definition, "mingle" illicits socialization. If I wanted dating or sex, I'd look up Horny_R_Us.com


Damn!!!!! there is a "HORNY-R-US.com...Where do I sign up...I will be Chapter President....drool drool drool drool drool

papersmile's photo
Mon 11/03/08 08:10 AM

Personally, when I join a new site such as this one, the forums are what I'm joining for, and that's the first place I head to. I couldn't give a damn about the "dating" end of it.


same here

however, when i first registered for one of these dating sites, about 2 1/2 years ago, i never even realized that there were forums. it took me about 3 months to find them, and that was only because someone i'd been talking to pointed them out to me.

no photo
Mon 11/03/08 08:12 AM
some like to go "out" and stand next to the wall, watching.....


others

are on the dance floor ...shakin' it!!

shoesmonkey's photo
Mon 11/03/08 08:13 AM
I sure don't want to be a wall flower. I want in on the action.

Dan99's photo
Mon 11/03/08 08:16 AM
Edited by Dan99 on Mon 11/03/08 08:25 AM


Personally, when I join a new site such as this one, the forums are what I'm joining for, and that's the first place I head to. I couldn't give a damn about the "dating" end of it.


same here

however, when i first registered for one of these dating sites, about 2 1/2 years ago, i never even realized that there were forums. it took me about 3 months to find them, and that was only because someone i'd been talking to pointed them out to me.


I curse that day.


Another reason is that some people just dont have their forum cherry broken, if you have never spent time getting used to reading forums, it just looks like a bunch of gobbledegook. it can be quite hard at first to know what is going on.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 11/03/08 08:17 AM
it's like playin a MMORPG,

some ppl get it,

some are good at it,

some just don't get it,

drinker drinker drinker

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 11/03/08 09:24 AM

Why do you think some ppl don't want to get involved in the forum's?


They see the addiction and are terrified of the consequences .... laugh

Pete026's photo
Mon 11/03/08 09:37 AM

Why do you think some ppl don't want to get involved in the forum's?


When I first joined I didn't post in the forums. I'm quite a shy guy, and joining in an existing topic felt like walking up to a group of strangers at a party and butting in halfway through a conversation.
But all the great people on here helped me get over that (to some degree). Now I'm a forum junkie bigsmile