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Topic: can a friend.....
RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 10/29/08 08:18 PM
make a awesome lover???? Y????? noyes guess it depends on if you want a lover or a friend maybe?? well they can be, but i have some female friends i'd like to tap,but if i did i wouldn't be on here Y we are all here...is a whole ohter topic. you mean u would turn a sexy friend DOWN...if she wanted you???? why would u wanna do that for??? because i know them and how they are,thats why i havent.lets say they aint a ooo so ya want an and wouldnt be satisfied with a hhmmmmmmmmmmm i like both in a woman but im saying they arent the most faithful women walking around and if i tap it then they'll fall in love and i dont want that type of love from them would they become stalkers?? i dont know

IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Wed 10/29/08 08:23 PM
So what your saying is that its ok to be their friend and you can think about tapping that when your lonely but they are not good enough for you to consider in a LTR? Hmmmm

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 10/29/08 08:26 PM Edited by RKISIT on Wed 10/29/08 08:29 PM
So what your saying is that its ok to be their friend and you can think about tapping that when your lonely but they are not good enough for you to consider in a LTR? Hmmmm you talkin to me?if you are,no what im saying is they are physically attractive where i would but since i know how they treat their boyfriends,meaning they cheat on them,no i wouldnt want an LTR with them.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Wed 10/29/08 08:35 PM
So what your saying is that its ok to be their friend and you can think about tapping that when your lonely but they are not good enough for you to consider in a LTR? Hmmmm you talkin to me?if you are,no what im saying is they are physically attractive where i would but since i know how they treat their boyfriends,meaning they cheat on them,no i wouldnt want an LTR with them. well....what do these pretty girl friends bring into your life then?? seems an even if she wasnt PERFECT...might get the wrong idea if you had somewhat undesirable desirable friends???

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 10/29/08 08:41 PM Edited by RKISIT on Wed 10/29/08 08:42 PM
So what your saying is that its ok to be their friend and you can think about tapping that when your lonely but they are not good enough for you to consider in a LTR? Hmmmm you talkin to me?if you are,no what im saying is they are physically attractive where i would but since i know how they treat their boyfriends,meaning they cheat on them,no i wouldnt want an LTR with them. well....what do these pretty girl friends bring into your life then?? seems an even if she wasnt PERFECT...might get the wrong idea if you had somewhat undesirable desirable friends??? they bring what most cant,they make me laugh and they like sports,i've known them for 25 years,use to party alot with them,its not like im in touch with them alot,anymore.why the hell am i explaining myself to complete strangersare you interested in me or something

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Wed 10/29/08 08:44 PM
lol...its okay dude...im just wondering if any of these friends (if they are single) .... well...have you ever thought about giving you a chance to make you COMPLETLY happy????

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 10/29/08 08:47 PM
lol...its okay dude...im just wondering if any of these friends (if they are single) .... well...have you ever thought about giving you a chance to make you COMPLETLY happy???? i am "happy" how bout you?

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Wed 10/29/08 08:51 PM Edited by catwoman96 on Wed 10/29/08 08:53 PM
i am happy. not quite completly yet..but happy. thank you for asking!! and im glad you are a happy man!! smiles ROCK!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 10/29/08 08:52 PM
i am happy. not quite completly yet..but happy. thank you for asking!! no problem

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Wed 10/29/08 08:55 PM
Friends are off limits.... Now friends of friends, look out.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Wed 10/29/08 09:22 PM
Friends are off limits.... Now friends of friends, look out. now wouldnt you make an exception for a "specail" friend. if u meet an attractive woman....would u rather seduce her first...or carry on a conversation???

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 10/29/08 09:32 PM
make a awesome lover???? Y????? There would be a reason why she is my "friend"....and that is that nothing more will come of it. Friendship is it. So, guess my answer is no.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Wed 10/29/08 10:19 PM
I can't imagine being a lover with someone I didn't think enough of to call a friend. When you have both;long term close friend and lover, it is truely awesome.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Wed 10/29/08 10:21 PM Edited by msmyka on Wed 10/29/08 10:21 PM
make a awesome lover???? Y????? YES! And a lover can be an amazing friend at the same time

Austinguy189 Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 24	Thu 10/30/08 01:56 AM
make a awesome lover???? Y????? The only people I ever even consider as lovers. If you know everything about a person and still wish to be their lover, then you know you have something truly special. Love is not finding the perfect person. Love is finding an imperfect person and perceiving them as perfect.

cflbikedog Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 2361	Thu 10/30/08 02:33 AM
a friend AND lover in the same person- didn't they used to call that a relationship?

purposebuilt Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 770	Thu 10/30/08 03:12 AM
My friend became my wifes lover.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 10/30/08 03:57 AM
make a awesome lover???? Y????? best kind

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 10/30/08 05:12 AM
BF.......ex bf.....f......fwb.......how f#cked up is this?

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Thu 10/30/08 06:00 AM
a friend AND lover in the same person- didn't they used to call that a relationship? yup!! i think nowadays this term isnt as frequently used though!!