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Topic: advice..
shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 10/30/08 07:39 PM
i have not talked to my bf in a week and he wont answer my texts... any advice would be helpful... thanks Is his name Derek by any chance! why would you ask that??? Sarcasm. Nothing to do with her.

MalenaC Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 749	Thu 10/30/08 07:40 PM
i have not talked to my bf in a week and he wont answer my texts... any advice would be helpful... thanks if he don't answer you or call you back in one day, why would you wait one week? he die or something happened maybe.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 10/30/08 07:42 PM
almost 2 months and no is name is not derek.. Lucky you. why lucky me? Just my own sarcasm. I'm dealing with the same situation. I need to walk on down the road.

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Thu 10/30/08 07:43 PM
i know he is alive. maybe something did happen but i do know he has been online.. so i called him to today and he didnt answer so i left a voicemail.. telling him if he didnt want to talk anymore to just let me know..

apasserby Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 163	Thu 10/30/08 07:43 PM
i must say you all are quite a negative bunch when it comes to relationships. maybe he has something going on in his life. most guys turn away from the people they care about as a defense when something is wrong. or maybe just been really busy. you two have only been together for acouple months there is a lot to learn. i wouldnt sweat it honestly.

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Thu 10/30/08 07:43 PM
almost 2 months and no is name is not derek.. Lucky you. why lucky me? Just my own sarcasm. I'm dealing with the same situation. I need to walk on down the road. im here if u need to talk about it..

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 10/30/08 07:44 PM
I'd say try no more than a few more times and let be, if he calls ask him about it...if he doesn't, well, you have your answer. He could be going through something, could be in trouble...truth is you don't know and we can only speculate about it.

MalenaC Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 749	Thu 10/30/08 07:47 PM
i know he is alive. maybe something did happen but i do know he has been online.. so i called him to today and he didnt answer so i left a voicemail.. telling him if he didnt want to talk anymore to just let me know.. [/quote just another jerk then. don't wast your time with somebody like him .

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 10/30/08 07:49 PM
almost 2 months and no is name is not derek.. Lucky you. why lucky me? Just my own sarcasm. I'm dealing with the same situation. I need to walk on down the road. im here if u need to talk about it.. He's my ex bf. I still care about him deeply and, he know's it. We go out for drink's and, he get's so sarcastic! He's doing it more and more. It's destroying our friendship. He said he's got nothing to lose, talking about us.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 10/30/08 07:49 PM
I've been there... it's an awful feeling and I'm sorry. Right now my bf is ignoring me and I really don't know why. But it's only been a day... a week and I will be a basket case.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 10/30/08 07:49 PM
if hes not returning your calls or texts I say 95% sure hes cheating on you

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Thu 10/30/08 07:50 PM
i know he is alive. maybe something did happen but i do know he has been online.. so i called him to today and he didnt answer so i left a voicemail.. telling him if he didnt want to talk anymore to just let me know.. i seems avoiding you till you give up, sorry but that seems to be the game thats being played.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 10/30/08 07:51 PM
i must say you all are quite a negative bunch when it comes to relationships. maybe he has something going on in his life. most guys turn away from the people they care about as a defense when something is wrong. or maybe just been really busy. you two have only been together for acouple months there is a lot to learn. i wouldnt sweat it honestly. no one is to busy to answer a text. They don't answer because they choose not to.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Thu 10/30/08 07:52 PM
if hes not returning your calls or texts I say 95% sure hes cheating on you so that means you are cheating on me...... I knew it...but what about the baby????? You said you loved me and that I could finally move out of my trailer and into something better with the money you stole from the bank.....

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Thu 10/30/08 07:52 PM
i know he is alive. maybe something did happen but i do know he has been online.. so i called him to today and he didnt answer so i left a voicemail.. telling him if he didnt want to talk anymore to just let me know.. it seems he's avoiding you till you give up, sorry but that seems to be the game thats being played.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 10/30/08 07:53 PM
if hes not returning your calls or texts I say 95% sure hes cheating on you so that means you are cheating on me...... I knew it...but what about the baby????? You said you loved me and that I could finally move out of my trailer and into something better with the money you stole from the bank..... I did it all for the nookie

nvrsaynvr Joined Tue 06/12/07 Posts: 5283	Thu 10/30/08 07:56 PM
A week...hmmmm...doesn't look too good...

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 10/30/08 07:58 PM
No, it doesn't look good. He could answer her if he wanted to. He's being selfish and a coward. I don't care what you're going thru... you don't get the right to make your s/o worry themselves half to death wondering what the hell is going on. You don't get to ignore them without telling them why first. He's being a coward. I've been thru that game one to many times.

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Thu 10/30/08 07:58 PM
he got out of a 5 year relationship were she cheated on him. im the first gf he has had since then.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 10/30/08 08:00 PM
That's not a good sign hon, I'm sorry to say. I really feel for you.