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Topic: Need advice about dating and an ex boyfriend?
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Tue 10/28/08 05:03 PM
broke up with ex about 8 weeks ago, we still keep talking all the time and he's been saying he misses me and loves me etc i've been a bit unsure about my feelings because we've been down this road before but i'm getting to the stage i'm falling for him again....but i've set up a date with another guy tonight and now i'm feeling guilty about it and thinking about cancelling and i don't know if i should say anything to my ex i feel like i should be..i don't know if he's dated anyone else while we haven't been together but i have...so should i be saying anything to my ex or not??

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Tue 10/28/08 05:05 PM
Edited by taboo365 on Tue 10/28/08 05:06 PM
maybe , not sure
i mean yes, er no

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:06 PM
One word. Xanex.

adirtygirl's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:06 PM
GIRL,,, he is an ex for a reason....You should not feel guilty for nothing...You go on this date and have a good time..For all you know this guy could be the man of your dreams and you would be giving it up for who knows what...... After the date you can then decide what to do about the ex

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Tue 10/28/08 05:07 PM
no you shouldn't say anything.. you don't owe him any info. about ur life, as you don't need to know any of his.. x's are x's for a reason...cuz it didn't work out.. go out with the new guy and have fun! you wouldn't believe how quickly the x will disappear from your thoughts when you go out and enjoy yourself!
good luck!


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Tue 10/28/08 05:07 PM

broke up with ex about 8 weeks ago, we still keep talking all the time and he's been saying he misses me and loves me etc i've been a bit unsure about my feelings because we've been down this road before but i'm getting to the stage i'm falling for him again....but i've set up a date with another guy tonight and now i'm feeling guilty about it and thinking about cancelling and i don't know if i should say anything to my ex i feel like i should be..i don't know if he's dated anyone else while we haven't been together but i have...so should i be saying anything to my ex or not??

:smile: Just because you go on a date doesnt mean you are making a commitment.:smile:

dadecountybobo's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:09 PM
everybody deserves a 2nd chance. if u feel he's that one for you go then for it. Aint nobody perfect but peep game and see if its worth it.

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Tue 10/28/08 05:09 PM
Go out on your date!!! Have fun.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:10 PM
Apples and oranges. Grapes or bananas. Victorias bitter or fosters lager. Ketchup or mustard. Make a command decision and stick with it. Being indecisive is not a choice.

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Tue 10/28/08 05:10 PM
xanax? HA THATS REAL AND IT WORKS TO

dadecountybobo's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:10 PM
XANAX? HA THATS REAL AND IT WORKS TO

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Tue 10/28/08 05:11 PM
you can go on a date with me and i make you forget all about him

and ppl if i ever say i wanna get back with my ex you all have the right to come smack me back to my senses

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Tue 10/28/08 05:13 PM
Or xanex.

dadecountybobo's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:13 PM
BUT LIKE I SAID IF YALL HAVE A PAST. MAYBE YALL MEANT TO BE IF YOU GOT HISTORY WITH DUDE AND HE'S FAITHFUL AND DONT LISTEN TO THAT OLD MAN AOUT XANAX. IT HELPS AND ITS GOOD BUT DONT LISTEN TO HIM. HE'S SAYING THE TRUTH BUT THATS IRRELAVENT

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Tue 10/28/08 05:14 PM
Going back to an ex is like going back to that all you can eat buffet...feels good at the time but then once its all over you remember why you said you wouldn't do it again!happy

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Tue 10/28/08 05:19 PM

Going back to an ex is like going back to that all you can eat buffet...feels good at the time but then once its all over you remember why you said you wouldn't do it again!happy


nice analogy drinker

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Tue 10/28/08 05:30 PM
You sound just like me. Take the advice given, it's GOOD ADVICE! My ex is a bad habit for me, he's hard to let go but, I need to. You need to.flowerforyou

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Tue 10/28/08 05:38 PM
huh

buttons's photo
Tue 10/28/08 05:44 PM

Going back to an ex is like going back to that all you can eat buffet...feels good at the time but then once its all over you remember why you said you wouldn't do it again!happy
ahhhh yes... and i thought for some reason it had something to do with 18 months apart noooo im no virgin from this but from wanting to date them again yes im virgin..... i have to say.... i feel stuffed from the buffet and more. learn the hard way like i did if u wish.... enjoy life with the azz ... till then ill choose to change my profile thanks..... good luck

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Tue 10/28/08 05:45 PM
Edited by CLxJames on Tue 10/28/08 05:46 PM
broke up with ex about 8 weeks ago, we still keep talking all the time and he's been saying he misses me and loves me etc i've been a bit unsure about my feelings because we've been down this road before but i'm getting to the stage i'm falling for him again....but i've set up a date with another guy tonight and now i'm feeling guilty about it and thinking about cancelling and i don't know if i should say anything to my ex i feel like i should be..i don't know if he's dated anyone else while we haven't been together but i have...so should i be saying anything to my ex or not??

1. He obviously still feels strongly about you
2. If you are setting up a date with another guy, you certainly arent falling for your ex again. If you were, you wouldnt be bothering with other men
3. Unless you are an idiot, you know that dating another man would hurt him terribly. So telling him wouldnt be for the best

hope i helped

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