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Topic: Need advice about dating and an ex boyfriend?
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Tue 10/28/08 06:37 PM
I had a bad pattern of relationships,back and forth, off and on. And it was a foolish thing to do.
I finally had to drive a stake through their heart, cut off their head, and burn the body because that kind of a relationship will suck the life out of you.

No reset button, no "do overs"
If you want me, I am here.
If you don't, color me Gone.

galendgirl's photo
Tue 10/28/08 06:38 PM
Second helping of the same dish rarely taste, smell or behave any differently...
If you must, you must...but don't let the leftovers go past their expiration date if they aren't okay!

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Tue 10/28/08 10:09 PM
..sounds like you have already made a decision..if it was me, it would be very easy to go out on the date with the new person..but alas, i am only a guy. How about you try something out of character and go out on a date with both of them..out for drinks, simultaneously...switch things up a little, make it fun..make it competitive..

roco

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Wed 10/29/08 12:33 PM

..sounds like you have already made a decision..if it was me, it would be very easy to go out on the date with the new person..but alas, i am only a guy. How about you try something out of character and go out on a date with both of them..out for drinks, simultaneously...switch things up a little, make it fun..make it competitive..

roco


That would be interesting and entertaining for sure!

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Wed 10/29/08 04:41 PM

broke up with ex about 8 weeks ago, we still keep talking all the time and he's been saying he misses me and loves me etc i've been a bit unsure about my feelings because we've been down this road before but i'm getting to the stage i'm falling for him again....but i've set up a date with another guy tonight and now i'm feeling guilty about it and thinking about cancelling and i don't know if i should say anything to my ex i feel like i should be..i don't know if he's dated anyone else while we haven't been together but i have...so should i be saying anything to my ex or not??




Nope. It's NOHB .. (none of his business) .. you aren't together. Period. That's part of the cost of NOT being .. your life is now private :wink:

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Wed 10/29/08 04:44 PM
You are single right? You are not back (as a couple) with your ex right? Soooo.....what the problem is? Go out on your date, see what the other guy brings to the table, have some fun. Enjoy life. Do some cocaine...well...skip that last part...that is for me.laugh

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